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    I agree with the point of it shouldn't matter whether she's married or not, but I do think a ring could hinder the illusion. I wouldn't wear one, but that's just me. I won't say that I'm going to meet a customer OTC, but if you don't have a ring I think it helps to make the illusion that you might if they impress you enough more real. I think it just depends on the guy.

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    what if somebody actually did have a chance and the stripper got divorced and married the customer. it could happen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Torry View Post
    what if somebody actually did have a chance and the stripper got divorced and married the customer. it could happen.

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    LMAO britt

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    Quote Originally Posted by njcustomer View Post
    I am a frequent club goer visiting NJ clubs over the past 2 years.

    One thing that continues to bother me are the strippers that wear wedding apparel while stripping.

    As a single guy I am predisposed to looking at the ring finger of a woman, and when I see it in a club it is the #3 biggest turn off I have.


    I NEVER tip a girl that is wearing a wedding ring. Too many college students and single mothers that need the money . . .

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    Oh yer gonna hear it all right! First of all, I am engaged and I DO wear my ring to work. Whether I am wearing one or not, you have a better chance of winning the lottery than you would EVER have with me.

    Obviously you are the type of guy who trolls strip clubs trying to find a date. This makes you a pathetic loser. Its not that you think that married women are undeserving of your money, you just think you'll have better shot at hooking up. If your looking for a "charity case" to give your money to, then walk your ass down to the nearest womens shelter and give it to the single moms there who could use it.

    A Strip Club is about FANTASY....if I am dressed as a cop/nurse/ hot teacher...whatever, is it going to ruin your fantasy to know I am not what I am portraying?

    Or how about all the men who wear their rings to th SC. Should I just ignore them becasue they have a wife at home who should strip for them? I think not.

    Dude, if a guy ever made the statements you made, I'd slap the taste right out of his mouth.

    This just PISSED me off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by njcustomer View Post
    One thing that continues to bother me are the strippers that wear wedding apparel while stripping.

    As a single guy I am predisposed to looking at the ring finger of a woman, and when I see it in a club it is the #3 biggest turn off I have.

    When I see the ring I think two things:
    1) This girl is OBVIOUSLY not available
    2) There is a guy @ home that dropped $$$ thousands of dollars on a ring; much more than the 400 I have in my pocket.
    Maybe you should consider a third thing, an entirely plausible thing:

    3) She's unmarried, but has gotten sick of customers asking her out at work, so she bought that ring at a pawn shop to keep those guys away in hopes that they'll think that she's married.
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    I dont understand why everyone is jumping down the OP's throat. He is just being honest and I dont necessarily think he is going there looking for a date. A SC experience for most customers is a fantasy.

    I don't know if I would notice something like a ring if I went as a customer but I can definately understand why it would be a turn off.

    Most guys realise they have more chance of winning the lottery than OTC with the dancer but hey people still buy lottery tickets dont they?

    Why take it as an insult? It's not like he posted that he wont buy a dance off anyone over 100lbs - I could understand how that could get people annoyed but even then, he is the one paying, so he has a right to choose who he wants to spend his cash on.

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    ^^ In his OP, what is infuriating is that he has basicaaly said that married women do not need the money, and the fact that he is predisposed to looking at the ring finger to find that the girl is "obviously" not availiable. So by knowing/thinking that she is unavaliable, he will not consider the girl worthy of his money. That is where the insult comes to play.

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    guys typically dont like to discuss/see her BF either. the ring is like this unspoken talk/reminder. im not understanding why this wouldnt hinder the fantasy.

    would anyone buy a lotto ticket if they KNEW they wouldnt win beforehand?

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    Quote Originally Posted by WoodyLV View Post
    guys typically dont like to discuss/see her BF either. the ring is like this unspoken talk/reminder. im not understanding why this wouldnt hinder the fantasy.

    would anyone buy a lotto ticket if they KNEW they wouldnt win beforehand?
    Isn't "winning" a good lapdance enough...for the price of a lapdance?

    If not, my advice is not to buy the "ticket," whether or not she's wearing a ring.

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    If we're tipping based on need here, that half-deflated girl with a crazy lumpy oozy crotch really probably needs it the most.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LapOfLuxury View Post
    Isn't "winning" a good lapdance enough...for the price of a lapdance?
    in reality, yes. in fantasy, no.

    'i' believe a lot guys go to the club for fantasy.

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    Many people are wearing a band that is a family heirloom...which would have cost the husband nothing.
    In fact she could be stripping to support her 2 children and pay for her college education while her military husband is overseas.
    Would you appreciate it if your income were based on your marital status instead of your job performance?
    Quote Originally Posted by njcustomer View Post
    2) There is a guy @ home that dropped $$$ thousands of dollars on a ring; much more than the 400 I have in my pocket.

    I NEVER tip a girl that is wearing a wedding ring. Too many college students and single mothers that need the money . . .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinder View Post
    ^^ In his OP, what is infuriating is that he has basicaaly said that married women do not need the money, and the fact that he is predisposed to looking at the ring finger to find that the girl is "obviously" not availiable. So by knowing/thinking that she is unavaliable, he will not consider the girl worthy of his money. That is where the insult comes to play.
    Oh ok I see your point about that. I don't understand men who buy dances based on charitable purposes anyway. I think the whole dancer sob stories is pretty lame and pathethic anyway. The man should pay based on who he is attracted to physically, personality-wise and/or intellectually.

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    I've been trying REALLY hard, but I can't remember looking at the hands of any of the dancers on my last three strip club visits.

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    ^^Good! I should hope a guys eyes are drawn to my tits and ass as opposed to my hand! Good Mikey *pats head*

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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876 View Post
    My question is why is he paying more attention to her fingers instead of her breasts, ass, face, way of dancing, etc.? ...
    It may not be that he is paying more attention to the fingers vs. those other things, but it may help be one more deciding factor. For example, he goes into a club and sees two dancers with a similar look and similar style ... not that he's looking for a date, but he chooses the one without the wedding ring because it adds to the fantasy. I can see that.
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    The bottom line is guys choose who they dance with for many reasons - some are what we expect and usually based on physical attributes and/or personality. We all know that some of the factors guys use to decide if they want a dance from a particular girl are just silly - like if she's wearing a wedding ring or not. But, it is their money and most of us would just move on to the next customer. We hear "no's" a lot and I'm sure that a lot of those rejections are based on something silly or a particular "requirement" that a customer has.
    However, I think it is VERY rude to not tip a girl based on if she has a wedding band on or not (and what about the girls that wear a ring on that finer just because?). If I did a great stage set and came off stage to a guy refusing to tip me because I had a wedding ring on I would be absolutely livid. That would be like refusing to tip brunettes because you only like blondes.

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    When I was engaged I would switch my ring to the other hand. It seemed like a good comprimise and it helped me get into "stripper-mode". However, the pole dinged it up a bit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish View Post
    Maybe you should consider a third thing, an entirely plausible thing:

    3) She's unmarried, but has gotten sick of customers asking her out at work, so she bought that ring at a pawn shop to keep those guys away in hopes that they'll think that she's married.
    This would be me. I *was* married, but later divorced. Kept wearing the ring because I found it handy to get out of invitations. I never noticed a reduction in tips, dances, or regular customers. Most custies don't even notice until I point it out.

    I think the OP should reconsider not tipping married dancers. You can't possibly KNOW for certain any dancer's marital status. Even if that weren't the case, we're still entertainers dancing for YOU! But then I think of tipping as a courtesy for a service performed, not some kind of carrot and stick. Don't get a private dance if you don't like the girl's boobs, finger jewelry, papilloma virus or syphilitic sore. But not tipping? C'mon...

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    Quote Originally Posted by UtahMike View Post
    I've been trying REALLY hard, but I can't remember looking at the hands of any of the dancers on my last three strip club visits.
    They have hands?

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    I'm married and I don't need any money, I just strip because I'm an insanely horny exhibitionist who wants to tease a lot of men.

    And did I mention how horny money makes me?

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    wedding ring does have an effect on me

    from the 'fantasy' standpoint, it detracts from the experience. I also think that an exotic dancer - a performer - should be doing right all the little things that contribute to a performance. In this respect, a wedding ring means "I know I'm supposed to be cast in this role (of seductress) but I don't care that much. I care about my family and my partner more than my performance image" (which btw is perfectly understandable). It's like wearing a shitty eye shadow, distasteful tan lines/tattoos, badly done nipples/tape, crap costumes... I might even say it's unprofessional (I haven't made up my mind whether I'd take it *that* far yet)

    Definitely not a deal breaker though. And I don't look for wedding rings on girls. I look for the detail generally. Sometimes I notice, sometimes I don't

    PS and for those bashing the "fantasy", it's not really that I want to marry the stripper. But I have to be convinced *during the duration of the dance* that the girl thinks I'm absolutely hot, wants to take me home, and we are totally in love. After all, in many cultures (aztec, shang), the girls would in fact dance for prospective partners and if the mood isn't there, the dance is shit. Ever seen a technically perfect tango with no emotion? BORING!

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    Ring-no ring isn't an accurate indicator of the dancers status. And for casual dances, tips, etc I really don't care anyway. If things, over time, start moving towards an LTR then I do care.

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    I'm with the guys on this one. We're not about to change their mind. Unless the guy was very cool, I was ALWAYS single. Once I said I wasn't, the money would run away. As badass as we ladies think we are here on Stripperweb, there were nights when I NEEDED the money, and giving away that piece of personal info wasn't going to help.

    Why are you all jumping on this dude? I've seen spenders just STOP when they realize they weren't getting anywhere. He has a valid point. Nevertheless, I am glad that some of the ladies still did very well with honesty.

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