



Dude, why do YOU care? We're doing YOU a favor. Better to see the ring upfront, rather than spend time and money on a dancer before hearing her blurt out "Oh my goofy husband did the silliest thing" later, right? The moment you receive this bit of truth in advertising, you can move right on to the next dancer.
-Ev
It was not a ring, but I do admit to being bothered when a dancer told me that her husband was in the Army and deployed to Iraq. I just hope he knows and is happy with it, 'cause those guys are already under enough stress.
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth
Okay - well did you remotely mean by saying that she shouldn't be doing her job (or, excuse me - it upset you that she was doing her job) unless her husband is happy with it?
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth
What I said is that I hoped her husband, off in Iraq getting shot at and driving past suicide bombers, knew that she was a dancer and was supportive of it. Just like I hope that she is supportive that he is in the army and willing to risk his life in a war.
People who are married should be open with each other and accepting of each other. If he did not know she danced, and found out about it while he was deployed, this could have serious consequences.
I was uncomfortable with being told her husband was in Iraq without the companion knowledge that he knew she was a dancer. And, I certainly did not feel like it was a question I should ask. I think this was a case of too much information.
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How on earth do you imagine he would not know? He's her husband. If you did ask her I'm sure she would have laughed her ass off.
Exactly. When custies ask if my husband knows what I'm doing I always laugh. How the hell could he not know? The next question is always, "He lets you do this?" to which my answer is: "Yeah he "lets" me just like I "let" him go to work as an electrician." And the final question: "Is he here?"
Yes. He sits in the corner and plots revenge on all he men that get dances from me. Because he obviously doesn't have a life outside of sitting in a damn stripclub for 8 hours a day.
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says is never accurate because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand." - Bertrand Russell
"It's just a matter of people having low self esteem and being way too easily offended." -Random Guy on a Internet Forum
In other words: Boo-motherfucking-hoo
Oh shit, that's funny. ^
I'm confused, but the Chewbacca Truffle Shuffle cleared it up. - Emily
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says is never accurate because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand." - Bertrand Russell
"It's just a matter of people having low self esteem and being way too easily offended." -Random Guy on a Internet Forum
In other words: Boo-motherfucking-hoo
I only have a very small gold band. Unfortunately it does not come off. So either the guys will get over it, or not spend money. *shrug*
Personally I could care less whether she's married, has a boyfriend, ring on her finger. It doesnt make any difference to me. I guess i'm busy looking at other things than a ring finger,lol. If I get a dance sometimes I will ask if she has a bf or husband just as conversation. If it doesn't bother her bf/husband that she dances why would it bother me? she's there to make money and i'm there to be entertained.
This may have been touch on in an earlier reply, but if we are talking fantasy here how about the fact that you have another man's hot wife dancing for you naked??? Dude, where else can you have that happen for the price of a dance. Oh, and tip...
Btw, why is it so common to have dancers check to see if *I* have a ring? Just curious.





^^ I do it to make extra careful I don't get any perfume or makeup on you, and that I don't give you hickeys.
Thank you for smacking me in the face with something that should be painfully obvious. Me dumb.
Yep..plus it gives me a perfect excuse if they guy starts asking for OTC stuff or extras..."oh I could never do anything like that with a married man...I dont want to be the OTHER WOMAN"
I had a guy try for hours one night to ge tme to come to his hotel room....he was getting married at NOON THE NEXT DAY!!!!! So I guess the plan was...at 4 am take me back ...fuck my brains out for awhile, kick me out..get an hours sleep or so, throw on the tux and take his vows. What a lucky girl. I wish SO BAD I knew where she was so I could warn her.
I told him I refused to be "that" girl...you kow the "stripper I banged at my bachelor party" stereotype. Bleh
Some women wear a ring that is not a wedding ring on their "ring finger" just because it fits, and sometimes they do it so men will not proposition them.
Not all women who wear rings are taken.
That said, who are you to judge that a married woman deserves less money than a college student or single woman? For all you know, the single woman has a sugar daddie, and the college student has a scholarship. What does the married woman have? A dick and a headache.. hehe
All joking aside - I think you should look into the dancer and not the finger.
And, for all you know, there are women who are married who are NOT wearing their rings.
I can understand it destroys your fantasy, but allow me to destroy yours:
If a dancer goes home with you, she's probably gone home with other customers, and furthermore, at the end of your "paid companionship", she'll be going home to a steady boyfriend.
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says is never accurate because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand." - Bertrand Russell
"It's just a matter of people having low self esteem and being way too easily offended." -Random Guy on a Internet Forum
In other words: Boo-motherfucking-hoo





Ehh, every night, all night long, I get guys asking "so what does your boyfriend think of this?" I am quite sure that's what they think is a ridiculously clever way of "asking" if I'm taken or not. Maybe they're all reading over on customerweb about how this is a surefire way to find out the "truth"I do not wear my ring at work btw, it would be a little hazardous plus I want to make sure it's kept safe.
I also always tell custies I'm single because, frankly, my personal life is none of their business and I prefer to avoid as much bullshit as possible at work. For me, it's easier to just tell them NO I'M NOT GONNA DATE/FUCK/SUCK YOU OFF IN THE PARKING LOT than to open up the potential for them to question me about my relationship![]()
To preserve my own sanity, I need severe separation between work and personal. Basically, I feel my relationship and anything related is off-limits when I'm at work.



The fact that a guy bought a dancer a ring is a turn on actually. I remember buying a dancer a ring for her birthday. She loved it and thanked me for it. I think customers should show appreciation to the dancers for working hard to entertain us. Their work ethic should not go unrewarded.
You totally lost me. What does this have to do with dancers that wear their wedding rings on the job? And why are you turned on?
And no thanks. I think the way we all get rewarded for our work is through being paid, and in the case of dancers, tip appropriately as well. It's just too weird to me to buy them gifts like a GF or wife.
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