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    My bf of 3 years just broke up with me coz I agreed to do an extra shift tonight.

    I am so over this stupid arsehole loser. I can't believe him.
    He has never been cool with me dancing and I took sat night off and we had a great weekend together and he said he would like it if i had more saturday nights off work so I agreed to only work 3 sat's a month.

    So today my club asked for extra girls to work tonight coz they were desperate and i thought why not i only worked one night last week.

    so now he says he can't handle it anymore etc.

    well fuck him. no i am not choosing dancing over him i am choosing not to put up with an insane arsehole. how can he possible break up with me over that? i am convinced he is not all there.

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    Default Re: ahhhhh bf is an arsehole loser

    that makes no sense.. that is immature and uncalled for... where there other issues before all this, that caused him to go off like that???

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    I'm sorry hun If you feel that way, you're best without him.
    Fools laugh at others. Wisdom laughs at itself...Osho

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    Well he has never liked dancing. But I just agreed to a compromise so that I would only work 3 sats a month so we could spend one sat with eachother.

    I already only work 2 nights a week which is IMO not enough but he can't handle me working any more than that.

    He is just controlling in a passive way. Just coz I agreed to do this extra nnight tonight he totally flew off the handle and said he can't handle this anymore and always knew id choose dancing over him and its over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MishaBliss View Post
    I'm sorry hun If you feel that way, you're best without him.
    Word...hope you feel better.

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    That is immature. You only worked one night last week, it's not like it was everyday. Wtf.

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    What does he want me to do just say "oh ok i wont work tonight?" and then what everything will be ok?

    I think he is unstable. I am so dam angry now.

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    This one was a waste. There are men out there who are okay wth stripping, you'll find one.

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    It sounds like he's being ridiculously unreasonable to me. This is your livelihood! How would he cope if you told him to work less so you could spend more time with him during the week? Stupid man.

    You deserve so much better.

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    Good for you, be strong!
    Im sorry though, it really sucks about his attitude, but it is a form of control (or an attempt to be) so your better off without him in your life.

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    Have a look at Cally -- she was bitter and depressed etc about her break up with her long term bf at the time and now she realises how much better life is without him and without being in a relationship!

    BTW, now you can really focus on being a feature dancer if you so desire! No one to hold you back!

    See there is a positive.

    .................................................. ...................and this is just another reason why I have been single for so damn long now. I'm not willing to compromise my business (as this IS a business not just "job") for anybody. I'm loving it too much even when it "gets" to me.. I bounce back.


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    Default Re: ahhhhh bf is an arsehole loser

    ^^^
    yes u are totally right.
    i totally love the guy but his controlling behaviour is just becoming too much of a burdon.

    i know having your girlfriend dance cant be easy for some guys but what he did today was just ridiculous.

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    Having your girlfriend be a stripper is just as much of a burden as having a girlfriend who is a lawyer, real estate agent, car salesperson or any other profession. In the end, guys who have no problems with our profession/business realise it is all about trust in the end.

    He didn't trust you.

    No trust. No relationship.

    You can't have a relationship with someone if you can't trust them.

    If he bothered to really know you he would have realised that it is just a business like anything else and that is that... no need to take or make it more than that.... yet he did... in his own mind. It is his issue. Not yours.

    He is the loser.

    He was not worthy to have you as a girlfriend.

    The end.



    Oh guys who also have no issues with the business also see you are a person and you first and foremost than you as the stripper. If he could only see you are a stripper then of course the relationship is doomed as he just discounted the fact that you are human and a woman not what you do for a living (as such).


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    Default Re: ahhhhh bf is an arsehole loser

    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    He is just controlling in a passive way.
    That's exactly what it sounds like. IMO, a guy is either okay with it or he's not. He's not just okay with it such-and-such nights a month. You don't need that stress! Screw him.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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