Just curious, would you rather sit alone in the dressing room than with a custy who is good company but not really spending at the moment meanwhile observing what goes on around you, and watch new people coming into the club? I personally will walk away from any guy if I don't close my "wanna dance" hustle within 30 secs. I guess it could pay off if I was more patient and invested more time in a quality guy, guys want to feel special. I just find that not only I don't have much patience, but I actually lose money if I sit with a guy before asking him for a dance. I do best if I close right away, do my dance/dances and leave. It's all about volume for me.
I also feel that guys should respect that dancers time=money, and if he's not spending the girls should not stick around, it only spoils the guy, so next time when he comes to the club he feels he deserves something for nothing. I see guys who will not buy one dance all night long, and when a girl approaches him and asks if he wants company, he'll say of course. Then after she sits there a little and asks for a dance he turns her down. He PLANS beforehand not to spend money but to get as many girls as he can to sit on his lap for free! That's why I will not agree to sit with a guy unless he's buying a dance from me. I believe it trains customers to respect our time. What do you girls think?
On the other hand, sometimes there is a guy with money who doesn't like the "wanna dance approach" and will spend money on a smart girl who will give a great conversation. How do you know which of the guys is going to be a quick $20 and which one is worth investing time to get him spend more? I haven't figured it out so far.



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