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    Okay, this may sound pretty frivolous but it's a problem for me. I recently developed a huge crush on someone. I don't crush easily (probably for about 2 years) and it's incredibly distracting. I think about him constantly. I'm trying to draw it out, esp. since I don't get many chances to see him in real life, so I don't think I'll be able to do anything beyond internet flirting for a while.

    And it is just messing up my game. Last night... well last night was pretty bad (one of those nights where over 2/3rds of the night girls leave but there are still not enough customers). But me? I stayed sitting in the back, or by the dj booth, or at the bar, and only approached about 2 guys all night. But I was fine with that because I just was thinking about this guy the whole time. It doesn't help to imagine him there (bla, I don't even think he knows about my job) and I had no success trying to motivate myself with images of blinging champagne dinners or anything.

    Can someone give me any advice? It's such a problem for me because this feeling in myself is really rare and I'm having trouble dealing with it b/c it just takes over eeeverything...

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    Yesterday did suck pretty bad huh?

    You just posted about not being attracted to anyone and now you've got a crush? That's fun. I definitely know how distracting it can be, so I understand. I don't really have any advice - I was going to say, imagine he is there watching you, but you tried that already.

    Just try to approach people anyway, I guess just make it automatic.
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    Default Re: distracted at work

    Is this someone that works with you or IRL?

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    It's IRL. I just read her other thread about it. I had an in the club crush once and that was crazy. Made me distracted - but also all kinds of horny so I think it actually helped a bit.
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    Aw. Enjoy it. It'll pass.

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    This works for me when I'm distracted - print out some tips from hustle hut and keep them in your bag. When you find yourself distracted, go read them, then get out on the floor and use them!!

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    I've had that problem many-a-time. I tried to imagine that he was there. It helped a little. Sorry that i can't help more.
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