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    Quote Originally Posted by T-10 View Post
    It is for that reason that all the clubs I have ever worked in expressly forbid exchanges of contact info between customers and any of the people working in the club, not just dancers.

    I guess I am just surprised that any club would not have that same policy considering it is in their best interest. Unless ofcourse the city doesn't have that type of law on the books.
    I've mostly only seen that enforced in Nevada (of all places...) and a few idealistic clubs that relaxed this policy after a year or so in business.

    If you have no priors and good lawyer, I'm sure that a solicitation charge based solely on the exchange of personal information wouldn't stick. Any dancer doing so for legal purposes wouldn't get sucked into giving up her personal info to vice, anyhow. I work for a party dancer agency, and I hand out my info to customers seeking party dancers all the time. There is no talk of extras or illegal activities, merely handing out info pertaining to legal business. If a customer is obviously looking for a hooker, I'm not going to give him my info.


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    Quote Originally Posted by AkashaM View Post
    in vegas its legal to give your number out, thats why. We're not supposed to do it here, but girls do it anyway--they want to keep tabs on regs. i usually ask for their business card, leave a msg with my info and invite them back to the club.i dont give my # out at the club. Even when i get thiers # i make it clear that my interest isnt sex for money---just lapdances ITC.
    Okay, I just saw this. I haven't worked in Vegas since '04. I was told by the clubs that business card exchange is not permitted (back then). I guess they don't mind now.


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    Depending on the type of club and clientele you have, exchanging numbers with SOME customers who seem gentlemanly and profitable is a good move.

    In the rural clubs I work in, I have maybe a dozen guys who keep in touch with me, and since I am booked at a different club each week, it helps me keep the guys coming to see me. About 1/3 of my money comes from guys I have built up as established customers.

    Some clubs don't have the proper kind of customer base to warrant phone number exchange. Some topless clubs have a few customers who spend money in the club who are worthy of private shows, and who won't push for sex, and other clubs either don't have that type of customer, or have guys looking strictly for "dates".

    You really have to weigh out each situation independently. After it all shakes out, you may end up with a handful of customers worthy of a occasional lunch who will still see you in the club and spend money. But realize that it will only be a handful or less, and the others you will have to brush off.

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    If I were you, I would just gravitate towards nice old men who would be HORRIFIED if some girl was licking them. I am sure that not every man who goes into your club is all freak-nasty like that.....so pick out the most reserved, classiest looking guys in the place. And, please, you can compete!! In fact you are better than the girls who stoop to that level... THEY can't compete with YOU girl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    If I were you, I would just gravitate towards nice old men who would be HORRIFIED if some girl was licking them. I am sure that not every man who goes into your club is all freak-nasty like that.....so pick out the most reserved, classiest looking guys in the place. And, please, you can compete!! In fact you are better than the girls who stoop to that level... THEY can't compete with YOU girl.
    Wow Vegas, thanks a bunch! I really needed to hear that. I will try to do better at scoping out the "non-freaky" customers. But hell the guys who seem the most mannered usually are the licky licky freaks.







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    ^^^It's funny, I thought the same thing! LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    ...stripping is going to be more and more dry humping for $$...
    That's classic, if sad.

    And so true. I'm not sure how easy it's going to be to get the customers' focus off their dicks and back on the tease, thanks to the prevalence of the grinding lapdance, not to mention stickshifting, BJs and worse. All you have to do is go read all the threads in CC about adjusting the dick during the dance, or whether the dancers like the boners, etc., etc., to see where the industry is headed. Not only is it all about dick for many customers, but they want the dancers to be preoccupied with dick as well.

    And it's true, you can't always tell by the external appearance which guys are going to be gentlemen once you get back in VIP. The last club I worked in had mostly lowlife scumbags as clientele, and once a well-dressed guy came in and seemed to be acting like a gentleman. I told a dancer I was trying to help out who was a bit classier than most to go get him for the 2-4-1, especially as he was smitten by her stage performance and was very gentlemanly while tipping her.

    He was extremely grabby and bugged the hell out of her about going to his hotel. I had played slightly longer songs than usual for the 2-4-1, thinking she could safely ensnare the guy--and she was suffering the whole time, lol!
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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    tonight while giving a dance, I look over at a dancer who has popped the tit out of a lady customer. She's sucking the hell out of this lady's tit, and then the female custy in turn does the same to the dancer. THEN like 20sec later, I look over, and now the dancer has her crotch in the females face..I swear it looked like her whole puss- was on the lady's mouth.
    ******UPDATE******

    Ok, how about last night while I was giving a dance for this guy, I look over and who do I see...The girl from last time who was sucking the custy lady's boob. I look over, this bitch is riding the hell outta this custy. She turns around, puts her ASS in his face and he's eating her pussy through her thong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YES! I was in utter shock. I was to shocked to do or say anything...

    I later found my manager and discreetly told him about it. He told me that when I find her again, to tell him who she is. I never did because I feel like hell, if ALL these girls are around here being nasty, then obviously you people know about it. If anything, he'd probably just tell that nasty broad to be more discreet in her actions.

    Can you believe that shit!!!







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    CK you can be a clean dancer and still make money, so if you can't find another club, don't give up hope.

    I really wish the extras girls would knock it off. Being a dancer means being a dancer, not a hooker.

    I have nothing against girls who want to be pros, but for cryin out loud, I wish they would be pros OTC on their own tiime, not ITC!!!

    And I defiinitely would not give my number out to custies. Last thing I'd want is for them to be calling me all day/night...it's enough that I deal with them for 6-8 hours in the club. When I am not working then I'd rather focus on other things than work!
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    Default Re: I can't compete..

    by the way you're talking i figured you were in tampa, lol. :| seriously though, i totaly understand. the bizz is changing... and unfortunately it's taking a steady road into whoreville.

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