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    ok I am new to my club and I got accused of breaking ettiqute when i know full well i did not. There was a custmer sitting by himself no dancer there no dancer drink there or anything I asked him if anyone was sitting there he said no and asked me to sit there i do a couple mins later a dancer comes up and sits right there (which is a breech of ediqute) but i just say oh i am sorry i did not know you were sitting here to which she gives me a speech about ediqute right infront of custy. She is called to stage I ask him if he would like a dance he dose and we some dances I told him i would feel more comfortable if he would buy a dance from her to becuse she was upset and i am new there and did not want to make any waves he is kind and buys a dance from her to but then buys more from me later. Okay a couple days later he come in I say hi to him and sit and talk for a min and anthor girl comes up and tells me i can't sit there becuse the girl on stage (same girl from last time) wants to sit there or whatever I tell the custy i was told i have to leave and I leave. He is upset becuse he feels controlled by the other dancer and dose not like he tells the mangar about he feels unfortable. I go back to him and he buys dances. Then the dj calls me over to tell me that i broke edittqe becuse i stole anthor dancers reg well first of all i am new and did not know he was her reg he wanted the dances from me and asked for them plus he said he dose not want to be a reg he likes enjoying dances from whom ever he choses. actully he said if he wanted to be a around a jelous girl he would just go home to his girlfriend and that he comes to the club to have fun. I am 100% postive i did not breake ettidqe unless edditqute and this club is being a doormat and not makeing my money. what do you ladies think.

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    U didn't do anything wrong. These dancers are threatened by your presence and they are trying to intimidate you. Stand up for yourself now or they will walk all over you.

    That was extremely unprofessional of that dancer to tell u off in front of a customer. I cannot stand girls who bring drama esp on the floor.

    Next time tell her to fuck off and not approach u when u are with a customer.

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    i always have haters at every club i have worked in its frustrating becuse i don't break ettidute becuse i think thats tacky but i am not afraid to make my money . I am learing slowly to embrace the fact i have hates its just a testiment to my awsomeness lol

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    ^^^
    yes it is. there is no etiquette that allows dancers to lay claim on a customer from the stage who is sitting by himself.

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    The DJ actually told you to stop stealing regulars?



    Because there ain't no tits on the radio

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    he said that I stole her reg which was not my intetention at all I will not delibarlty take someone elses money i truely did not know he was hers but he told me he wanted dances why would i turn good money down. I don't expect this custy to be my reg i realy don't care who he buys dances from it is his choice his money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by krchab99 View Post
    he said that I stole her reg which was not my intetention at all I will not delibarlty take someone elses money i truely did not know he was hers but he told me he wanted dances why would i turn good money down. I don't expect this custy to be my reg i realy don't care who he buys dances from it is his choice his money.
    yep agreed.. when girls squable over customers, our housemom says "customers who are spending money have the right to spend their money on whoever they want to, no one owns anyone"....

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    it's his fuc king money!!!!

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    ^ agreed. you did not do a damn thing wrong. if she wanted her reg to not buy dances from you, then she needs to tell HIM that, not you.

    Love it!

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    Dear lord, unless bitchy dancerchick was paying the DJ to help her keep her regs and scare newbie house dancers away, nO ONE should be getting territorial, esp. not the freakin dj.

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    You did not do anything wrong. The other dancers are threatened by you. Don't pay any attention to them. That was very unprofessional for that dancer to tell you off in front of a customer. If she does that again (in front of the custy), tell her that you were invited to sit down by the customer, you will discuss the matter with her in private later, & you and your customer would like some time to enjoy each other's company, and when the customer is ready he will call her over. That should make her leave. Then in private, explain to her calmly that there was NO INDICATION that there was a dancer at the table & that you were invited by the customer to sit down & under no circumstances would you intentionally breach etiquette & "steal" a customer from another girl. Also let her know that you ASKED the custy if you could sit with him before joining him, he said yes, that it is his money & he can spend it with whomever whenever he wants, she does not own anyone, etc. and that everyone is fair game, including the "regulars" who come in to see you. She sounds really immature, so keep your stuff locked up and if there are any rumors spread about you ITC, then you'll know who's talking shit. In the meantime, stay clear of her, ignore her crap, and mind your own business. Show her that her shit does not affect you in the least and if she sees that she has no power in affecting you, she may quit and even gain some respect for you. Make sure you stand on higher ground and do not talk about that dancer to anyone in the club.
    Now as for the DJ-his job is to play music and be an announcer. What goes on on the floor between customers and dancers is not his business. I'll bet you that the girl tips him well & that is why he doesn't want other girls to get the big spender...fear of losing his $$$ because newbie dooesn't tip as well.

    Girl, just do your thing. don't let the other girls get to you. People like this only bring themselves down. Play by the rules, stay positive, and do your thing. You'll come out on top in the end. Trust me. I've seen it time and time again.
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    I think you are being very polite to those girls, which is admirable (yeah girl!). But I think you also need to be a little less nice, because some girls will take that as weakness and try to take advantage of you. Stand your ground!

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    Thank you guys for your resones to this thread. I realy try to be mindful of ediqute in the club and I was very confusesd by this situation but from the sound of it i handled it right

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    Quote Originally Posted by krchab99 View Post
    Then the dj calls me over to tell me that i broke edittqe becuse i stole anthor dancers reg well first of all i am new and did not know he was her reg he wanted the dances from me and asked for them plus he said he dose not want to be a reg he likes enjoying dances from whom ever he choses. actully he said if he wanted to be a around a jelous girl he would just go home to his girlfriend and that he comes to the club to have fun. I am 100% postive i did not breake ettidqe unless edditqute and this club is being a doormat and not makeing my money. what do you ladies think.
    You didn't break fucking ettiquit and everyone in that dam club knows it. I hope you are tipping that cocksucker DJ the bare minimum. I HATE DJ's who hop up in shit they have no business getting into. Krchab, you are being TO NICE in this dam club and the way you are telling me you are just getting up and walking away AND asking the custy to spend money on the other girl just to pacify is just making you look like much more of an easy target. Instead of listening to those wenches, or the DJ why dont you followup with the manager before things get bad. Ask him what the rules are here and explain your situation, without naming names..never name names.







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    You need to get tougher and stop being such a pushover.

    When people think they can run over you, they will and that's what happened here.

    We're all familiar with the unwritten rules in stripping and this BS is unnecessary drama used to try and either intimidate you and/or get you to quit.

    Tread lightly over there until you know who you can trust...which is probably no one.

    But don't hesitate to speak up for yourself and let the dancers, dj, and other staff get an earful if they try to pull rank with you or play you out to be a fool. This isn't rocket science and they can't make up rules that only cater to them.

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    Here's how you get rid of her. When she's not in get into her locker. Take some dog poop and spread it on her thong. Then when she goes to dance she'll smell like crap!

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    The my inner smartass would have said something like, "gosh, maybe you should tell your regulars to stop spending money on other girls." Or "It looks like he isn't your regular anymore." or "Excuse me, who are you again?"


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Quote Originally Posted by tinaflowers View Post
    Here's how you get rid of her. When she's not in get into her locker. Take some dog poop and spread it on her thong. Then when she goes to dance she'll smell like crap!
    This is the first time I' think I've ever said this but umm...I REALLY hope your a troll and not a dancer







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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    This is the first time I' think I've ever said this but umm...I REALLY hope your a troll and not a dancer
    Nah, she's the self proclaimed leader of the

    "ALL STRIPPERS DO EXTRAS OR YALL BITCHES DON'T EAT" revolution.

    Check out "her" response inthe Charlotte, NC thread!
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    I think a lot of newbie's get picked on, especially if they've never danced before. The jealous, catty types target newbies. Trust me, I got a little walked on when I first started because I wasn't sure what was cool and what wasn't. After being there for a little bit, I toughened up real quick and stood my ground, nobody walks on my toes now. The girls now leave me alone because I'll have them for dinner!!!

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    seems to me it would be quite simple to deal with if all the girl was doing was talking some rude shit. just tell her to go fuck herself, right?

    so, what do u do if some bitch in the locker room gets in your face and threatens to kick your ass??? is this a usual senario or am i just being paranoid? im teeny, and i dont know how nimble i can be on 6" heels...

    *worried face*

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