About a year ago, I had a lovely one night stand with a guy whom I will call Masato. He just sent me an email saying hi, do you remember me, etc. I emailed back saying hi, yes I remember you, told him how my life is going, and asked how his was. Very casual.
Well, it wasn't quite a one night stand. We met in class, and a lovely friendship developed. There was always a hint of sexual frustration, which came to a head when he tried to seduce me one night after a drunken bout of Guitar Hero. I was in a relationship at the time, but it had gotten so bad that I thought that I was sexually frigid. However, Masato's hot breath in my ear soaked my panties and made me realize that my relationship with the boyfriend was dead. I didn't cheat, but I did dump my boyfriend very soon after because of the realization that I was no longer in love with him.
The next day, I went back to Masato and told him straight out that I was hot for his body.The dam of sexual tension flooded both of us. We proceeded to go through 4 condoms in 6 hours and leave me sore for days. He told me he loved me, eek. I'd like to think that we both got what we wanted, but I felt bad because of the possibility that he might have actually liked me.
It wasn't meant to blossom into anything. He was going back to Japan, and we were too different. He's a drunkard and a party animal, I'm a homebody bookworm and video game lover. I actually liked the notion that we'd never talk again. It was closure, it was ensuring no awkwardness after the betrayal of friendship with our lust that had no compatibility.
I'm in no way bitter or embarassed about him contacting me, it's just... weird.
So... what do you guys do when a one-night stander or casual ex who you don't dislike contacts you?



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