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    Hello ladies,

    I've had several dances with men whose stomachs are so large I have trouble sitting on their lap forward or backward, and certainly have trouble grinding on them. Can't really lie back on them very well either. I don't know how to show them as much of an enjoyable time during the dance. Please help!
    Also, I'm a fairly small girl, but once in awhile a custy is even smaller and thinner than me. I feel like I'm going to hurt them!
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    Goodness, a man with a stomach large enough to hold 3 watermelons was my initiation into the world of lapdancing. As a newbie I had no idea what I was doing anyway, so that really threw me for a curve. It's hard to give a lap dance when there is no lap.



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    tee hee. My first lapdance was for a guy with no lap. You have to give an airdance, more or less. I always wonder if they feel self-conscious when my body rubs against their stomachs, or if they just like the feeling of being touched.

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    i usually half sit half stand. i put one leg between their legs and the other on the outside and lean on them and move around

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    I do a playful grind on the guy's belly. I pay a lot of attention to their head, neck and shoulders. I work nude, so a lot of spread and masturbation type of poses works well for me too.

    The guys are there for the FANTASY. There is more to a lap dance than getting him hard and grinding on his cock. Tease his brain and his body will be happy too.


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    i lean down and rub my boobs on him, too. ive always wondered if im the only one who has trouble giving bigger guys dances!

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    Quote Originally Posted by exotica00 View Post
    i usually half sit half stand. i put one leg between their legs and the other on the outside and lean on them and move around
    I second this notion....i noticed thats how the overweight dudes get it.

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    I think bigger men know that they're big and they really just enjoy the interaction. Do what you can within your physical comfort zone. Don't pull a muscle trying to straddle or do any other impossible LD maneuvers while dancing for a larger man.

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    i was always victim of the overweight, no-lap, asshole. not your average overweigt nice guy, mind you. the complete ASSHOLE with no lap. if they asked for a dance, i'd tell them, "i can't give you a LAP dance, you don't have a lap. but if you want, i'll dance for you for $40" lap dances were only 25 dollars, and if they took the $40 dance (which about 75% of them did) i'd give them a really lame air dance.
    the nice customers with large stomachs i'd be nice to, and wouldn't charge extra for a sucky dance, just the rude ones.

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    Sometimes I will pull a chair up really close..scoot my butt to the edge of it, lay my ankles on his shoulders and pull my hips up so they are kind of resting on his tummy...then run my fingers down my legs or undulate.

    You can also put one knee on the chair arm rest and hook your heel(other leg in a kneeling position) on the other rest arched over the tummy...then lean your body in close to him...brush your hair on his face..run your finger tips across his cheek or hair...it is more intimate and allows a better body view then trying to lean over his tummy.

    If you are on a couch you can kneel by his side(on the couch) and extend a leg up over his chest...touch your legs or lightly drag your heel over his chest.

    If they are well behaved and good tippers I will take thier hand and trail thier fingers down my leg, my throat or my belly. It lets you control the touching. Sometimes I tease them and tell them it's the special "Tour of Angelina".

    It's sexy to maintian eye contact while they are simultaneously feeling your soft skin...you can whisper that it "feels so good/nice/sexy whatever" in their ear at the same time...you'll have the auditory and tickle of your warm breath. It makes an awesome lapdance if you learn to engage all the senses(except taste..ew)

    Just some stuff to mix it up...cause I don't know about yall but i have never worked in airdance club so my air dance moves are a little lacking/boring.
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    I also do like Paris and grind on their belly. Its just the fantasy. I had a guy in VIp that was HUGE and he loved it. He actually grabbed my hair like reins and said ride it cowgirl! Since it was his tummy, not any nasty parts, I did. And I had fun. Kinda like surfing.

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    I hate it so much when they are smaller and thinner than me too. At least big ones can sort of support you...

    I stand above these types a lot on the couch and touch myself, get on my knees and use my hair/hands, and be generally xtra cautious about my body weight. For some reason, skinny men and women usually buy lots of dances from me, so it must be alright, but when it's over I feel SO relieved!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    The guys are there for the FANTASY. There is more to a lap dance than getting him hard and grinding on his cock. Tease his brain and his body will be happy too.
    Please print flyers and pass that around! Pwetty Pwease.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    He actually grabbed my hair like reins and said ride it cowgirl! Since it was his tummy, not any nasty parts, I did. And I had fun. Kinda like surfing.
    LoL; Cute Kaylinn .


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    The guys are there for the FANTASY. There is more to a lap dance than getting him hard and grinding on his cock. Tease his brain and his body will be happy too.
    Agreed Paris.

    ParkerPosey, in response to Blayze, I find that alot of these men are naturally defensive because they are ridiculed and regularly receive so many randomly snide comments, that they are expecting this attitude from everyone else and don't want to give anyone the chance to hurt them, so they are rude and beligerent first as a way of protecting themselves .

    In my experience, as long as I have respected this type of man and have not been subconsciously discriminating, they have respected me.

    They just want to be made to feel that they are attractive, just like anyone else.



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    Being extra courteous is where it's at. They really would love a beautiful woman concerned about their comfort. Just things like asking if they're comfortable, helping them remove their jacket, lots and lots of eye contact and playfulness, and ohhhh yeah HUGS on their big badass selves!

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    What's really important with larger men, as well as, really small guys too is that you don't let on the discomfort, uncomfortableness, or the what do I do with you reaction. Just carry on as you would anyone else.

    For me, I do alot of things that most girls won't do with big guys and that's try as many different positions as possible. It keeps them busy and full of interest. I massage them, compliment them, and try to stimulate as many areas as possible...

    Giving a great lapdance to a larger man isn't an impossible task. It's just more work. Communicate with your custy ask them how it's going and what they like. This will only help.
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    Parker-

    I think it's awesome to dance for men with big tummies because then your precious little ass will not come into contact with their ding-a-ling. Sorry, but I don't enjoy feeling boners rub up on my ass, although it is a part of the job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    Parker-

    I think it's awesome to dance for men with big tummies because then your precious little ass will not come into contact with their ding-a-ling. Sorry, but I don't enjoy feeling boners rub up on my ass, although it is a part of the job.

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