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    I have a regular that I see, but she works at different clubs on different night on a non-regular schedule. If I don't see her for a while, I have no idea where she will be working next. I normally spend a few hundred when I see her, so its probably in her interest to let me know her schedule.

    Is there any way to ask about ways to contact me with that info? I have no intention of meeting her outside of the club and don't want to sound stalker-ish. How do you normally inform your semi-regular clients of your schedule? (free e-mail? website? aim?) how would you like them to bring it up? Basically, I just don't want to creep her out thinking that I want her OTC contact info. Just be honest? What has worked for you? Ever lose someone because they couldn't find you? She offered to to "have me give her a call" once, but I didn't want the number.

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    Tell her that you don't want to anything OTC and don't want to be stalkerish, but you'd like to know when she is working in case you would like some dances. Sounds innocent enough to me!
    A lot of us have "fake" phone numbers which seem like real numbers but are basically voicemail boxes for us to leave our schedules in the outgoing message. We will also use Myspace or email to keep in touch. Some dancers get a separate pre-paid cell phone just for customers.
    You might also just want to call the club you see her at and ask if she is working that night.

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    since she offered her number, i'd say the easiest way to find out her schedule would be to take it. maybe she could text you her sched., or you could text to tell her you wanted to see her and she could tell you where she would be that night. (i say texting if you don't want to call)

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    this is a plug but since its unsolicited and on topic hopefully the mods will let me keep it.

    check out the website in my sig. i think it will solve all your problems. just sign up and give her your username or number. then she can notify you when she signs up and you can then see her schedule when she enters it.

    its anonymous for both parties so no worries about invading her space or being stalker-ish.

    good luck..

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    I have a seperate gmail account that I use to communicate with my regs, and gmail is cool since it allows notes too- I put in there what outfits they've already seen, song prefs, ect ;]

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    since she offered her number, i'd say the easiest way to find out her schedule would be to take it. maybe she could text you her sched., or you could text to tell her you wanted to see her and she could tell you where she would be that night. (i say texting if you don't want to call)
    Sorry, but that's playing with fire. You call her and you're stuck with the choice between a non-answered private name private number on your behalf and her getting YOUR cell phone number. last i did that i wound up with a girl calling me every time she worked just to "let me know she'd be there." Five or six days a week i'd get this call. How much cash does this chick think i got?!?!?!

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    What's wrong with email?
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    personally i dont care to be on a girls 'mailing list' when shes soliciting 100's of guys at one time in a email to come help pay her rent. thats been my experience with email.

    i just want to know if she will be there when i want to go or not.

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    Default Re: Finding out a schedule

    Calling the club most often doesn't work. If you do happen to get ahold of someone who actually knows the schedule he/she is as likely to lie to you as not. Email works well assuming she bothers to respond. As do cell phones which can be handled pretty anonymously with the prepaid type if the dancer is worried about privacy. Years ago, I used to depend upon chance to see the dancer(s) I was interested in. Not anymore...I don't have the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WoodyLV View Post
    personally i dont care to be on a girls 'mailing list' when shes soliciting 100's of guys at one time in a email to come help pay her rent. thats been my experience with email.

    i just want to know if she will be there when i want to go or not.
    And - an email list of her schedule won't let you know that? I give customers who want my schedule an email; they then email me, if they want. I then let them know (if they want) on a weekly basis what day I will be working. If they want to email me and ask if I will be working/willing to work a particular night, they can do that too. Anything else is making it ridiculously complicated in my opinion.
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    The MySpace calendar works great for that if you set up a work profile. I would suggest that to her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    And - an email list of her schedule won't let you know that? I give customers who want my schedule an email; they then email me, if they want. I then let them know (if they want) on a weekly basis what day I will be working. If they want to email me and ask if I will be working/willing to work a particular night, they can do that too. Anything else is making it ridiculously complicated in my opinion.

    i believe you are the exception (in SC world not SW). plus, i usually dont 'plan' my SC visits days in advance and send an email requesting a schedule. usually my trip is decided the same night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex View Post
    Tell her that you don't want to anything OTC and don't want to be stalkerish, but you'd like to know when she is working in case you would like some dances. Sounds innocent enough to me!
    A lot of us have "fake" phone numbers which seem like real numbers but are basically voicemail boxes for us to leave our schedules in the outgoing message. We will also use Myspace or email to keep in touch. Some dancers get a separate pre-paid cell phone just for customers.
    You might also just want to call the club you see her at and ask if she is working that night.
    Some clubs refuse to give out any information about who is working there or when.
    Definately see where they're coming from there.

    But the other stuff about asking her is good.
    I guess her preferred method (email, myspace, work phone) is up to her, or she might say no, but it can't hurt to ask, right?

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    How about trying to ask another girl if so and so is working tonight, or if she's still working here, etc.
    I've never tried this, but any thoughts on how that would work?
    Last edited by Ron Mexico 7; 04-04-2007 at 08:44 AM.

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    Default Re: Finding out a schedule

    After a girls known you for a while, and she's decided you're:

    (a) Good company
    (b) Will spend money on her
    (c) Unlikely to cause her problems

    they'll generally find ways of letting you know where and when they're working.

    If this does happen, best thing to do is keep the checks short and sweet - text messages and one line e-mails are good.

    Most dancers I know have had bad experiences with guys who get their phone number, try and ring it 10 times a day, and aren't discouraged by not getting answers to their repeated messages.

    Not the best way to get into her good books.

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    I'll tell you this. The veteran dancer who has landed an interested gentlemanly customer who spent $150 plus in the club on her 9 times out of 10 WILL exchange phone numbers so that she can keep this guy and others like him coming to see her wherever she may be working.

    The smart veteran dancers most of the time have talked on the phone with these types of customers and know what day and time the guy will be in to see them.

    That is why many novice dancers wonder how the older veteran dancer consistently outearns her. They treat dancing like a business. If a guy spends on you and seems decent, he should be in your black book and you in his.

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    when it comes to me, I have multiple ways for people to be able to find out when and where I'm working, but they can always find it one way or another through my main site: christywild.net But yeah, the more ways they can find that out the better.
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