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    Yea i've learned my lesson big time this week... dont talk to people when your drunk.

    Stupid me got drunk last night and said a bunch of shit about a girl I shouldnt have said, and I have no idea why I even said it.

    Shes friends with the agent that books me... im fucked that way.

    I feel like a complete low life bitch.

    Every girl on the lineup hates me now.

    Im unable to return to work at that club now for a long time.

    I've worked so hard to get myself a reputation of being professional and sweet and now I just fucked myself over.

    There is no excuse for me saying what I said. Drunk or not there is just no excuse.

    So that plus someone stealing my cell phone(which I just bought last week)... well lets just say this is the kind of day I want to just curl up in a ball and ignore the world.

    Yes I called and had my phone shut off. So thats covered.

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    hopefully everything gets better for u! who knows....she may even forgive and forget withina week.....so are you out of a job now or whats going to happen there? good luck

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    Ah the teething pains of fucking up. Look at this way; most of us and most people will fuck up in a professional/social situation at some point. I daresay everyone. Normally we would all say "learn from it and move on" but you have that covered. Every girl who hates you right now - they've done it too.
    So who was it? What did you say? Not that I'm encouraging you to repeat your mistakes... but what did you say?
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    I told her and all the other girls im sorry, I told them there was no excuse for what I said and I had no right to say it and im not expecting them to forgive me but I just wanted them to know I regret it. I have also taken management aside and said the same thing.

    I am to finish out the week(in a very tense changing room) and im taking an extended break from the club.

    I dont really want to get into what I said because really its downright wrong.

    Im beating myself up for it and I have learned hard core from my fuck up to say the least...

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    We all make mistakes...some big and some small. I hope things get better for you, but when you get drunk...shit definitely happens. Best of luck to you and dont trip about it too much...whats done is done. Just do your thing and let the future and God (if you believe in him) take care of the rest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally View Post
    I told her and all the other girls im sorry, I told them there was no excuse for what I said and I had no right to say it and im not expecting them to forgive me but I just wanted them to know I regret it. I have also taken management aside and said the same thing.

    I am to finish out the week(in a very tense changing room) and im taking an extended break from the club.

    I dont really want to get into what I said because really its downright wrong.

    Im beating myself up for it and I have learned hard core from my fuck up to say the least...
    It sucks that you fucked up, but you did the right thing by apoligizing to everyone for what went down.

    Life's lessons usually suck, but we all have to eventually learn them.

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    Cally, your the bigger person for owning up to your mistakes and apologizing for it to everyone involved. I am sure within time, your apology will be accepted and your mistake forgiven and forgotten. Everyone's been there at some point.

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    Don't beat yourself up over it too much. I know how you're feeling and it will blow over in time. The other girls may be pissed at you right now, but if they're decent people, they'll forgive you eventually. I've gotten shit-faced and said mean things to a DJ before when he was new to a club, and he wouldn't talk to me for the rest of the week I worked with him. I apologized and tipped him more than I normally would the next few times I worked with him, and he got to see that I'm normally a nice person and not a bitch. We ended up getting along after that.

    You apologized and it sounds like you learned from it-just try to take it easy on the drinking. Almost 100% of the things I've done at work that I shouldn't have done I did while drunk.






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    I guess this is why you are so against drinking at work! Try not to worry about it too much. You've done everything you could do to make it better and it takes a lot of courage to apologize after saying something like that. Whenever I'm stressed about something, I ask myself, "Will I care this much in 6 months?" The answer is almost always no. It's not like it's the first time something like that has happened in the club or any club and I'm sure with time everyone will forget and forgive.

    Now I would smoke a big fatty and watch sappy movies all night, but that is entirely up to

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally View Post
    I told her and all the other girls im sorry, I told them there was no excuse for what I said and I had no right to say it and im not expecting them to forgive me but I just wanted them to know I regret it. I have also taken management aside and said the same thing.

    I am to finish out the week(in a very tense changing room) and im taking an extended break from the club.

    I dont really want to get into what I said because really its downright wrong.

    Im beating myself up for it and I have learned hard core from my fuck up to say the least...
    Cally,
    Sounds like you made a graceful and sincere apology. That takes some courage. Acts like that can go a long way - you have demonstrated the strength of your character. You'll get through it ok, and be a better person for the lesson you've learned.

    With all the remorseless anger and violence in society today, it's refreshing and encouraging to hear from someone who has a conscience, compassion and empathy.

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    Its ok give it time I mean Ive said stupid things without being drunk but people will forgive over time. The other day I had like a small heart attack kind of almost hospitalized but I got really depressed from it and told one my best friends to fuck off and never talk to me again cause hes never there to support my decisions. I regret saying it and I know he will forgive me the same will go for you ^^. And I still think your pictures are frekin cute

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    Quote Originally Posted by LatinaRose View Post

    Now I would smoke a big fatty and watch sappy movies all night, but that is entirely up to

    Right on, puff, puff, pass!!!!

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