since i know that a lot of guys are clueless when it comes to how NOT to compliment a woman, i wanted to clarify something here:
never, and i mean -never- everevereverEVER, not even with the "toughest" seeming girl, should you say anything that can (and will most likely) be heard as "i'm trying to compliment something i think is obviously a flaw of yours"
confused?
i'll give some examples.
dancer has small natural breasts. you love these breasts. what do you say? "honey, don't ever worry about your breast size..."
WRONG
you know what else is wrong?
"i know most guys like big tits, but......"
why is it wrong? it's because (even if it may be good intentioned) you're complimenting her by first stating that you think the compliment is probably not a popular opinion. i get these kinds of compliments on my breasts ALL THE TIME. i also work with a very tall very curvy (not fat... but very curvy) girl who gets compliments like....
"don't ever worry about your weight" and "i like a woman with a little more weight on her" generaly said while doing something stupid like grabbing and shaking her thigh.
in both of these cases "your breasts are awesome" or "you have an excellent body" are 1038 times better. also, complimenting specifics is usualy a good bet because it makes us feel like you actualy notice things. i love when guys compliment something like my collar bones or my nose. of course, don't pick something random *just* to compliment on it... we can usualy pick up on BS. just being up the unique good things that come to your mind, even if they sound weird in your head like "wow.. her shoulders are so sexy.." why not tell her? she might have heard "nice ass" 49 times that night, but how many times has she heard she has great shoulders? probably none.



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