I'll list the things I'm searching for in a place/town/whatever. I'm open to moving out of the country, if it would be a good change.
Pretty much, I'm going to have to start dancing again due to a change in my relationship status (recent). I'm in a city where I didn't try very hard to make friends (too wrapped up in family stuff, and depressed). I finally started school again in summer term, but missed last term (due to changes). I am just having the hardest time figuring out what to do. I have a couple of wonderful friends, and my family helps with my daughter (sometimes), but I just don't want to move back near them.
- Family friendly (I'm a single mom w/8 yr. old girl)
- Sunny, little rain, not too hot (if possible), doesn't change temperature at rapid paces (I have horrible allergies)
- Low pollution level
- Community College in area
- Good grade schools
- Rent isn't too high (I pay $700 now for a 2 bdrm, and that difficult)
- Good dance club(s) in the area
- Extra-curricular activities for my daughter (swim, music, ect.)
THIS IS SO CONFUSING!! So, I'm in a place where I really don't know anyone, that isn't my ex's friend (he's lived here 13+ years), but my daughter is in a good school. I live right behind the college, so it's easy to get to.
I know it seems it would make sense to stay and deal, and try to make friends (I don't really know how!). I just feel very lost and alone right now. Yeah, I know that's common after break-ups, but I still feel horrible.
For the ladies: please also read my post in the Ladie's section to get an even better idea of my situation.
Oh, I'm not dancing yet. Trying to avoid it until the last second, which is coming up fast.
ALL HELP APPRECIATED!![]()



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Central Jersey is great cause you won't be too far or too close to NYC or PA.




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