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    I am a frequent club goer visiting NJ clubs over the past 2 years.

    One thing that continues to bother me are the strippers that wear wedding apparel while stripping.

    As a single guy I am predisposed to looking at the ring finger of a woman, and when I see it in a club it is the #3 biggest turn off I have.

    (Implants that have obviously ruptured or shifted out of place IS #(2) and obvious std growth down-under is #(1) )

    When I see the ring I think two things:
    1) This girl is OBVIOUSLY not available
    2) There is a guy @ home that dropped $$$ thousands of dollars on a ring; much more than the 400 I have in my pocket.

    I NEVER tip a girl that is wearing a wedding ring. Too many college students and single mothers that need the money . . .

    My. $0.02

    I am interested in hearing yours . . .

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    The dancers aren't there looking for dates, regardless of their marital status; any relationship you have with them is only going to be within the confines of the club. So who gives a damn whether they go home to a husband or a cat?

    When I go to the club as a customer, I personally am not interested in the dancers' marital status, as it has SFA to do with me. I'm there to watch them dance, get a lapdance or two, and maybe have an interesting conversation. When it's over, I pay them and go home, and it's over. Why should their spouses enter into the equation at all?

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    Quote Originally Posted by njcustomer View Post
    (Implants that have obviously ruptured or shifted out of place IS #(2) and obvious std growth down-under is #(1) )
    What the hell infested club are you going to that either of these is a huge factor?? I'm picturing a lot of lospided women with genital warts....


    Quote Originally Posted by njcustomer View Post
    When I see the ring I think two things:
    1) This girl is OBVIOUSLY not available
    2) There is a guy @ home that dropped $$$ thousands of dollars on a ring; much more than the 400 I have in my pocket.

    I NEVER tip a girl that is wearing a wedding ring. Too many college students and single mothers that need the money . . .
    Ok..this annoyed me a bit...so here's my opnion...

    Her status has nothing to do with you. Regardless of whether she wears a ring you should consider her unavailable to you OTC. I have been married the whole time I've danced and not worn my ring...and conversely I know several single dancers who DO wear a ring so guys KNOW they wont go home with them....so you cant tell her status by her ring finger.
    You shouldnt be going there with ANY intention of taking a dancer home.
    You should tip a girl who looks good and is entertaining you..regardless of her status...if you arent tipping all the girls I certainly hope you are not sitting at the stage,bar or any other tipping area. And if it is a club where girls come around after their set for tips(lots of places in NJ dont allow stage tipping OR private dancing...this is the only way girls make $$) not tipping a girl just because she is wearing a ring is rude IMO. She worked just as hard to entertain you.

    Sorry I missed the memo where married women dont need money. I'll quit now and give all my money to the college girls and single mothers....apparently the ring on my finger made my independantly wealthy...
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    yea I could care less if she has a ring, let alone a wedding ring, its the fantasy of the moment, I never ever think I am going to go home with one of the girls. So things go easy for me I guess.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameronfl View Post
    ...What the hell infested club are you going to that either of these is a huge factor?? I'm picturing a lot of lospided women with genital warts....

    word. i don't think i've ever seen "obvious std growth down under" ... fucking ew!
    Last edited by PrettyCurlieQ; 03-30-2007 at 10:34 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyCurlieQ View Post
    word. i don't think i've ever seen "obvious std growth down under" ... fucking ew!
    yeah...if this was a prominent issue in a club not only would I not give a crap about rings on fingers...there would be a me-shaped hole in the door I'd get out of there so fast!!! Blech...
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    Quote Originally Posted by cameronfl View Post
    What the hell infested club are you going to that either of these is a huge factor?? I'm picturing a lot of lospided women with genital warts....

    --Disclaimer--
    The genital warts thing has only happened once, at one club with one girl.
    Needless to say I have never been back since.


    Ok..this annoyed me a bit...so here's my opnion...

    Her status has nothing to do with you. --Wrong. To each his own, I'm not into my neighbors wife. Married women are a turn off.-- So I'm just saying that I'd rather pretend(cause thats all it is anywasy) that she is isngle, than have here wear the ring and blow the entertainment)--Regardless of whether she wears a ring you should consider her unavailable to you OTC. I have been married the whole time I've danced and not worn my ring...and conversely I know several single dancers who DO wear a ring so guys KNOW they wont go home with them....so you cant tell her status by her ring finger.
    You shouldnt be going there with ANY intention of taking a dancer home.
    You should tip a girl who looks good and is entertaining you..regardless of her status...if you arent tipping all the girls I certainly hope you are not sitting at the stage,bar or any other tipping area. And if it is a club where girls come around after their set for tips(lots of places in NJ dont allow stage tipping OR private dancing...this is the only way girls make $$) not tipping a girl just because she is wearing a ring is rude IMO. She worked just as hard to entertain you.

    Sorry I missed the memo where married women dont need money. I'll quit now and give all my money to the college girls and single mothers....apparently the ring on my finger made my independantly wealthy...
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    OK, OK I can see your points, and I agree on some, but all I am relaly saying is that it KILLS the illusion of a dancer when she is wearing a ring. Just take it off, and I'll tip generously =)

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    Define generously. In my experience the guys for whom this is an issue are rarely great customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by njcustomer View Post
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    OK, OK I can see your points, and I agree on some, but all I am relaly saying is that it KILLS the illusion of a dancer when she is wearing a ring. Just take it off, and I'll tip generously =)
    Why should a woman need to deny her marriage to get paid for her work? She isnt going to date you either way. Why would a tiny gold band be THAT much of an issue...if you are SO wrapped up in the "fantasy"....maybe a strip club isnt the best place for you. Like Susan said..those are the guys whose definition of "generous" usually differs GREATLY from ours. And as soon as he realizes you REALLY arent going out with him, he never talks to you again anyway.

    Guys bitch constantly about SS and why dancers lie all the time just to get their money. THIS is exactly why. Because more times then not, the truth makes you go home a broke stripper.
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    I think this is more of a younger guy thing. Older customers (that generally spend more) have been going to the clubs long enough not to care.

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    Quote Originally Posted by njcustomer View Post

    I NEVER tip a girl that is wearing a wedding ring. Too many college students and single mothers that need the money . . .
    Well, shucks, what about us poor college students with rings?

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    and what makes a single mother more deserving than a mother with a hubby? you still dont know the background, regardless of marital status.

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    Quote Originally Posted by njcustomer View Post
    I NEVER tip a girl that is wearing a wedding ring. Too many college students and single mothers that need the money . . . .
    So, you base your patronage on who needs the money most rather than who you desire physically? That's just a really odd statement right there. I don't see what her marital status has to do with her finances, or why her finances are any of your business.

    And let me tell you this, no matter what her status, single mom, student, married, etc., if she's good at her job she doesn't need your charity. So, don't worry about who needs it most, we are all making decent enough money that you don't need to feel sorry for anyone.

    Ftr, I don't wear my wedding ring while I work, but I also don't give out personal info (like whether I have a child or what my relationship status is). I can't imagine that anyone is tipping me out of charity, because I would never use my personal details to get tips (and I don't need charity anyway).
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    If you don't like a gal with a ring, find another gal!!! What's the BFD? Besides, as others have already said, with or without a ring won't change how she acts -- in either direction.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameronfl View Post
    ...there would be a me-shaped hole in the door I'd get out of there so fast!!! Blech...
    rofl .. a Cameron-shaped hole in the door!

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    Uhm, I'm a married broke college student, so what's your stance then? I need money just as badly as the next gal!

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    consider it a turn on

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    My opinion, as a patron, is that it doesn't bother me one way or the other. Granted, I am easily distracted by shiny objects, so just try not to blind me with it or anything...

    Just because a dancer isn't married, doesn't mean she'll sleep with you. If you're looking for that, try somewhere else. Personally, I go to be entertained. Although, I do see a point in that it might spoil the illusion for some...kinda like going to a magic show and seeing the person slip out under the box while all the fog is happening. Just enjoy it for what it is...a beautiful woman getting naked for you.

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    Just because a dancer is married, doesn't mean she won't sleep with you either!

    But seriously, I don't really pay any attention to rings especially at strip clubs. If you're a gentleman and act respectfully you don't really need to be checking those ring fingers in the club or outside of it. Outside of the strip club environment, where a lot of dancers hide their status, its usually not hard to tell within a few minutes of conversation. I agree with LatinaRose, the guys who are checking ring fingers are probably younger.

    In the club it really doesn't matter to me. Single, engaged, married..whatever, just help me have a fun time and I'll be happy.

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    If it isnt the youngest of customers who make the biggest fuss about a dancers marital staus...it's the MARRIED guys!!(who are usually the most persistant about trying to get sex too)

    If YOUR ring doesnt stop you from being in a strip club and having fun..why should mine???
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    Its about the Fantasy.. for some guys it makes for a better fantasy if they think shes single (and better odds)... even if its only a 1 in a million that she goes home with you.

    "So you're tellin me theres a chance!!"

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    I understand it is about the fantasy, which is why I never wear my rings at work. but to go so far as to say you refuse to even tip any girl who you KNOW is married is ridiculous. Thats putting a bit TOO much stock in the "fantasy"!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Smokeless View Post
    If you don't like a gal with a ring, find another gal!!! What's the BFD? Besides, as others have already said, with or without a ring won't change how she acts -- in either direction.
    I concur.

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    Okay so , I guess I'll never be a patron in NJ if dancers all have ruptured tits and odd growths on their vagina lips. C"MON!!

    I about died reading this.

    I think I need to purge a tangent.

    Riddle me this, why the fuck does it matter if women that dance there are married, dating or whatever. If we aren't supposed to care about your fucking status.

    While I am not married, but honestly I'd never wear a ring based on not wanting to sit and let go of personal info.

    You know what bothers me and I consider a turn off

    1. Men with stank ass cigar / drink breath

    2. Men that wear gym shorts

    3. Men that are cheap

    There..they suck

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    The lack of a wedding ring does not mean that the individual in question is NOT married, and

    The presence of a wedding ring does not mean that the individual IS married. You can check this one out by asking any experienced hotel/motel clerk.

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