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    So I'm trying to start stripping again (did for 1 year, just had 8 months off). There are 2 nude clubs in the area (I'm 20, so can't do topless) -- one, my old club, and the other, a spearmint rhino. I wanted to try out the SR just for the heck of it, but I have to work at my restaurant job wednesdays & fridays, and the SR amateur night is wednesday. So I went to the SR and asked the manager if I could have a separate audition, and he was like, "Nooooo, no one ever gets hired unless they do amateur night." and he said I could arrive later if I had to, but they start at 10 and my restaurant closes at 9:30, and is at least a 15 minute drive, and we usually don't get done cleaning up 'til 10 or 10:30 anyway. So I called him when I got off at 10 on wednesday, and he was like, "Sorry, it's too late. Try next week." Dammit, I need to start working! Hmph!

    So I said to myself, okay, I'll just go back to my old club. The money was pretty good, it's a good club. So I went over there wednesday night and talked to the manager (J, the nice one who likes me) and he said he'll ask the owner (T, the not so nice one who doesn't like me so much) if I can come and work again, because apparently they have a lot of girls right now and the owner has been turning girls away. So this was early wednesday night, and J said that he'd call me that night or the next day to tell me what T had said.

    But I still haven't got a phone call. I called J yesterday afternoon, and it rang until I got the voicemail, but I didn't leave one. Then I called again at like 11 last night, but still no reply. Is he avoiding me on purpose? What am I going to do if he says I can't come work there again? I reaaallly don't want to wait 'til I'm 21 just to work in a topless club with less earning potential. Gah. I don't want to pester him too much. What should I do?

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    Take a Wednesday night off at the restaurant and audition at the Rhino. Swap shifts with someone or something.

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    Default Re: What's the deal? Is he avoiding me on purpose?

    Keep calling him until you either reach him or he calls you back. Remember the squeeky wheel is the one that gets oiled. You could also ask your restaurant job if you could get off early just one time on a Wednesday. Make something up that would give you a legitimate excuse to get off early or have someone cover for you on a Wednesday and take the day off so you can audition. If that's SR's policy they're not going to allow you to do it on a different day because once they start making exceptions for you word will get around and every girl will expect that or if you get hired all the girls will be jealous and say you're screwing the manager (you know how they can be )

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    Heh heh.. um.. problem is, told the restaurant that I have class that I actually don't (so I could get more nights off and thus be able to dance other nights). I should have told her I have that class on Wednesday, but when I told her my new schedule, I didn't know when the amateur night was. So I told her the class was tuesday-thursday 5-7. Restaurant's closed on mondays, and I need my saturdays and sundays off for hanging with people, and they think I have a class on tues/thurs, so that leaves only wednesday and friday I can work. When I'm only working 2 days a week, I would feel like a total douche trying to get one of those days off.

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    Default Re: What's the deal? Is he avoiding me on purpose?

    ^^Say you have a baby shower to go to (or some other legit family event). That should get you out of work for one week, enough time to get hired at the club.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Trade with someone and work a Saturday or a Sunday then. They'd probably enjoy having a weekend night off for once, and you can work a weekend just the one time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Trade with someone and work a Saturday or a Sunday then. They'd probably enjoy having a weekend night off for once, and you can work a weekend just the one time.
    Hmm, that sounds like it should work. I'll try that. Thanks

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    Just thought you should know, at the Rhino in Rialto if they don't get enough girls to show up for the amateur contest they will not have it, so you might go through all this hassel for nothing. They will just say to come back the next week.

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    ^^^ That's lame... Why don't they just do regular auditions, then? Grrr.

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    ^^ i haven't the slightest. The dumb thing is that even if you win, you may not be offered a job. i won first place a couple years ago and while i did get my $250 the guy said that they had too many girls for both day and night shift. Good luck, though.

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    Default Re: What's the deal? Is he avoiding me on purpose?

    go try Rouge, its a spearmind rhino club




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    ^^^ Rouge is in LA, I'm in the inland empire.. about 1 1/2 hours away. Thanks, though

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