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    Default Ever had experience with Viagra or Levitra?

    My boyfriend has erectile dysfunction. He either can't get it up, or will go soft after about 10 minutes. He'll rarely be fully hard either. This has been going on since July. At first, we assumed it was because of his bad situation with his ex (He lived with her for a year, and they broke up midway but wouldn't afford to move out. He saw her naked and slept naked next to her for a year but couldn't do anything except jerk to porn when she wasn't looking. It was a fucked up situation to say the least). However, it didn't get better.

    On Tuesday, he's going to get a physical from his primary care physician. Hopefully, he can get a prescription for Viagra or Levitra. He also wants to get referred to a specialist to see what's wrong with his wang.

    I'm looking forward to finally having decent sex without him going soft, but I'm kinda scared. If he takes Viagra, he's going to need the pussy. I'm afraid that I'll feel used as an outlet or that sex will never be spontaneous.

    Has anyone had experience with Viagra, or had a partner who took Viagra? Also, any idea what could be wrong with his dong? Thanks.

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    Default Re: Ever had experience with Viagra or Levitra?

    Just so you know, viagra makes you hard, it doesn't make you HORNY.... so it won't make it so he 'is going to need pussy'... you can still not have sex and he can still not be aroused. Sex can be spontaneous. Yeah, you have to wait an hour or two but he can secretly take it or take it earlier and not necessarily plan sex... but get that it might happen.. like I said, he doesn't NEED sex once he's taken it...


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    I've heard mixed things about needing to be in the mood. A guy once wrote about the time he took Viagra and went to church to see if you need to be in the mood. He said that an hour into it, his eyes started tearing, he couldn't stop thinking about the Songs of Solomon, and he had to go home, where he proceeded to fuck his wife for 3 hours.

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    ^Well it was all mental because, clinically, it doesn't cause arousal.


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    Ok, I'll see about him needing arousal.

    Does it give nice rock hard ones? For hours?

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    Default Re: Ever had experience with Viagra or Levitra?

    i had a friend take a levitra one night and it stayed hard for him for 4+hours but he fucked for hours and couldnt cum. however, the not being able to cum thing was probably more because he did coke the same night too. i still make fun of him to this day about doing the two together.

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    Yes, I've had experience with both and multiple partners. He can get samples from his doctor. I recommend trying those before going full-fledged. See which one works for him.....

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    Default Re: Ever had experience with Viagra or Levitra?

    I have a question: Do you actually know if your boyfriend has ED or are you just saying it because he can't get it up? I think before you start asking about different drugs for him, he needs to see a doctore







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    OH GOD I NEEEEEEED COCK! Tuesday can't come soon enough!

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    I took viagra once and it was wild. I had tracers and light spots similar to an LSD experience ( from what I've heard about it ). I wasn't exactly "horny" but my sexual organs were extremely swollen and sensitive. I was so wet that my natural lubrication was literally dripping down my leg. Not to get too personal....




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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Lee View Post
    I took viagra once and it was wild. I had tracers and light spots similar to an LSD experience ( from what I've heard about it ). I wasn't exactly "horny" but my sexual organs were extremely swollen and sensitive. I was so wet that my natural lubrication was literally dripping down my leg. Not to get too personal....
    Ohhh maybe I'll take 25 mg or so jsut to see what happens...

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    hey, now I want some too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    i had a friend take a levitra one night and it stayed hard for him for 4+hours ....
    The dreary PSA about the above is that you're supposed to go to the hospital ER if your erection lasts more than 4 hours because it can result in permanent tissue damage.

    Note that some people get god-awful "this is so NOT worth it" headaches on Viagra. Levitra, on the other hand, is a marvel. I keep the pills in candy dishes around my home--just in case.

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    Thanks for the headache warning. He gets headaches from L-Arganine (dietary supplement that is the precursor to nitric oxide, which causes boners), so Viagra might do the same.

    He's making extra ice just in ase he gets hit with priapitism. Yeah, I know about the dangers of long boners. Crack shooters often lose their penises because they shoot a dick vein, get a boner for days on end, and have to get it amputated.

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    Enzyte is also kick-ass but I don't know about the side effects.
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    When I took it myself, it gave me a raging headache. Exactly the thing you're NOT supposed to have before sex! I had the sex anyway of course....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Rose View Post
    hey, now I want some too!
    LOL! Ok, I am not advocating use, just so it is clear to everyone! I will NOT be responsible for anyones actions!




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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan View Post
    ^Well it was all mental because, clinically, it doesn't cause arousal.
    I agree with that. Viagra works by inhibiting the chemical process that allows the blood to begin to flow out of the penis once it has become erect. It does nothing (directly) to cause you to have thoughts that make him horny.

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    Viagra. My dude had a bad headache, blurred vision blue tracers for about a 24 hour period. As for the boner situation, he was up at a moment's notice for about the same period of time--24 hours. Meaning he didn't have a constant boner, but was only about one stroke away all the time. And it was HARD, too.

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    The doc ended up doing a bunch of blood tests right then and there rather than send him to a specialist, so she held off on giving him drugs. Dammit, no sex tomorrow.

    This is really frustrating. I mean, I love him, but this shit has been going on since July. I've been patient and given unconditional love, but I'd be a liar if I said that sex isn't important to me. At first he brushed it off as emotional stress, and asked for some healing time. A few months later, he finally acknowledged that it was erectile dysfunction, but he didn't get his insurance through till recently. All this time, I've had to sacrifice foreplay in order to strike while the iron was hot, and he'd still go soft halfway through. Sometimes he was only half hard, so I couldn't even feel him inside of me. He can get rock hard if I'm giving him head, but not always, although he can ejaculate while soft. The best we've had was intense quickies that ended with premature ejaculation. I'm frustrated as hell. I mean, he did try taking L-arganine and stuff, but that didn't help. Even if he got a sudden raging hardon, it would go down once a woman came into the picture. Scariest of all, he goes soft whenever he does foreplay like cunnelingus. He says that it's always been like that, but that he can get it back up eventually. That scares me. Every guy I've ever been with always maintained a raging hard on while going down on me or kissing me all over.

    I did tell him at one point that although I do love him, this is a major problem. Someone once said that when the sex is good, it's 20% of the relationship. When sex is bad, it's 80% of the problem. Impotence is legal grounds for divorce, so I'm not being frivolous. I'm sorry to say, but if this doesn't clear up eventually after interventions are taken, I won't be able to do this anymore.

    This has been going on so long that I'm actually suspecting that someone put a curse or spell on him. He once mentioned that his ex dabbled in magick and Wicca and stuff. I mentioned my suspicion to him, and he did say that he wouldn't put it past her to put a love/binding spell on him, although he'd never ask her if she did because that would confirm that the spell was successful. Yeah, I'm skeptical about this kind of stuff, but I also believe that such things are dangerous and shouldn't be fucked around with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hatshepsut View Post
    He once mentioned that his ex dabbled in magick and Wicca and stuff. I mentioned my suspicion to him, and he did say that he wouldn't put it past her to put a love/binding spell on him, although he'd never ask her if she did because that would confirm that the spell was successful. Yeah, I'm skeptical about this kind of stuff, but I also believe that such things are dangerous and shouldn't be fucked around with.
    WTF? Make a decision: Does he have a medical/psychological problem or a supernatural one. Sorry to be blunt, but I don't think it's helpful at all to suspect other-worldly causes for his soft dick.

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    If your boyfriend ends up on Viagra, and he does coke, please don't let him mix the two. If he ends up having any sort of cardiac complications from either one of the medications, doctors can't treat him appropriately. In cardiac cases, four major medications need to be given...aspirin, blood thinners, nitroglycerin (can't take it if you've had viagra), and beta blockers ( can't take it if you've had cocaine.) Good luck with you both in his medical evaluation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by boxingdoc View Post
    If your boyfriend ends up on Viagra, and he does coke, please don't let him mix the two. If he ends up having any sort of cardiac complications from either one of the medications, doctors can't treat him appropriately. In cardiac cases, four major medications need to be given...aspirin, blood thinners, nitroglycerin (can't take it if you've had viagra), and beta blockers ( can't take it if you've had cocaine.) Good luck with you both in his medical evaluation.
    Don't worry, I'm in nursing school, and I've also seen Something's Gotta Give.

    I am putting my hope into the physical checkup and maybe some Rx. Hypothyroidism does run in his family, I do think that the last relationship hurt his psyche, and erectile dysfunction is fairly common.

    I did say that I am skeptical of spells and concentrating one's will, but at the same time, I wouldn't ever dabble in it because I feel that these things should not be messed with. Therefore, I can't say that I don't believe in curses, and therefore, it's in the back of my mind. Also, if there's anything I learned from my grandma's traditional Asian medicine, I learned that sometimes placebo effects can do wonders, which is why even atheist healthcare workers encourage prayer.

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    Tell me how it goes if you get it... it's my next step in my relationship.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Hatshepsut View Post
    Don't worry, I'm in nursing school, and I've also seen Something's Gotta Give.
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