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    I knew there was a risk that people would find out that I was dancing since I live and dance in Melbourne. I also knew that during grand prix weekend it was likely that people who I knew might come in.

    I accepted this risk with the job.

    A group of guys came in that go to my gym and I chatted to them. I feel uncomfortable now about it. I just don't want them to label me because there is a lot more to me than what I do for a job.

    I dunno I think I am just ranting.

    It's like when some people find out u r a dancer that's the only part of u they think about and wanna talk about.

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    Its bound to happen. Especially if you dance around where you live. I got caught 2 times. Once by some guys (I didnt recognize ANYYYYY of them, but they new my real name, where I lived by, etc) When I found out who it was I almost died. One of the guys was the brother of my best friend in 6th grade. (He was like, in 2nd grade when I was in 6th so obviously he had changed a lot)

    Just try not to let it get to you. People will always think shit, no matter what. So just say "Screw it". You know you are a better person that what they may have labeled. Hey, they might not even thinking poorly anyway. But think about it, they were there to see YOU, etc...

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    I know how you're feeling. I had some crazy guy from school tell a ton of my friends last year (boo hoo, he really thought he was going to get laid or something). It's traumatizing at first, but it helps you get a tougher skin about it all.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Awww, dont worry about it. I find so few people care in a negitive sense (actually no one that I can think of currently) about whether you strip or not its really not worth worrying about. besides it doesnt matter what other people may think of you be it good or bad, really! You need to get used to it anyway and deal with it positivly cos it happens to most of us here (-:
    I had people yelling from across the street on Sunday afternoon "HEY I KNOW YOU FROM SHOWGIRLS IN SYDNEY!!!" and "HEY YOU'RE THAT STRIPPER, MAN LOOK THERES THAT STRIPPER!" I just smiled and waved and wished them a good day. I dont think anyone else cared, lol.

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    Once I did a private show for one of my doctors.. didn't even know it until later. o.o;


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    ^^^ Heh classic!
    I have a huge list of people I know who Ive danced naked in front of. I really dont mind, its sort of funny! (-:

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    well i graduated early from high school sooooooo while the other seniors were still attending , a group of the "popular" kids came in and saw me! i avoided them as best as i could but rumors still went around school and most people didnt believe the rumour because i was so shy and innocent doing school! haha so people are prolly still wondering about that lol! oh well that was like 2 or 3 years ago and i have since quit

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    Default Re: my anonymity is gone!

    As you stated, you accepted the risk when you started the business.

    Just that if they do approach you at the gym, just don't make a big deal about it yourself. If you wave to them and such (not overly friendly so they don't get any ideas about 'hitting' upon you) and make out that it isn't such a big deal to you that you are a stripper then (hopefully) they will follow suit... and leave you alone.

    Melbourne is a big city then again so it may not happen too much to you.


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    don't worry about what they think. What matters most is are YOU comfortable with who you are and what you do. If they want to be immature and only see you as an entertainer, then let them miss out on the good individul you are. I once ran into a guy I used to bartend for while dancing. I went up to him and said hi. Then I saw him in a coffehouse months later, and he NEVER mentioned the dancing. Thats maturity. We are all adults here hopefully, and if they want to stick to that, then let them, you can't change that. Just be yourself, lovely and free.

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    Im surprised that it's taken until now for someone to come in who knows me but as you said GCG it is a big city.

    I def dont want them hitting on me, yuk.

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