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    Default My search for a sugar daddy....day 2

    So I came up with bright idea to find a sugar daddy. yeah I know...I'm a loser.

    One of my girlfriends told me that she put an ad on Craigslist and took the guy with the best offer.

    I answer one ad. It was well written, so I figured he couldnt be too crazy. The guy who emailed me back sends me his picture. Uh yeah, not anywhere near on the attractive side, but maybe he's a nice person, so keep the email thinking Id answer it later. About 10 mins later he sends another one. I think he has a short attention span, lol. He has sent since yesterday 7 emails. Anyhow the guy is a doctor and a medical author. Ok, his neigborhood not too shabby (actually a wealthy one). Wants to know what I want, how much much support do I need, bla, bla. but I will save this guy for another day.

    The real fiasco came when I place the ad: sheesh. One guy was offering 1K a month for arrangment because he was married. Another married guy was offering a fancy apartment and allowance. It was just really weird. Another guy sent me a very polite email saying how he liked the tone of my ad. Some british guy. We shoot a few emails back and forth and I told him to go to AIM to chat. We chat, and asks me what exactly do I want and that upon meeting, he'd give me an "advance." Recieved some other emails not worth mentioning.

    I think I'll leave this sugar daddy thing alone. Its kinda creepy. And although everyone and thier mama are on CL nowdays, its a city; it has its suburbs (job postings or apartments for rent) and the scary crazy parts (the erotic ads and the chat boards).

    Everyone was talking about meeting immediately for dinner and whatnot. I guess I am just old fashioned; I'd like to at least get to know someone more before meeting them. If you talk to people online long enough, you can get a sense of people's attitudes although it lacks emotion sometimes. From there you can decide if you want to take the chance. I've only met someone socially through the net once or twice in my life.

    Anyhoo, uh yeah. I have to find a sugar daddy at the club--at least I can screen his ass properly.

    I think I need to stop dancing, I'm beginning to crack, lol.
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

    If you're having a party and need strippers, email me with the details and any questions you have. Thanks!

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    LOL!!! I think it's better to look for a boyfriend who happens to have money. I dated a lawyer and a stock broker that way. I was checkin their mojos and sexiness before I even thought about their bottom line. It's better that way. See if they are the generous, loving type. If so, you have a keeper!

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    I have seriously thought about searching for a sugar daddy to. I always check craiglist for interesting offers. I have gotten through about half of sugardaddy.com filing out a profile, then decided against it.
    Problem is....I want a sugar daddy that I can go shopping with, get money from, go to dinner, movies, shows...the end. I wont put out. Thats a tough one to find. For some reason, i used to be able to find them a lot easier than I can now. I have had a few sugar daddies that were fine with my no sex deal. But for the past....2 years I havent come across one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    I have seriously thought about searching for a sugar daddy to. I always check craiglist for interesting offers. I have gotten through about half of sugardaddy.com filing out a profile, then decided against it.
    Problem is....I want a sugar daddy that I can go shopping with, get money from, go to dinner, movies, shows...the end. I wont put out. Thats a tough one to find. For some reason, i used to be able to find them a lot easier than I can now. I have had a few sugar daddies that were fine with my no sex deal. But for the past....2 years I havent come across one.
    I have to be honest I can't see the point of a man just giving someone money and gifts just becuse that dose not make sense to me at all. I don't have a sugar daddie and i am not looking for one i don't want or need that kind of drama hell i don't even want regs in the club agine to much drama. good luck on your seach i quess.

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    It woudl be so cool to have a sugardaddy. Is it possible to find one who doesn't want ANY sexual favors? I think I'm being naive to believe they wouldn't want any..but if there are...please someone tell me if they are out there..







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    Oh, they are out there. Ive met them. But they are very few and far between, and usually locked up by some other hot chick.

    The point of a man giving a girl money and gifts? heres how I see it. An older man has money. He wants a young, hot trophy girl to take out and make him feel young. He enjoys shoppign with her, taking her out to movies and shows and dinner because it makes him feel young. In return, he takes her shoppign, and gives her money. And doesnt want sex. Just wants to be around a young good looking girl. I mean, his wife is older and saggy and unattractive. He doesnt want to cheat, he loves her, btu he wants to feel young and attractive and sexy.

    Well..thats the kind of guy I keep my eye out for anyway. I have met them. there is nothing at all wrong with it, as long as its done honestly. He knows he isnt getting sex, he knows she is out with him for the perks, he knows he needs to provide thoes perks for her company. Everyone is happy. No one is hurt. Life is good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    Oh, they are out there. Ive met them. But they are very few and far between, and usually locked up by some other hot chick.

    The point of a man giving a girl money and gifts? heres how I see it. An older man has money. He wants a young, hot trophy girl to take out and make him feel young. He enjoys shoppign with her, taking her out to movies and shows and dinner because it makes him feel young. In return, he takes her shoppign, and gives her money. And doesnt want sex. Just wants to be around a young good looking girl. I mean, his wife is older and saggy and unattractive. He doesnt want to cheat, he loves her, btu he wants to feel young and attractive and sexy.
    Well I have a guy like that who comes into my club. He's fucking gorgeous and he's a doc. The only downside is he wants to give me g-spot massages. He has no interest in sex because he told me he's older and he has a bad back lol..

    Also, even if they dont want sex, wouldnt' they still want kissing? I'm not down w/ that







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    well...yeah, they want kissing. But that's easily skirted. When I see them comming in for a kiss, I either quickly turn my cheek so their lips land on my cheek, or qucikly give them a peck on the lips. They can tell if you dont want ot be kissed, and if they try to push that..its the wrong kind of sugar daddy.
    And sugar daddies never last. Never. My biggest one lasted a good 2 years before I finally cut him off. he knew we agreed to no sex, and after a while..he started asking for it, I guess he thought if he played it cool and treated me really well, id eventually want to fuck him, but no amount of money in the world can get me to do that. SO I eventually cut him loose. I posted the whole story somewher ehere...I'll look for it.

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    Default Re: My search for a sugar daddy....day 2

    I started on Sugardaddie.com too, just recently, but I didn't pay for the membership. You can't actually check messages unless you pay. I wasn't really sure I wanted to go that route, especially since I have a daughter. What would I do with her while the guy wanted to go out, or on a vacation with me? I just need money, but dancing may not be for me anymore.
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    I'll post some of the responses i got. In my post, I said they everyone must send pictures in thier response (because alot of these guys were playing games). After I edited my ad in efforts to filter out some of the trash, I still got responses from married guys who said, "I cant send a pic because I'm married. Lets meet and I will have some advance money waiting for you."
    Here's one guys response----he sounds like a tourism ad.

    "If you like to travel, why not spend time in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico at a very nice resort to get out of the cold. Obviously, we would get to know each other first and then take it from there. We could get to know each other on the internet thought email & chat, talking on the phone and in person visiting each other or meeting in a fun town like Vegas
    I enjoy a variety of things but especially; dining & dancing taking in new sights, art & craft exhibitions, a drive to the mountains or beach, conversation and quiet moments. I love road trips both in a car and on my Harley. I love listening to the Blues and enjoy comedy clubs. Some of my hobbies are: working-out, photography, computers, pool and gourmet cooking. My music tastes range from Billy Idol to Bach but I prefer Rock, Blues & Alternative. I work in the computer arena developing and implementing databases for companies.
    I'm a 46 year old single white professional, stand slightly over six-feet and weigh 185 pounds. I have brown hair, vey blue eyes, and a mustache. I am not local to this area, but since I am seeking a traveling companion I feel I need to expand my search to include other states. Let me know if you are interested and I’m hoping you have more to say with your response than “send a pic”.
    "
    I ended up deleting him after the second email--he was based in another city and wanted me to go meet him there. No thanks.

    Since I placed the ad, i have recieved about 40 responses.

    here's an interesting one:

    "I'm intrigued by your post. Do you desire someone that will only provide for
    you because they feel the need to 'buy' your time? Are you satisfied with
    the type of guy that would provide that arrangement?

    The reason I ask, is that there are guys out there that are very wealthy and
    attractive (like me) that would be willing to help the person they were
    involved with.. but the goal of that is two fold. First, it's uplifting to
    help someone else with the thought that the love will carry on someday and
    they will help someone else. Second, the relationship can become Synergetic
    after the person helps the other person.. as sometimes a little help is all
    someone needs to take themself to the next level.

    What would you do when you made it to that next level? Would you simply seek
    someone else to take you even higher? Or would you have developed a
    relationship with the original person, not based on money."


    This guy was really young...27.

    One Indian guy sent me an email with a picture of a bollywood star attached! For those of you familiar with hindi cinema, it was Sharukh Kahn....I told him "nice try, but unless you're really Sharukh, don't write me anymore." LOL. He wrote me back saying, "I really want to meet you...I am just nervous because I've never done this before." He then sent me his real photo. At that point I was annoyed--DELETE.

    The search continues....
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    Akasha, you have got to tell me what you wrote in your add. Feel free to PM. Are you looking only for guys in your area, or a ways out?







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    the guy with the big long thoughtful message....i bet you its 'cut and pasted' and sent to every chick on there.
    the best way to meet rich guys, get a job at a bar at a fancy hotel...or just hang out there. find one who you WANT to have sex with, its worked for me.... winky! winky!
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    Quote Originally Posted by canadiancutie View Post
    the best way to meet rich guys, get a job at a bar at a fancy hotel...or just hang out there. find one who you WANT to have sex with, its worked for me...
    not that i know anything about picking up guys but...i do know where different types of guys hang out at.

    for the richer ones: golf stores, golf courses, upscale supermarkets, book stores, better steakhouses, higher-end hotels (cutie's right, usually traveling biz guys), sushi places, and electronics stores (e.g. stereo stuff, camera, apple store, etc.).

    now i'm not saying these are good/nice/whatever guys. only that guys with more disposeable income than your average joe (and not your typical PL's), tend to congregate in these types of places.

    good luck hunting, ladies!

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    Every sugardaddy/very good regular I've had, I've found at the clubs. They were all old and ugly and no, I didn't sleep with any of them. Craigslist is full of cheapskates and random pervs and probably a complete waste of time (except that some of them are super funny).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    Every sugardaddy/very good regular I've had, I've found at the clubs. They were all old and ugly and no, I didn't sleep with any of them. Craigslist is full of cheapskates and random pervs and probably a complete waste of time (except that some of them are super funny).
    One of my girlfriends tried it via CL and she's very well taken care of. But yes there are alot pervs out there. While, most of the responses I have recieved seemed somewhat normal, some of there were skeevy.

    One guy offered 4K a month. He wants me to visit every friday to leave monday morning. But damn, EVERY WEEKEND?

    The weekends are the only days I have to myself.... waaah!!! but suppose I wouldnt have to work so much, right?

    what would be a good offer? what ya'll think? I have no friggin clue what I am doing...it started off just messing around but now...hmm.
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    Sugardaddy = desperate and in need of some either humppity hump or eye candy.

    Girl = Gold digging woman with a truly evil internal system

    Eh...either way both parties win...lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by AkashaM View Post
    The weekends are the only days I have to myself.... waaah!!! but suppose I wouldnt have to work so much, right?
    Shit, you don't consider being at the beck and call of some dude for 72 hours for $1K work? It'd be a hundred times easier to work those three nights and get that money or more in the club!

    If it was a bang a week for $4K a month, that would be a good offer. But that's not a sugar daddy, that's a trick.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    Shit, you don't consider being at the beck and call of some dude for 72 hours for $1K work? It'd be a hundred times easier to work those three nights and get that money or more in the club!

    If it was a bang a week for $4K a month, that would be a good offer. But that's not a sugar daddy, that's a trick.
    LOL, well hey, he never said I had I to bang him!

    When I said not working as much, I meant at the club specifically.

    Honestly the way he put it does not interest me anyways. No one holds my pussy for ransom.

    If I got involved with someone that I was attracted to (or grew to be attracted to), I'd have no qualms about sleeping with him--because I wanted to, not because he was taking care of me financially and therefore felt obligated to.

    Any guy that wanted me tell him what am I like in bed was crossed off the list--if that is ALL they are concerned with, then it cant work. While yes, I want a rich guy, I wont get involved with someone I find dull or offensive no matter how good the offer. Its not ALL about the money (as weird as that sounds).

    ...but I guess thats in an ideal world?

    bah!

    Here's an interesting one--what a keeper

    "I know this is not what you had in mind. but I thought
    I would give it a shot. I apologize in advance if I
    offended you.
    I am going to be honest and upfront with you. I am an
    asian male, 32 yrs old. 5'8, I am overweight. I am not
    obese. I am working out and have lost a lot of weight.
    I am determined to lose it all, but have some ways to
    go.
    I understand if you have a problem with my weight and
    being asian. I don't really have any much experience
    with women. Just doing this to gain some experience
    and to laugh and have a good time.
    I hope you will give me a chance. I know I'm probably
    not what you were
    looking for, but if you take the time, you will know
    that
    I am an easy going guy, laid back, and very funny. I
    like to make people laugh and generally go out of my
    way to make sure my friends are having a good time. I
    don't want this to be cold and business like. I hope
    we can be friends and I will always treat you with
    respect and dignity. Believe me, I am not like other
    men. I know how it goes. Sometimes I am appalled at
    how some men treat women. I've never done anything
    like this before. So i am bit nervous about
    everything.
    I'm just looking for someone to hang out with, talk to
    and laugh with. Nothing serious. Not looking for a
    girlfriend. Just someone who I can have a good time
    with and forget about life for a while. Hoping maybe
    we can do dinner,movies etc and then head somewhere
    more private and relaxing. In terms of donation I was
    thinking of 200 - 300 per encounter for a couple of
    hours of fun in the bedroom. Maybe meet 2-3 times a
    month.
    If you are interested, please let me know. I hope
    maybe we can work something out.
    If you are interested, please tell me something about
    yourself. If you are comfortable with the idea, please
    send a pic as well."

    (sigh) He seemed ok until he started talking that pay-per-fuck stuff. Most of them get it, but this guy clearly didnt. Don't they understand that pay-per-fuck is still prostitution? I always see these ads for guys looking for a "non pro" college girl type to have sex with them for money.
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

    If you're having a party and need strippers, email me with the details and any questions you have. Thanks!

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