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    I love a blunt, brassy personality. I love women who are not afraid to get what they want when they want. I love the diva personality, the woman who don't give a fuck about what anyone else has to say about her. She holds her head high when she walks in her fabolous Gucci heels, and heads turn when she sashays by leaving trails of her feminine perfume. She is put together from head to toe.

    The problem is, how do I become that woman? I tend to be so insecure and shy from many years of being the awkward girl in school. I wish there was such a thing as a 'Diva Training school' To all you badass women out there please advice.

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    Many times the person who looks compltely put together by appearance has little to offer from within. Other times the outer appearance reflects on the inner beauty and is a projection of the complacence within. You will not feel much more secure by outer appearance until you learn to overcome the insecurities within. As I stated, many times the "put together appearance" is shadowing the insecurities within.

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    Surround yourself with the people you want to imitate. Do you know anyone IRL like that? Buddy up with them.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    honestly... i'm one of those girls.

    i think you have to be born with it, or be raised as one.

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    ^^^ She's got it right..... it's all about attitude.

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    I dunno... im the girl who everyone walks over.

    I dont wear designer clothes... I dont wear heels outside work and im such a tom boy with no confidence.

    Yet the second I get on stage im the biggest bitch ever ahaha.. then I leave the stage and im all akward again...

    I will never be that confident 'i dont give a fuck girl' its just not in me...

    I think your either born with it or your not.

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    I think it's something that you can achieve even if you're not "born with it". You just might need to work harder at it.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    I dunno.. I dont see myself ever having it lol.

    I wear jeans and sweaters and or hoodies...

    Alena Downs has tried to get me into more girly clothes and wearing heels and having that confidence thing.. but it just doesnt feel like me... I dunno... the confidence isnt there in me to be anyone but who I am...

    Maybe some people can attain it... but I think for the most part its just something you have or dont...

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    ^^^ Exactly my point, it's who you are inside that shows the "badass bitch". Others simply attempt to portray that by wearing clothes that are not really them.
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    LoL its so funny everytime I meet someone from SW... they think im that 'badass bitch' from my posts.. then they see who I really am and get shocked hehe...

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    Maybe I'm optimistic... or maybe I'm on the nurture side of the nature vs. nurture debate... I think if you want to become something badly enough, you can. *wanders off with her rose colored glasses duck-taped to her head*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally View Post
    LoL its so funny everytime I meet someone from SW... they think im that 'badass bitch' from my posts.. then they see who I really am and get shocked hehe...
    *Wants to meet Cally sooo bad*

    I always saw you as similar to me: Good actress, in reality just a little awkward, aloof, and chill.

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    Getting a beer into me though; whole 'nother person

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    I don't know if I'm badass. I don't think so, but I'm certainly not a doormat. What's the in-between?

    And do you have to wear nice clothes to be a diva? because I like to think I can diva it up pretty good in my Sally Ann rags on the bus.

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    Quote Originally Posted by short skirts View Post
    Many times the person who looks compltely put together by appearance has little to offer from within. Other times the outer appearance reflects on the inner beauty and is a projection of the complacence within. You will not feel much more secure by outer appearance until you learn to overcome the insecurities within. As I stated, many times the "put together appearance" is shadowing the insecurities within.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    honestly... i'm one of those girls.

    i think you have to be born with it, or be raised as one.
    Corgan, since I'm just a broke college kid, can I please have your handmedowns? I wanna be a badass bitch to, but on Ohio standards







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    The grass is always greener on the other side. Might I suggest merely becoming that confident in who you already are. Come up with your own version of the "badass bitch" you want to emulate. Instead don't emulate, innovate.
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    Quote Originally Posted by collegedancer View Post
    I love a blunt, brassy personality. I love women who are not afraid to get what they want when they want. I love the diva personality, the woman who don't give a fuck about what anyone else has to say about her. She holds her head high when she walks in her fabolous Gucci heels, and heads turn when she sashays by leaving trails of her feminine perfume. She is put together from head to toe.

    The problem is, how do I become that woman? I tend to be so insecure and shy from many years of being the awkward girl in school. I wish there was such a thing as a 'Diva Training school' To all you badass women out there please advice.
    The problem with this logic is that the true belief that you are a diva and deserve to be treated better than everyone else based on your financial capability and should be bowed to simply because you exist destroys the beauty of the true princess/diva out there that look just as gorgeous and get what they ask for because they make you want to treat them that way because of how they treat YOU. It's a fine line, but it's all defined in that "put together from head to toe" part.
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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver View Post
    And do you have to wear nice clothes to be a diva? because I like to think I can diva it up pretty good in my Sally Ann rags on the bus.
    haha... i would love to see that. =)

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    Corgan, since I'm just a broke college kid, can I please have your handmedowns? I wanna be a badass bitch to, but on Ohio standards
    suuuuuuuure!

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    ok, and by the way, when i say i wear designer duds... it's not all chanel and armani, okay?? I have a wild fashion sense, more towards the betsey johnson end of the spectrum. but, i do love my gwen stefani handbags like they are children.

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    There can be good bitches, and bad ones. Most divas act the way they do because they have low self esteem. I mean the ones who are bitches to everyone, think they're better than everyone, etc. Those types annoy the fuck out of me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    ok, and by the way, when i say i wear designer duds... it's not all chanel and armani, okay?? I have a wild fashion sense, more towards the betsey johnson end of the spectrum. but, i do love my gwen stefani handbags like they are children.
    Aww see I thought you were doing it up like THAT... I'll still take ur handme's though







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    Quote Originally Posted by collegedancer View Post
    I love a blunt, brassy personality. I love women who are not afraid to get what they want when they want. I love the diva personality, the woman who don't give a fuck about what anyone else has to say about her. She holds her head high when she walks in her fabolous Gucci heels, and heads turn when she sashays by leaving trails of her feminine perfume. She is put together from head to toe.

    The problem is, how do I become that woman? I tend to be so insecure and shy from many years of being the awkward girl in school. I wish there was such a thing as a 'Diva Training school' To all you badass women out there please advice.
    Fake it till you make it.

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    I think there is no other way to work in a club other than with a badass bitch attitude. I've had a lot of friends take it to the waffle house after work and forget we are at restuarant and not working anymore, but a badass bitch in my eyes means working it. not designer clothes, or gucci shoes, but they look badass in whatever they rock and they know how to get money. they know when to turn it up and when to turn it off. they own it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    ok, and by the way, when i say i wear designer duds... it's not all chanel and armani, okay?? I have a wild fashion sense, more towards the betsey johnson end of the spectrum. but, i do love my gwen stefani handbags like they are children.
    Betsey Johnson is a goddess. I really wish she'd adopt me. I'm so sad she doesn't have her I <3 BJ tee shirts for sale anymore.



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