Do you ladies find getting the first dance of the shift hard?
I mean at my club it's a harder sell earlier in the shift and that's just a given - their not drunk, they are just settling in etc. But this is more than just that. I have no self confidence until I sell my first dance or first couple of dances and then I am on a roll and I usually do well.
EVERY shift I start off with a "Im not gonna make a single dollar tonight" and "no one will want a dance from me" attitude.
Why am I doing this? Why can't I think back to the shift before when I made heaps of $$$$$ and feel confident from that?
I cant even approach guys at the beginning of the night coz my fear of rejection is so strong.



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When it's early, "maybe later" sometimes really is genuine.


After so many songs, I was just like, "look I know you want me, you've told me a million times. This song is almost over, so when it's done we're goingto go back and you're going to let me make you feel good" I was extrememly assertive, moreso than I usually ever am. Hey, at least I got the dance

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