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    Smiley Don't let them say NO!

    When engaging the customer in conversation don't ask them questions with no answers ask them questions with yes answers...you want to get the customer to say yes over and over and over again...Get Yes into their heads, helps them to be more inclined to say yes when its time to take them into the back... and when its time to seal the deal NEVER give them the No option... ex: "Would you rather do the VIP or Table dance?" NEVER "would you like a dance now?" to easy for the customer to say NO
    "Here’s to the woman in the high heeled shoes. She smokes the men’s cigarettes and drinks all their booze! When she kisses, she kisses so sweet, she makes things stand that have no feet! She has lost her cherry but that’s no sin cause’ she still has the box the cherry came in!"

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    Default Re: Don't let them say NO!

    on that note, don't start asking "why not" if they do manage to say no. that's a KILLER for your hustle and just continues to waste your time. if you do get a no, try something more along the lines of, "really? because i think we'd have a great time together. and i do want to rub my body all over you <wink, big smile>. let's just do one! it's only $20!"

    Love it!

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    i really need to start paying attention to that bit of advice more! however, my only concern is that i will sound TOO aggressive, which may be a turnoff, if i ask them if they'd rather do a VIP dance or champagne room. though, i guess it's not really what you ask...it's how you ask it...so i could say something like, "so you want to play in the VIP with me or the champagne room?"...but then again, maybe that's defeating the whole purpose of not asking them a yes or no question...

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    Default Re: Don't let them say NO!

    ^ you have to include regular lap dances not jump the gun. as you stand up for a dance/"playtime" then ask, "should we play in the open lap dance area or more intimately?" that way, you can then offer vip vs CR if they choose the latter option.

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    This is a really good suggestion. I will definately use this "no questions that have a yes or no answer" for sure! It has been over 1 year since I have gone back to SC. This sort of advise is actually a sales concept in many other sales positions. Back in the day, during high school, I worked at a well known store, and this was one of the main selling tools. When they are looking, and not sure what they want, continue conversation, and keep them on=point with the subject. If you ask questions that involve them talking more, this even helps for the guys that are very queit and shy.
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    Katia, I remember you as so confident at work! I would never guess you were a shy type when you were there. Just come hit up the Nuden...I'm there now, and it's not a bad place to build your skills back.

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    Molly!
    SO nice to hear from you, and i have been reading alot of your threads. You got it girl!!
    Honestly, I was considering working at Nuden. It's right around the corner from my place. Only problem is, I work in this area, and I also work for the Can Military at the moment, so I have to keep a SUPER low profile here. I need to go out of Ottawa to hustle again. There were a few too many close-calls at Diamonds/
    I think that's what got me out of it. Anyhow, I have my contract until July, and I was thinking of going to Las Vegas! So I need to go back to work to get back into the mental.
    I am actually going out of town this weekend, probably to Montreal. I know that it will be "end of month" and everything, but I have been actively reading up on many suggestions to get my hustle on when I go.
    I just thought that there might be some personal encouragment/hustling tips?
    I am confident in my stages- almost: I have a stip pole in my house!
    you might be able to give me?
    P,S: Let me know if you want to go and work elsewhere during a weekend one of these days. I got hooked up with a "well connected" agency.
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    This is a good sales teqhnique, it's called a "which close..." Instead of saying, "Do you want this?" You say "Which of these things do you want."

    The point I see in general though, is that not everybody is going to buy a dance from you, and you have to accept that. I think a lot of people think that if they could "just say the right thing" someone would buy a dance... but that isn't neccessarily so. And furthermore, some people there really might NOT have 20 dollars to spend on a dance....

    The most productive thing I think to do is to learn not to waste time turning a no into a yes, but in focusing on getting more dances/VIPS from the guys who do like you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by katia808 View Post
    This is a really good suggestion. I will definately use this "no questions that have a yes or no answer" for sure!
    Actually, you don't want to ask the open-ended ones that can just lead to rambling -- you want to make sure you ask questions that you know will have a yes answer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    on that note, don't start asking "why not" if they do manage to say no. that's a KILLER for your hustle and just continues to waste your time. if you do get a no, try something more along the lines of, "really? because i think we'd have a great time together. and i do want to rub my body all over you <wink, big smile>. let's just do one! it's only $20!"
    Good one. Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by katia808 View Post
    This sort of advise is actually a sales concept in many other sales positions.
    Exactly - Straight from Sales 101. I've got to admit how impressed I am with how sophisticated you girls are. I was really expecting something a lot funnier from the title of this thread. Needless to say you can't use the alternative close with Yes, Yes, Yes but they both absolutely work. It's amazing how easy it is to play tricks with the human mind.


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    OK, I don't know if that works in print but I've always gotten the "right" answer of "stop" in person (whenever I felt like being a tool and pissing off the person I was with).

    A great, great, great book that will help you guys hustle is THE sales/marketing book of all time. It's actually a psychology book and very interesting to boot. Robert Cialdini's Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion. It was written like 40 years ago and I guarantee you will not regret reading it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    on that note, don't start asking "why not" if they do manage to say no. that's a KILLER for your hustle and just continues to waste your time. if you do get a no, try something more along the lines of, "really? because i think we'd have a great time together. and i do want to rub my body all over you <wink, big smile>. let's just do one! it's only $20!"
    Just a sucker here telling you how to take my money. Your approach of the asking "yes" questions is real good. What Chrissy added is good also.

    The "Why not?" question is a killer in my book. I am the customer and I may not want to tell you "why not...". Regardless, it is a deal ender.

    Her idea for the hustle is real good, but I would tweak it a bit. There are different types of guys in clubs with different buttons...how about this approach if you get an initial "no".

    First follow up: Stroke his ego a bit and play on his emotions a little (this is the affectionate type of guy). Here is the approach..."Really? Well, I enjoyed talking with you. You are (funny, nice, interesting, fill in the blank). It would be fun to spend time a little more intimately." With this approach you have stroked the "nice guy".

    If that does not work then the second follow up is: "I would enjoy rubbing my body against you." Now you are playing to the strictly "horny guy". When you use this approach use it as a "I would like to do this to you" as opposed to "you would like me to do this to you". This way you further stroke his ego.

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    Quote Originally Posted by John Doe View Post
    Exactly - Straight from Sales 101. I've got to admit how impressed I am with how sophisticated you girls are. I was really expecting something a lot funnier from the title of this thread
    Thanks Hehe ...didn't think we strippers put this much time and effort into what leads up to the lap dance huh?
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    Default Re: Don't let them say NO!

    please could people give a few examples of what a yes answer question is, in the context of a strip club?

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    please could people give a few examples of what a yes answer question is, in the context of a strip club?
    "This is a nice club, huh?"

    "Look at (the dancer on stage), she has got nice boobs doesn't she?"

    "Do you like my top?" * drawing attention to your cleavage *

    Just a few I use pretty frequently.
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    You having a good time tonight, aren't you?

    Enjoying the show, are you?

    The scenery here is awesome, isn't it?

    I have a great ass, don't you agree? (I do so the answer is always yes )


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    Keep the convo fresh... exciting...keep them laughing don't talk about negative things that bring people down and never seem upset. these guys come to the club to have a good time and relax, help them!
    "Here’s to the woman in the high heeled shoes. She smokes the men’s cigarettes and drinks all their booze! When she kisses, she kisses so sweet, she makes things stand that have no feet! She has lost her cherry but that’s no sin cause’ she still has the box the cherry came in!"

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