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    Default Custy coming back, wants to convince me to go otc

    This guy comes in and spends on me but asks me if I do "stuff" outside the club. I act giggly/ditzy and say "no you naughty boy you!" I guess he thinks Im being silly and he has a chance so before he leaves he asks when i work again and he will be coming to see me for sure that day. well when he starts asking me for "stuff" should I keep up the giggly/ditzy thang or be straight up like no sorry, i dont do that but ucan come back and see me here?? Is there a chance I can keep a guy like this my regular just to talk? how can i string him along...

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    Default Re: Custy coming back, wants to convince me to go otc

    I wouldnt do the giggly/ditzy thing. I had a customer do this all the time... he eventually stopped buying dances from me because I wouldnt go out to eat with him, but in the long run I didnt give a shit. My safety is more important than a dinner date, plus possible questions about other "stuff".

    Just tell him straight out, "I dont do anything outside the club. I work here, and this is where my business stays hon" etc...

    If he is a prick, then screw it. Why jeopardize your safety, ya know?

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    Default Re: Custy coming back, wants to convince me to go otc

    I would just be straight with him. You may get a little more out of him if you manage to string him along as long as possible with the ditzy thing, but probably not much. (Besides, I've had customers like that and they're a pain in the ass!)
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    Default Re: Custy coming back, wants to convince me to go otc

    Well, you can be straight-forward, or you can lead him on. If you lead him on, he will keep asking and asking and asking and asking and asking -- it's in the male programming to persist to the death if there is any appearance of any chance, however slim, of getting laid. Eventually -- probably pretty quickly, actually -- he will realize you are not giving it up and may or may not make a scene, after which he will disappear.

    Or you can be straight-forward and say something to the effect of "Listen, I don't want to lead you on. I don't see customers outside the club." Some guys will never come back once they've heard this. A few will accept it. Others will pretend to accept it but continue to beleive that someday, somehow, they'll get you.

    Personally, I like the second approach. I find regulars who hassle me constantly for OTC to be way more trouble than they're worth. I can make good money without them, and who needs the headache? Also, I'm quite fond of taking moral high-roads, and with the second line, I get to be honest while (tactfully, gently) alerting him that he's the one crossing the line by asking me out. If I lead him on, then I don't get to play that card.

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    Default Re: Custy coming back, wants to convince me to go otc

    This fucktard that comes to see me at work is saying the same thing.

    The money has been going down and down lately.

    The other night he only gave me $50 and tried to take up way too much of my time - $50 is a 10 min dance at my club. He gave me $50 and wanted the dance, conversation, to have drinks etc. He told me that unless I saw him OTC he would only spend $50 when he comes in.

    I told him that it was a busy night and I had to work. It's so dam annoying, the money will dry up when he realises that u wont come see him OTC. The money will also dry up if u see him OTC so don't see him OTC.

    To string him along keep playing the ditsy girl until he comes to the realisation that it's never gonna happen. If u are straight up, he will realise it sooner.

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    Default Re: Custy coming back, wants to convince me to go otc

    a regular does this to me, but honestly, i think he knows it's not going to happen. on the other hand, perhaps i'm being naive in thinking that, or just thinking what i want.

    the 1st time i saw him, he got one lapdance then asked if i would meet him outside the club. i told him, politely, that i didn't know him well enough, and that i just met him that night.

    he then came in to see me again, and again, and again, and again, and only got one lapdance each time. about every 3rd or 4th time he sees me, he says that we should take things "outside of the club." sometimes he says we should continue elsewhere...and i say in a really sexy voice, "okay...next week...you, me, on that other couch across the room." it is elsewhere, eh? he's come in after i've said that, and after i basically smile and just roll my eyes in response. the latter is what makes me think he knows he has no chance.

    in any event...yes, he only get one lapdance each time, but one lapdance is a good start to the night (he always gets there early), he's actually nice to talk to, he doesn't expect me to stick around, and he's been to other clubs where i've worked, as well. also, lapdances add up.

    so i guess that's just another take on the whole thing...

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    Default Re: Custy coming back, wants to convince me to go otc

    Guys ask me that all of the time. It's just delivering your line directly but making it sound ditzy.

    him: so do you do anything outside of the club like private shows?
    me: ohhh no, but i'm always getting naked here at the club! *giggle* i work here four to five days a week and i'm always ready for fun whenever you stop in.

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    Default Re: Custy coming back, wants to convince me to go otc

    A guy like this only lasts so long. They usually spend a few hundred initially trying to "butter you up" for what they really want, and when they see it ain't gonna happen, they fade away.

    He doesn't even seem like the private show type outside the club based you saying he wanted to know if you do "stuff" outside the club. There is a big difference in the kind of guy who wants a private show, and the guy who insists on sex. This guy seems like the latter.

    As hard as it is to make good money nowadays, you can't really hang onto a customer that you really haven't gotten under your wing anyway.

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