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    Is is harder for you guys to dance for people you know like your boyfriend, or is it harder to dance for someone at the club?

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    I don't like to dance at home at all- but I do it from time to time when I get tired of the complaints lol.

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    I have never danced for a boyfriend in the club or at home. It would just be weird. In fact, I won't dance for anyone that I know OTC.

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    Boyfriends are not allowed at my club when we are working thankfully.

    At home I do the occasional dance for my boy but unlike at work I allow touching lol.

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    I dance for my boyfriend at home, but would never allow him to come into my club.

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    My boyfriend comes in to watch me dance, and we have fun! I'll give him lapdances in the club too. I always tell him he doesn't have to pay me but he does anyway. The only thing that is hard about giving my baby a LD is that I would rather make out with him instead.

    When we are OTC, I do not dance for him. I would , but usually we just cut to the chase and make out instead.

    Now if somebody else I knew from OTC came in, like a friend or ex-coworker, would I give them a LD? No. It would be too weird.
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    It's not hard either way.
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    OMG Strangers are so much easier! Mt bf is so sweet and utterly cool/supportive- he squired me around to clubs when I was looking for one to work at and we had lotsa fun. And when I found one I liked he offered to come in and get the tips rollin, had to decline tho b/c the thought made me SO nervous. I mean, it's one thing to get over dancing for strangers whose opinions I care nothing about, but it's so much more to me to put myself out for my lover. I want to mind, but I don't wanna do it when I'm new and clueless- I wanna cut my teeth on the strangers and get it down well before I dance for him ;]

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    Yea, my boyfriend got mad at me because I told him it would be easier for me to dance for someone I don't know. That's why I asked. But I could care less what people at the club think of me.

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    I only dance for K if I'm drunk, LOL. He and his friend came home early this weekend and found me dancing around the pole in the living room in my panties and boots, but again there was alcohol involved. I'm still a little embarrassed; they burst through the front door and I was halfway up the pole writhing around to Stevie Wonder.

    It's much easier at the club. I never dance drunk at the club, but at home I feel silly dancing without some social lubricant.

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    I never dance at home. I just dont see the point.

    My ex bf used to come into the club all the time and I would dance for him, but my ex husband I wouldnt dance for him in the club. I think it was because he always.. ALLLWAYS wanted me to dance at home and it just turned me off to dancing for him.

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    I would never dance for my b/f. When we first started dating he would ask me to, but has since wised up!

    I just don't want the same kind of attention from my b/f that I get form the rowdy assholes ITC.

    It would be a HUGE turnoff. I am just too used to going through certain thoughts processes when I'm shaking my booty ("How much $$ have I made so far? Did I remember to Tivo Oprah today?").

    It's like asking your accountant husband to do your taxes at home because it gets you wet.

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    i danced for my best guy friend that i used to hook up with/kinda date, the other night actually. it was weird and i kept giggling, but hey, he wanted a dance and i didnt mind.

    its awkward, though, i think, dancing for people i know.

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    I couldnt do that dance for my boyfriend.

    I wouldnt want to associate the feelings or experienced from inside a club with my boyfriend. I would be afraid of having any weird negative feeling of not wanting to be touched, like custys try, even though its ok that hes my boyfriend.

    I keep business and pleasure separated.=)




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    if i danced for a bf (not in the club, a bf would know NOT to go) i'd probably just couldnt be all serious and sexy and would probably act silly and do goofy moves- like the macarena. i'd probably starting laughing a lot too. i just couldnt take it seriously. and i wouldnt wear stripper clothes. i would probably put on an old wifebeater and my bed sheets.

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    OMG, I danced for my friends and boyfriend all the time. I guess I'm just a slutbag then! At least the people I know wouldn't try to finger me without permission and I could tell them if their breath was rank!

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    Ehh...yeah, I think it is a bit weird to dance for my man for some reason. I have before cuz he bitches and whines about it. I have a pole at home and when I was a little drunk, i played "dirty stripper". I danced for him and offered him some extras in exchange for some money(didn't actually give me real money). Ever since then, he'll ask me to play "dirty stripper".

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    Haha, "dirty stripper", that's funny...
    Ya, I just don't seem to be able to do the same type of dancing for my boyfriend as for customers. Weird eh?!?! I think he's almost glad I don't come home and start grinding on him because he's kind of sensitive about what I do and doesn't need to be reminded of how I dance for customers. Whenever I even wear something stripperish for him he gets weird and asks if I've "worn it to the club or not".. Jeez.
    I never thought about it before, but it could be because these customers don't really know me, and I just feel stupid and un-sexy (except when I'm drunk haha) dancing for my boyfriend.
    It kind of pisses me off, because I'm a stripper and even when we go out to nightclubs anymore, I am just stiff and don't feel like dancing sexy so anyone can see me for free. I kind of resent that I can't just have fun anymore outside of work! Maybe I need to go out with girls instead of the boyfriend.. haha
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    I don't dance for my boyfriend. It doesn't appeal to me, even though he pouts about it on occasion.

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    I couldn't dance for him without prefacing every little thing with the explantion that I don't do this or that in the club. I think we're better off just havng a lot of foreplay on occasion and then getting on with the sex.
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    Definitely. I once did it spur of the moment for a guy I was dating (and it was very quick and playful, not like a <i>real</i> dance. But when my s.o. wanted me to dance, I felt really shy and embarassed and said, 'no". You'd think I'd be more concerned about impressing a paying customer, but I was worried about looking dumb to my g.f. lol.

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    haha well i dance for my man at home, and sometimes he comes into the club acting like a customer... then we end up having a go in my car in the parking lot...

    i like to role play, what can i say!!!! he's the only "customer" i'd hook up with though

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    Corgan, that does sound incredibly sexy, though.

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    yeah... i'm a nauuuuuughty girl.

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    my boyfriend loves it when I dance for him and I love to do it. I also love having my friends come in and dance for them. Tonight, I had one of my best guy friends come in and my ex (who is still my good friend) come in and I danced for both of them - on stage and in private dances. I dont find it uncomfy - I did alot of topless modeling before dancing, and they have all been to my photoshoots before. I dont like dancing for customers in private dances all the time, but I dont mind it.
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