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    and sent me a text after he left saying that he can't believe i would stoop so low and that i made him want to throw up.

    I don't understand why men come in the club and think they are better than us. Here he is, has two daughters, in the strip club ogling girls half his age, and then he has the nerve to tell me how disgusted he is that i am working there.

    I work in a very upscale club..no contact and its very classy. I make really good money and i pay my tuition. I just hate dealing with sexist jackasses that don't see it as a mutually beneficial relationship and think we are all victims. He also told me not to get involved with drugs and porn. AS IF the two have to automatically have to go hand in hand. Last night i sat in VIP for two hours and made $600 to sip champagne and eat crabcakes and talk up older married guys and did nothing. If that makes me a "whore" as he called me, then i am loving being a whore!

    Ok, my rant is over!

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    Eh...don't worry about what he says! That's why he's your EX-boyfriend and not current boyfriend. You broke up with him for a reason! And he's being very hypocritical he seems to think that it's ok for him to come in the club and bring his 2 daughters with him but it's not ok for you to work there and make money? It sounds like to me that he's jealous of seeing you there, that he's jealous that there's many men that are not only paying attention to you but paying to pay attention to you!!! Haha! You have to live your life for YOU and you only, you're paying your tuition to better yourself and supporting yourself instead of going a couple hundred thousand dollars in debt which would take you nearly the rest of your life to pay off so don't worry about what he says, after all he's your EX and thank god for that!

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    I don't have a long thought out reply, you=keep on rockin' on and making $$.. him=fuck off!

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    Sorry to hear your story. I dread the thought of an ex coming into the club, obviously not because my stripping has to be a secret but because I would expect a similar arsehole reaction to your ex's. You make him want to throw up?! That's lame. And who is he to tell you not to get into drugs or porn? As he is an ex I am pretty sure you don't need to answer to him.
    Sorry this happened to you. Rant here as much as you need to then try to forget about it

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    Honestly, I think he is displacing (projecting?) his shame. You have something that he can't get anymore for free... in fact, anyone who wants some of it has to pony up $600 and order crabcakes and champagne for just a little bit of your time and company. Fuck him. He lost a sexy bitch and is now seething because you're pulling yourself up by your bootstraps (stilettos and g-string?) and succeeding marvelously, while he's just a PL. Of course he's angry. You won. Snicker quietly to yourself, delete the text message, and if he ever comes in again, be sugar-sweet for a minute and say something like, "It's lovely to see you. I'd offer you a dance, but I'm booked all night in VIP. Thanks for stopping back in, though, it's a great club." Even if you feel threatened and beaten down, DON'T LET IT SHOW. You won, Miss H.H., you won.

    ETA: I'd LOVE for my ex to come into the club. The only thing better than killing him (which I'd really love to do) would be putting him in his place as a loser PL while I scampered around collecting $20s and smiling.

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    Awww go cry yourself to sleep on a bed of 100's that you can keep all to yourself because you don't have kids!

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    haha..you ladies are great. The funny thing is emailed him and told him how we broke up over his commitment issues and i was bold enough to be civil and come up and say hello to him and he had a be a jackass about it. He went on to send me back an email telling me how his life is great and he has a cute gf and they are in love...wonder how she would feel about how he was eye fucking the girls in there??

    i think he still has a thing for me and is pissed im not his darling girl anymore...ass.

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    ^^^I'm sure he still has a thing for you. If he didn't care about you or want you at all, his reaction upon running into you at the club would have ranged from mild surprise to medium astonishment, but that probably would have been it. People who don't give a shit about others can be civil to them... think about your unimportant exes with whom you have no bad blood or especially fond memories. If you saw them, would it be a big deal? Nope.

    He's an ass, and you're a superstar.

    *Teeth crosses her fingers and hopes that her ex does the same so she can gloat*

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    That text said much more about him than it did about you. Firstly he must have felt hurt and / or jealous when he saw you otherwise he wouldnt have sent you the message in the first place or have been bothered by seeing you in the club. Secondly hes just trying to make you feel the same way by what he said, and he probably wanted a reaction from you to confirm that you still have some sort of mutual uncomfortable feeling left behind too. Thirdly its obvious that he still cares a little by the drugs and porn comment even though its a fucked up thing to say, hes concerned. Again I think the words were used to provoke a response from you. Dont let it worry you - hes a hyporcrite (and a sexist pig) and not worth the time of day.

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    ^^^ true. That guy sounds like a douche, I'm glad you didnt (seem) to let it get to you like some girls would!!
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    what a double standard!
    eh, screw him, just makes you seem stronger than he is, that he has to stoop so low to text you when he's the one that walked into your club in the first place.
    don't let it bug you, he just can't handle your feminine power, lol.
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    I guess that is why he is the ex... Did you dump him or vice versa? It sounds like you gave him his walking papers and he is still bitter about it.

    No worries over what this guy thinks. Just ignore him and he will go away.


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    Quote Originally Posted by aussiepunkshocker View Post
    That text said much more about him than it did about you. Firstly he must have felt hurt and / or jealous when he saw you otherwise he wouldnt have sent you the message in the first place or have been bothered by seeing you in the club. Secondly hes just trying to make you feel the same way by what he said, and he probably wanted a reaction from you to confirm that you still have some sort of mutual uncomfortable feeling left behind too. Thirdly its obvious that he still cares a little by the drugs and porn comment even though its a fucked up thing to say, hes concerned. Again I think the words were used to provoke a response from you. Dont let it worry you - hes a hyporcrite (and a sexist pig) and not worth the time of day.
    I agree. He's still got it for ya and he's pissed that you moved on successfully without him. I agree with teeth of the hydra too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by heavenlyheidi View Post
    haha..you ladies are great. The funny thing is emailed him and told him how we broke up over his commitment issues and i was bold enough to be civil and come up and say hello to him and he had a be a jackass about it. He went on to send me back an email telling me how his life is great and he has a cute gf and they are in love...wonder how she would feel about how he was eye fucking the girls in there??

    i think he still has a thing for me and is pissed im not his darling girl anymore...ass.
    He went on to tell you how his life is great and he has a cute GF and they are in love because...

    1) Because he is jealous of you and he wants to make you jealous of him.

    2) He doesn't want to look like a loser compared to you. Which is silly because we know that this guy is a loser anyway.

    I doubt that what he said was true anyway. He probably made it all up for my above reasons.

    Thank God you are not with this turd anymore. You sound like a great girl. And nice going on the champagne, crab cakes, and $600!
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    Quote Originally Posted by teeth_of_the_hydra View Post

    ETA: I'd LOVE for my ex to come into the club. The only thing better than killing him (which I'd really love to do) would be putting him in his place as a loser PL while I scampered around collecting $20s and smiling.


    I hear ya!!

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    Plus what a coward that he had to text message her instead of saying that stuff to her face! He didn't have the balls to say it to her so he had to text message her instead! Text messaging takes a lot of guts!

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    next time he comes in, get him kicked out/banned. it'll save you a lot of stress!

    my ex-hookup buddy did the same to me.. after he left he text messaged me saying him and his friend thought i was the ugliest and fattest girl there. he comes in on a regular basis now and i cant do anything about it because he's a regular customer there.

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    *snerk* If he's so in love with his girlfriend that's so cute, what's he doing in a strip club in the first place?
    Sounds like someone is single and hates it! XD

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