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    Sometimes I just get so annoyed by people. Sometimes driving is a relief just so I can yell at people. The trip I went on was great because I went by myself. Nothing to get mad about and no one to yell at that would understand me. I had no care to be upset about anything.

    Today I stayed inside all day. I didn't even open the blinds because I would see the ugly clouded sky and the partial rain we were having. I spend most of my time and do things alone then I begin to think maybe I like it too much? People irritate me easily which makes me end up not wanting to talk to anyone.

    So what do you do? Do you hide inside your house all day like me? lol
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    Depends on the person and why they are annoying me. If it's a petty thing, I brush it off my shoulders, if it's something serious, well I don't mince my words.

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    Its usually like ..<thought> ~This person is talking and they wont shut up and I want them to stfu. They just keep going. Cant I just be a huge bitch and tell them to stfu?~ </thought> >cocks head to side< *smiles*

    For example: Random guys who try to use smooth lines on you that you very much not interested in. Or kiosk people at the mall that try to sell you shit you dont want. Or people who think they are smarter than you and attempt to tell you in some long ass story. <<stuff like that.
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    Eh I just walk away honestly. I've been known to have an annoying sales person try to sell me shit after I've said no thank you and I'll just......walk away. Gets the point across well. As for the dudes, just walk away also. They arn't worthy of a response from you if they are douches to begin with. Ignoring people is a powerful tool. And as the stories, if it really bothers you, voice your opinion or again, walk away. Walking away is awesome haha.

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    I'm a bitch. I'm so little ans smiley that people can try to take advantage of me, so I act like a bitch to prevent it.

    to the lotian selling kiosk woman. "can I see your hands" and she reatches. "no, don't ever touch me"

    to the lame guy. Well, I'm good a mean snappy comebacks.

    to friends that piss me off, I'll argue it out, or avoid them till I've cooled off.

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    Well... if I have no need to leave the house, I don't. I mean, doing the grocery shopping or jogging or any other sort of errands are only good experiances if people don't get in my way. Generally, I find people stupid (or just plain rude and angry)... and that bothers me. When someone uninvited approaches me, I just leave as quickly as I can. If they REALLY pissed me off, I'll call or email a friend and bitch about it until I cool off.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sc0101 View Post
    Eh I just walk away honestly. I've been known to have an annoying sales person try to sell me shit after I've said no thank you and I'll just......walk away. Gets the point across well. As for the dudes, just walk away also. They arn't worthy of a response from you if they are douches to begin with. Ignoring people is a powerful tool. And as the stories, if it really bothers you, voice your opinion or again, walk away. Walking away is awesome haha.
    Yesss, well said, very true^!
    What a great thread, Tiger
    Ok, here's my deal: I live near (very near, sadly) many annoying folks. They seem to live to get in my biz, act ignorant, make idiotic remarks, make faces, gestures, etc. Even a casual accidental glance or saying "hi" can be ghastly here. I have "trained" my self to absolutely avoid eye contact, (to the point of wearing shades, (I have lighter tints for overcast days) I keep my head turned away, my body too, as much as possible. I keep my cell out & ready at all times (handy as well for the disgusting potential assualters/rapists floating around here) I usually have it to my ear or have the earpiece in. I'm not actually using it, but it works well as an isolation device. Walk away, please, I've had to run at times.
    Oh, my next thing will be to purchase one of those extra loud airhorn things to blast the more persistant ones, peper spray too.
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    Today I stayed inside all day. I didn't even open the blinds because I would see the ugly clouded sky and the partial rain we were having. I spend most of my time and do things alone then I begin to think maybe I like it too much? People irritate me easily which makes me end up not wanting to talk to anyone.

    So what do you do? Do you hide inside your house all day like me? lol
    Yes. I do...I love being alone. I get annoyed really easily when I go out...like the cashier at the post office will be too fucking slow, or I'll think "why is that person staring at me...stop fucking looking at me!". Then I'll give them a mean look.

    I dunno...I just figure my basic state is an antisocial bitch. I'm nice to people I know, but strangers and random people can really get on my nerves.

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    Okay, off subject... Scarlett, I LOVE your avatar! Is there a larger picture of it somewhere?
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver View Post
    Yes. I do...I love being alone. I get annoyed really easily when I go out...like the cashier at the post office will be too fucking slow, or I'll think "why is that person staring at me...stop fucking looking at me!". Then I'll give them a mean look.

    I dunno...I just figure my basic state is an antisocial bitch. I'm nice to people I know, but strangers and random people can really get on my nerves.
    Same here. Honestly, sometimes I just can't stand people at all.

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    If I get irritated by someone, I have fantasies involving me, them and a flamethrower.

    (Now, do I like my irritants well done or medium-rare?)

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    When people annoy me I stay away from them. I'm kinda going through that right now with a good friend, I love her but she's annoying the hell out of me. It's me and it's her. I'm going through some shit so I'm extra sensitive about stuff. Spending time away helps me figure things out, without fighting or ruin our relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk View Post
    Its usually like ..<thought> ~This person is talking and they wont shut up and I want them to stfu. They just keep going. Cant I just be a huge bitch and tell them to stfu?~ </thought> >cocks head to side< *smiles*
    I imagine this in the head of every human being I open my useless trap at.



    When I get irritated by people on such a small basis, I just seek solitude. I very much like my alone time, and it's something I've promised myself since the ol ex was that I would spend enough time to be happy being alone. When I go out, I have a good time, or make a good time, just when I am home, it's my personal space. I really appreciate those who feel honored to be in it, even when it bears no real honor.

    In your shoes though? I wouldn't say "shut the fuck up" but I just break the stream by saying "Can I get a word in edgewise or is this a monologue?" Seriously. When I'm serious-joking, I'll compensate by saying "No no it's fine I just wanted to say something" but when I'm 100% serious I don't compensate and it ALWAYS kills their mood to continue the conversation.

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    I just give the irritater a deadpan "We are *so* not amused" look. If they don't get it, I sigh, roll my eyes, and walk away.

    What can I say? I'm a bitch and I love it. XD

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    Quote Originally Posted by idreamofaislin View Post
    I just give the irritater a deadpan "We are *so* not amused" look. If they don't get it, I sigh, roll my eyes, and walk away.

    What can I say? I'm a bitch and I love it. XD
    I do get that a lot as well!
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    Okay, off subject... Scarlett, I LOVE your avatar! Is there a larger picture of it somewhere?
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    When I get irritated, I have a bad habit of grinding my teeth w/ my mouth closed. I also clench my jaw really hard. People annoy me quite frequently..







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    Oooh, that's bad^. I do it myself too, but tryin' to get offa that. My fear/loathing of dental work & all..


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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    When I get irritated, I have a bad habit of grinding my teeth w/ my mouth closed. I also clench my jaw really hard. People annoy me quite frequently..
    I do the same thing if I'm stuck around the person, like on a plane and I can't move to another seat. It's a bad habit so I honestly usually just ask them point blank to stop what is annoying. Most people are so shocked you had the balls to say anything they just stop.

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    I just get really quiet and sulky, if I'm being annoyed by family or friends. If I'm being irritated by people I'm not that close with, well...I try to ignore them. I internalize my anger, and the most rebellious thing I do to others is look all serious and stuff- which I don't even notice I'm doing until people say "What's WRONG with you?!"> My default facial setting is (apparently) Existentially Dissatisfied, which can make me seem more aloof and bitchy than I actually am.

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