It has come to my attention that I probably dont make much money from this job because I dont stroke egos.
It is not in my nature to stroke a man's ego. I am a bit of a Female Supremacist but I can see how I need to make a change if Im going to make money. But the thing is, Im afraid Ill burst out laughing at my own rediculousness when trying to stroke someone's ego!
I dont even think I know how, or what to say. And really, do they guys buy it? Surely they know Im just doing it for the money? Thats why I dont do it, I figure theyll know Im lying to them.
But then I guess you want the kind of guys who will buy into the fake, "im so happy you walked into my life and youre just the most amazing man ive ever had the pleasure of meeting" bullshit.
I think I also need to get over whats in my nature and what I am all about. I need to remove who I am from the club. But this is my biggest obstacle. I LIKE to show that im intelligent, probably because I dont have a tertiary education and am still intelligent and well read anyway. I like to be seen as classy and sophisticated and sexy. But I am TIRED of constantly getting the "I want you as a girlfriend not a stripper" comments. Im tired of being too girlfriend material and not enough stripper material.
I dont know, I think I need to work hard at looking really slutty and putting on a fake foreign accent so I dont have to say much since I "no speeky english".
hmmm...



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) I admire whatever is nicest about him. When I dance for him, I pay close attention to what he likes, and adjust the dance accordingly. I read in a book about body language that men find it flattering to be looked over from head to toe, so I always do this in a subtle way. Basically, any form of flirtation is flattering, because it's saying to them that you like them enough to flirt with them.

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