Yep Dani=me, sans clothes......hah



Yep Dani=me, sans clothes......hah
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Grace walks around in her panties coaxing and cajoling drunk guys into paying her to get naked. Me, I never do that kind of thing. Also, she's six inches taller than me.
Strangely, Alexxa is so much like me it's sometimes hard for me to distinguish the two. I feel like she is the twin I never had. The main differences between she and the real me is that she doesn't cry or have sensitive emotional outbursts, and she is much better at gaining things financially. Alexxa is much more cruel and heartless, especially when it comes to dealing with men.
Lexi, on the other hand, is someone else entirely. She is the main personality I channel at the strip club. She likes to laugh a lot and you can tell because she cracks jokes all the time. She also enjoys being your therapist, but she does it sincerely. Lexi radiates compassion and trustworthiness. She can be a bitch though, but her customers usually feel it is well deserved when it's exhibited against someone who is disrespectful - there is a sense of justice and spiritual comfort in her touch. She is your savior.
Wow, this is inspiring! One of the things that has been holding me back from dancing again is that I think I'm too shy and quiet. My husband was saying he knew a few strippers, and they had very strong outgoing personalities, even outside the club.
But now it seems you ladies do the switch all the time. I bet I could too. Hm, amateur night is wednesday...![]()
Good luck!! Give it your ALL! You'll do just fine :-)
"Here’s to the woman in the high heeled shoes. She smokes the men’s cigarettes and drinks all their booze! When she kisses, she kisses so sweet, she makes things stand that have no feet! She has lost her cherry but that’s no sin cause’ she still has the box the cherry came in!"
Lily is less of a Bitch. She's takes better care of herself. She kinda prissy, like the girls I love to hate.
I on the other hand am more of a hippy, really easy going, dirty. LOL.
I love that I can go back and forth between, and I hope someday she rubs off on me. ( Just a little.)





I think the comment I'd make as an outsider looking in (and a man to boot) is that stripper persona's also seem to let girls develop a degree of psychlological seperation between what they do at work and real life.
Stripping is/can be a pretty stressful way of making a living and I wonder how many girls find it far easier to deal with because they switch from one personality to another when they start work. (And when they finish).
For example, I've known one dancer for 5 years and we've become quite close friends in that time. If I pick her up from work (which I do several times a month) the first thing she does when she gets in my car is pull out some tissues and start wiping off her dancer make-up (which is different from her real life make-up anyway).
It's the mental significance of removing the make-up that seems important to her -
that she's not so much wiping away her cosmetics as her job until her next shift.
Phil.
It's not just about coping with stress, but a lot of guys wouldn't give some of us money (myself included) if we didn't adapt to who they want us to be in some ways. Our stripper personalities are generally a lot sweeter and sluttier than our real personalities. Just as any other person in sales, you have to appeal to your customer.



Summer is the same as me except a little less willing to sit around and bullshit. She's always in it for the money. Real me would rather spend hours with a guy at a bar who's interesting and buys me no drinks than a rich asshole. Not in the club!
It does make it a little harder when you get rejected, because it's as if the customer is rejecting the real you and not your fake persona. I work in a club now though where rejection by people really means nothing cause I have enough regulars.
On certain nights I'll channel a super successful girl that I work with now or used to work with. I'll dress like them, walk around like them, dance on stage like them, etc. But that's only on nights when I feel like making a lot of effort.
Audrey (or Hadley in Reno) is a damn chamelion. For some reason she can read people in split seconds and be smart, stupid, a wanna dancer or give an intriguing conversation. In my "real life" I just dont give a damn what people think. I tell it like it is and if they dont like it (or me) tough sh*t. Im fake to make money - not friends.
Yeah, for reals. I very very rarely put my makeup on at home. And when I walk into the club I'm always wearing the same damn sweatpants and scuzzy jacket. (well, looks like ONE girl isn't getting her faux fur baby phat jacket stolen!!!) and then in 15 minutes i transform into this ridiculously polished, well-made stripper goddess. and i never get into the cab/friend's car without having completely removed my makeup. my dancer self stays just at the club!
in fact, once i wore the same makeup when i went to perform at a ball at my old college. it didn't work out very well because i found that i was annoyed when i was talking to random guys and socializing... because i guess i felt that my dancer self was being projected in an environment where she just wasn't welcome (by my real self, who wanted to be actually social and hang out).
everyone always remarks about how crazy it is, my dramatic transformation... but that's because i keep my stripper self safely in the strip club! as opposed, of course, to a lot of girls that um, are clearly crazy 24/7, and not just 4-8/7.
It's true, I've seen it!then in 15 minutes i transform into this ridiculously polished, well-made stripper goddess![]()
I don't think I have much of a persona. It's just me in a super flirty, party mode - with some makeup on.
I'm confused, but the Chewbacca Truffle Shuffle cleared it up. - Emily



I use to not be able to seperate myself when I went in... I don't know if it's cos I actually used one of my real life names or what? This time around though I've been thinking of using a different name & I'm def. going to seperate the two personas... cos I'm married & have a baby now... so there needs to be a difference.
haha great way to look at it, it makes you focus
It's amazing that so many dancers are quiet in real life. Even having posted here forever I never would have guessed that we have so many introverted strippers. I find that very interesting!
In real life I'm brainy, bookish, quiet, but hard-headed and opinionated. I tend to be blunt and crass. I hate making small talk with strangers and go out of my way to avoid it.
Dancing as Mariah I was the happy go lucky, flirty, party girl who was always a bit horny in a cheeky way. Mariah was classy and sophisticated, or the ditzy, slutty blonde as the situations dictated. Mariah was often impressed with those she met, and always made them feel special and important.
Manchester is also much taller than Theresa, although they weigh about the same. Manchester wears clothes that make her booty go POP, and if you saw Theresa on the streets you wouldn't imagine her having a booty at all. Manchester is a little bit of an exhibitionist, while Theresa doesn't own a single piece of sexy, reavealing clothing, sans your average tank top or jean skirt.
Manchester also acts reaaaaaallllyyyy interested in what stupid men have to say. In fact, Manchester looooooves men. Where in fact, Theresa strongly believes the only men with any ounce of decency are either 1) gay 2) work at strip clubs.
Biggest difference: Manchester showers. Theresa does not.![]()
Frenchy is very bubbly and outgoing, a good conversationalist, is an exhibitionist, has the nerve to use corny pick up lines, makes extensive eye contact, and is very touchy feely - constantly stroking arms and running fingers through hair and she hustles guys and gives dances.
The real me is an introverted homebody with bad social anxiety.
But one thing I share with Frenchy is that we don't dumb ourselves down. Most of Frenchy's customers have a brain, and appreciate that she has one too.


Ruby is intense, mysterious, glamorous, subversively flirty, vastly intelligent, and a little bit silly for the right people. the stripper that isn't quite the stripper type. ruby gets asked "what are you doing here?" and not quite in that "what's a sweet little dolly like yerself doin in a place like this hurr burger joint..." way.
i'm incredibly silly, pretty nonchalant, still smart and a little flirty, but glamorous and mysterious are not the words i'd use to describe myself most of the time. in the strip club i joke that i bumble around like a baby giraffe, but it's much truer IRL.
Last edited by RubyTheRed; 04-23-2007 at 12:11 AM. Reason: had to compliment my conceited ass some more.
When i danced i used my real name, Pamela.
She was not that much different, except i would not wear the clothes i wear at home that i did at work, and being a bitch as i was called many times just meant i had my opinions about my job. I still get called a bitch, hmm i rather like that word, because to meet me i am not a bitch, unless someone starts shit first.
I did not talk much or deal with other dancers. I was there to work, period. I thank the way i acted in the clubs to my earnings. Sure i would say hi, and that was that.
At home Pamela is more relaxed, happy, real. But still do as i please. We have a right to be who we are. I love animals, children then adults.
I actually like to be left alone by many now at home. Dating is fine, and i am seeing a guy (surgeon who is boring) but taking a different path with him, it's kinda nice, he is like me...he wont put up with crap. I like that in a man.
I guess i am at work as i am kinda out of work. I don't play games. I go after what i need or want. And i fail alot, get back up, move on.
Calling one a bitch alot is just rude. Because i have a voice and opinions is not a bitch. I gladly walk away from people full of shit.
Giselle is all the things I love about me amplified x100. But I don't feel like my stripper persona is all that different from me.

I thought of using the name Angel too but I was told its a poor choice of a name in areas with bigger Latino populations (a lot of Hispanic men are named Angel so it comes off as masculine...and many of them share your name lol).
I wear glasses too...any reason not to wear them in the club? Some guys lke them and I do need to see! Lol. I think they give an innocent look. They can be sexy too if you work them right..like put your head down and look at guys with your glasses down a bit ...if that description makes sense lol
Im new to stripping so I'm still trying to get ahold of my full stripper persona. My stripper name is Bambi Leatherand She has a cute little innocent side, but is a dominatrix. She's also seductive in everything that she does, which is the hard part about getting my head around her persona, because I am not seductive. Or at least, I am when I don't try. As soon as I think about it I'm screwed XD




When I'm there, I'm Jade. Jade is another side of me. She's flirtier, cockier, more confident. It took me a very long time to be able to put on another face for work though. Getting older and beginning to give zero fucks helped.
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