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    My regular club where I've been at for almost ten years has closed. I knew and always followed all the rules. Then I go to this new club that had a whole different set of standards. I've been to several full nude places, but not where there was full contact with all the grinding. I've read about it on here but it was a whole different thing to be there on the couch. There were over 20 dancers there but I spent most of night with this one very beautiful, almost perfect looking Asian girl. This finally brings me to the phone number question. She asked me for my # and I just laughed because I thought she was just kidding. but she asked again later so I gave her my card. She wanted to let me know when and what new club she would be working at soon. Is this something that dancers normally do when they plan to change clubs? Are there clubs that allow numbers to be given or taken? Because my old place didn't, but they also didn't allow any sort of physical contact.

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    Default Re: Giving dancers your phone #

    At my clubs (and many clubs) it is considered solicitation for sex and is highly against the rules.

    This does not mean that it is not done though.

    If she got along with you and you were a good spender, she will want to let you know where she is working and when so that she can give u a call or text to let you know when to come in and see her.

    Don't read anymore into it than the dancer wanting to cultivate a regular.

    Don't feel obliged to give out your number unless u want to be contacted by a dancer either.

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    Default Re: Giving dancers your phone #

    The real question i do you like her enough to go see her at the new place?

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    ^^^ Is that really the real question? OMG thank god you pointed that out.

    To the OP, in some areas and in some clubs this is allowed. I give customers who want to contact me my website, so they can keep track of me. This is for business reasons only of course, and this is probably the same for this girl.

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    Agrees with lily

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    I've only done this recently--for the first time. The dancer was cool, had spent a lot of time with me talking & drinking, and I guess my guard was down. She never called me. Funny enough, another time I visited her club, we again shared a few cocktails and she again asked for it. I provided it again, as I got the sense this is part of her hussle and had very little to do with wanting to contact me (or anybody else). Once again, no calls.

    By the way, if she happens to ask again, I plan to decline and suggest she get a better filing system. Ha!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chicagoeditor View Post
    I've only done this recently--for the first time. The dancer was cool, had spent a lot of time with me talking & drinking, and I guess my guard was down. She never called me. Funny enough, another time I visited her club, we again shared a few cocktails and she again asked for it. I provided it again, as I got the sense this is part of her hussle and had very little to do with wanting to contact me (or anybody else). Once again, no calls.

    By the way, if she happens to ask again, I plan to decline and suggest she get a better filing system. Ha!
    I have found this to be pretty common. Most never use the number and of the ones that do it is usually a text message. Trying to keep you coming back. She probably liked you as a customer. You took care of her financially and you were not a jerk.

    The other option is she may have been trying to get your hopes up in an attempt to get you to spend more money that evening.

    Of the numbers I have handed out I probably hear from only about a quarter of them (if that). One dancer did text me about two months later. We had been talking about a nice park about an hour from me. Has a lake, hiking trails, and rock climbing. She had be there before and when she got in the area she sent me a text. We got together for an afternoon of hiking/climbing. Nice time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by crizgolfer View Post
    She had be there before and when she got in the area she sent me a text. We got together for an afternoon of hiking/climbing. Nice time.
    Sounds pleasant. But there was no quid pro quo? She didn't expect you to compensate her time or come visit her in the club a day after the hike? Sounds like she simply, actually enjoyed your company. Again, pleasant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chicagoeditor View Post
    Sounds pleasant. But there was no quid pro quo? She didn't expect you to compensate her time or come visit her in the club a day after the hike? Sounds like she simply, actually enjoyed your company. Again, pleasant.
    No, I did not pay her for her time outside the club. I never asked her to meet me. She was visiting a friend in the area. I spent the afternoon with both of them. Understand, this is VERY rare.

    I have never paid for any OTC, but I have also never hit on any of them. ITC I do take good care of their time, am polite, and quite funny. I have had a couple nice dinners while on the road, they asked and I paid for dinner/drinks as a gentleman would on any "date". I guess I fall into the category of the companionship kind of customer. Every now and then a dancer trusts me enough to meet up. I never ask, they do, and as I stated before, it rarely actually happens.

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    heh phone numbers that guys give me are more often than not thrown out. and the ones i keep i do so for financial reasons, ie to bring them back to the club.

    Love it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    heh phone numbers that guys give me are more often than not thrown out.

    Now, that's not very environmentally conscious.

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    at my club we're not allowed to take their number or give ours. i don't mind because i generally don't do this anyway. i have my regulars call the club to see if i'm working. however... i -have- gotten numbers from big spending regulars before right before i think i might be switching clubs. sinc ei'm pretty happy where i am, i don't do this now because i don't see a need. i'm not going to go out to dinner with them or lead them on with the "possibility" of an OTC meeting... so what's the point?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    at my club we're not allowed to take their number or give ours. i don't mind because i generally don't do this anyway. i have my regulars call the club to see if i'm working. however... i -have- gotten numbers from big spending regulars before right before i think i might be switching clubs. sinc ei'm pretty happy where i am, i don't do this now because i don't see a need. i'm not going to go out to dinner with them or lead them on with the "possibility" of an OTC meeting... so what's the point?
    A good policy that will keep good regulars coming back.

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    I gave my number to only 2 girls over the last 6 years. I would ask them to call me if they weren't going to be working on my night off, which would save me a trip, and show my loyalty to them. Both have moved on, and I don't have contact anymore either, even though I had their numbers as well. Kept it business...

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    I guess there's no point to my question. She told me why she wanted my number. Just had an uneasy feeling about it and needed to be reminded why.

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    i think most of the time they want you to wonder if they are going to call you, so that you must come back and and ask them why they never called and then you get the obligatory 5 more LDs while you are there.

    having said that, i have had a few call me. some for business, some cuz im a charmer cant hurt i suppose.

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    Stupid, stupid thing to do. She'll never leave you alone. She'll call you every time she works "just to let you know she's gonna be there."

    Never do this.

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    Unless you randomly like girls calling you to pay them idk its your decision

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    If she's not giving you her number of her own free will, there's not much chance it's anything other than client cultivation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Stupid, stupid thing to do. She'll never leave you alone. She'll call you every time she works "just to let you know she's gonna be there."

    Never do this.
    Agreed.

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    I've given my number to a few dancers before. I don't normally give my number out but there's been a few dancers who convinced me otherwise. For me it hasn't been a problem. The fav no longer dances and I'm glad we had shared numbers and can keep in touch. Another dancer calls me a couple times a month. Though she's never came right out and asked me to come in or anything I'm sure she's fishing for business. You know thats okay cause she's always polite, funny, sexy, and a lot of fun to talk to.

    The plus side in exchanging numbers is that you are able to prearrange your visits. This is especially important if you're traveling a decent distance to the club. It sucks when you drive all the way and then find out the dancer you've come to see has called in sick or changed her schedule. Also if the dancer knows you're coming in at a certain time she's able to schedule her other regulars on different days.

    The negative to exchanging numbers is that you might give it to a flake. But thats a risk in everyday life too. I've had more problems with ordinary everyday people calling and bothering me than with the few dancers and one ex-dancer who have my number.

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    If I like a gal and she asks for my number so we can pre-arrange future visits, I'll give it to her (prepaid cell), although I would prefer she give me hers. That way, I know she's cool with me contacting her.

    I haven't had a flake call yet. Wish I could say the same thing about telemarketers.
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    In my limited experience on this, when they call or text you, that's because it's a bad night and they want you to come and buy dances. Or their schedule/location has changed and they want to you to continue as a regular. It is NOT A BOOTY CALL, GUYS! Some club managers forbid this, but it can be done easily by clandestinely entering the number correctly into your phone address book.
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    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Huge variety of reasons why a dancer might want your phone number:

    (a) You're a free spending guy whom she wants to come back in again for that reason.
    (b) You're good company and she likes you in for half an hour so she can relax with you before going back to full scale hustle again.
    (c) She thinks you might spend significant money on her OTC.
    (d) You're that rarity - a customer the dancer genuinely likes and would like to meet socially.
    (e) Standard SS - buy a dance and I'll take your phone number (which I'll put in the bin later).

    Ditto reasons why a guy might give it:

    (a) The half hour down the SC once a week is his escape from reality and it's nice to spend it in pleasant company rather than the 'wanna dance' girls.
    (b) He's got 'date the dancer' syndrome and is hoping for an OTC meeting.
    (c) The dancer gives high mileage and his gonads have taken charge.
    (d) He's fallen for the SS.
    (e) He's fallen in love with the dancer and he's going to save her from having to work in the SC.

    Caveat emptor....

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    I have a mental picture of a huge bulletin board in the dressing room with big PL letters on top, and hundreds of phone numbers stuck to it.

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