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    Interesting thread.

    I dont wear any rings (Im not married anyway) but I wouldn't wanna scratch them doing pole dancing.

    There are many reasons why a man who comes to a SC will or won't spend money on a girl - not his type, doesn't get along with her personally, etc etc so if you dont like girls who wear wedding bands then don't tip them - who cares!

    I dont expect to make money out of every guy who comes into the club. No one can be everyone's type. Just make sure u dont waste my time if u dont intend to spend

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    Quote Originally Posted by njcustomer View Post
    When I see the ring I think two things:
    1) This girl is OBVIOUSLY not available
    Honey, ring or no ring, it's very likely that that girl is OBVIOUSLY not available to you anyway.

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    i agree take it easy bc that IS the way most guys think, like it or not.

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    Thanks for the support guys.

    It was really just an observation that I was trying to get feedback from . . .

    I'm not trying to get a stripper to sleep with me, etc etc, but it IS a fantasy killer.

    The whole point of a strip club (IMHO) was to be entertained? Wedding bands blow that is all im saying . . .

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    "The whole point of a strip club (IMHO) was to be entertained? Wedding bands blow that is all im saying "


    What, do they come out off the dancer's and smack you upside the head?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    "The whole point of a strip club (IMHO) was to be entertained? Wedding bands blow that is all im saying "


    What, do they come out off the dancer's and smack you upside the head?
    Sorry, I'm not understanding that comment?

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    Oddly, when I was engaged, I made just as much (if not more) money, and I wore my ring at work. Dudes normally would comment that it was a nice rock, I had a lucky guy at home, and dances would commence.

    It wasn't a big deal 99% of the time. The only people that ever seemed to have an issue were younger guys who were looking for a date. It was the best kryptonite for those types of guys I could ever ask for.

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    obvious std growth down-under is #(1)
    What are bringing a speculum with you to the club? What an ass...

    In my SCing experience (which is not exactly inconsequential or insubstantial), the ring doesn't mean a thing. Plenty of fun to be had with married dancers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer View Post
    What are bringing a speculum with you to the club? What an ass...

    In my SCing experience (which is not exactly inconsequential or insubstantial), the ring doesn't mean a thing. Plenty of fun to be had with married dancers.
    I'm an ass?

    I'm happy to end this flame war.

    Thanks to everyone for the opinions.

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    I used to think it was weird for a married woman to be dancing... but now it doesn't matter. I know it may be a turn off, but they are people too. And like somebody else said, just politely say no thanks and go to the next girl minus lopsided boobs and warts ( don't know how they can dance!!!!)

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    Hey NJ Customer what clubs in NJ do you go to where you see those beasts? I am from NJ and the places I go I have never seen anything like you described!

    Back to married dancers, I have had some of my best times getting dances from a married dancer. And she just had her 2nd baby only a few months ago (she has awesome genes her body just snaps back into shape!). She only works the day shift, so I take a little extra time off for lunch, have my jollies then I go back to work. She talks about her husband, and it never even bothers me. She is honest, has never tried to rip me off like some other dancers have tried to. She will give me 3 dances and only charge me for 2. It is all about respect and having FUN. You should try out a married stripper. You know, alot of times they are more fun than single ones. Have an open mind!

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    Quote Originally Posted by njcustomer View Post
    I NEVER tip a girl that is wearing a wedding ring. Too many college students and single mothers that need the money . . .
    I think the girl with the STD growth and ruptured breast implants needs the money more than they do!

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    ^ I agree

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    One thing about wearing rings is that they could get stolen or have the stone fall out while you are dancing.

    A good friend of mine had her mother's ring stolen right off her finger while we were riding a trolley in San Francisco, so it can happen.

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    I have and have not worn my ring while dancing. I have never noticed any difference in the money I make. I am happy, have the gift of gab and have a great time. If there were men that were offended by my wearing a ring they never said anything and it never affected me. I am sure there were some but they kept it to themselves and found someone that they preferred or fit into their fantasy role. So if you see a lady with a ring and it is a turn off move on to the girl that you like without one. Alot of the times you will be missing out on a great person but hey your choice. You are entitled to what you prefer.

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    I have to come back and say that I do think it's foolish to wear your wedding or engagement ring while dancing, but obviously, it's a personal choice that each of us makes. Some decide to wear it and still make their money, but I bet a lot of girls who wear them see a decline in tips and especially a decline in regulars.

    A wedding ring wouldn't stop that Saturday night "wanna dance?" type of guy, but it might scare off a potential regular who would come off with money because of developing that fantasy that you might be available to him. Sure, he knows in his mind that it's probably not going to happen, but that tiny possibility is what a lot of men hold onto in the strip club world. And I am not going to take the risk of wearing my ring and losing customers like that.

    But, just not tipping at all because of a ring? That's stupid. You don't have to get private dances, but why can't you tip her for her stage dance? She's entertaining you whether she's married or not. Therefore, she has earned a tip.

    I have a big problem with the whole mindset of, "Who needs my tip the most?" type of guys. Are you there to give charity or are you there to have fun and have your needs met by the type of girl you actually like? I can think of a lot of gals at my club who look like they could use a charity tip, but it never occurred to me that guys actually think like that. Well, obviously most of them don't because I still leave with a wad of cash every night and I can assure you that no one looks at me as a charity case. For the majority of us, the thought of that is laughable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    I have to come back and say that I do think it's foolish to wear your wedding or engagement ring while dancing, but obviously, it's a personal choice that each of us makes. Some decide to wear it and still make their money, but I bet a lot of girls who wear them see a decline in tips and especially a decline in regulars.

    A wedding ring wouldn't stop that Saturday night "wanna dance?" type of guy, but it might scare off a potential regular who would come off with money because of developing that fantasy that you might be available to him. Sure, he knows in his mind that it's probably not going to happen, but that tiny possibility is what a lot of men hold onto in the strip club world. And I am not going to take the risk of wearing my ring and losing customers like that.
    Not to be argumentative but I kept my regulars even though I did get married and wore my ring. Maybe it was the fact that I lived on a small island at the time but I kept the regulars I had and acquired new ones after wearing the ring. I even moved and still I am able to obtain regulars. I just chock it up to the fact that alot of men love the unattainable. That is the only way I can explain it. I am sure that there are some that see it and turn the other way but they really don't bother me cause I make money anyway. It all comes down to You can't be everyone's type. The men that like me pay me and those are the ones I care about. The others can go to the ladies that fit their fantasy girl type.

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    I have always worn my ring when I work.. Taking my ring off to me, is a disrespect to my husband and marriage.. I have had customers tell me to go away or that they won't get a dance because of it, and I am so ok with that..
    Why would I deny the man I love and respect the most in the world just to amuse someone else.
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    Sorry, rings are a deal breaker for me too. I know I don't have a chance, but hey, I'm paying for a fantasy.

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    I think jaizaine summed it up best in that there are any number of reasons a guy chooses to spend or not spend money on a dancer. To me NJCustomer has an opinion and his reason seems fairly reasonable to me, especially in an environment based primarily on the sale of a fantasy. So his fantasy woman is single ... to each there own. I've heard plenty of less complelling reasons for guys to spend or not spend.

    On the flip side, NJCustomer should be aware that like many have posted on here that a ring or lack there of is not a 100% indicator of marital status. Some have posted that dancers will sometimes wear a ring to help ward off those who are seeking OTC. Taking it a step further, I even once knew a dancer who was single and used the ring as part of her hustle ... "Rescue me from my bad marriage." How's that for the sale of a fantasy!
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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    . Taking it a step further, I even once knew a dancer who was single and used the ring as part of her hustle ... "Rescue me from my bad marriage." How's that for the sale of a fantasy!
    I've done that...more, yes I have boyfriend but hes so mean and I need money to get away...

    In my defense it was only with guys who INSISTED after I told them 100 times that my relationship was fine that they KNEW that strippers all had abusive boyfriends. SO they deserved it..I was fulfilling THEIR fantasy of the damsel in distress
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    Mine is a small gold band, so not very noticable. I remember when I first got married, and R suggested I take it off for work. I don't know, I think I will leave it on.

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    Ya know, I'm well aware of the fact that its our money we are spending and its in our vested interest to get the best bang for our hard earned bucks as customers, but for the life of me, I still, after going to strip clubs for years, cannot understand the total need of many customers to nitpick every little aspect of a club, a dancer, dancing in general etc.

    I go to a strip club with the motive of enjoying whats there, relaxing, and not taking it or myself too seriously, and not thinking about anything translating to an outside experience, and I have a blast every time. Every. Time.

    We men complicate it so effing much.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marko View Post
    OK, my opinion. Give the guy a break, he was being honest. The majority of male friends I go to clubs with think and feel the same way. It is a fantasy that you are selling. He can't buy into it if he sees the ring. A word to the wise and all that... Personally, I don't care what kind of rings you are wearing. I like you, my moneys yours. See you later when the dance is over.

    I agree..this is very common, I'm not married but if I was I wouldn't wear it. I don't want to miss out on any money because of it.

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    My question is why is he paying more attention to her fingers instead of her breasts, ass, face, way of dancing, etc.? I think this guy either has way too much time on his hands or is defeating the purpose of a stripclub and going there for a date and not going there for fun. The thing is, going to a SC for a date is such a waste of time, well most of time, maybe that's why he knows what dancers are std infested

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