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    I was wondering how many of you who met that right person, knew right away (or almost right away) that he or she was the "one."

    I'm am not necessarily saying its love at first sight. I was just reflecting about many of the people i have known, they just kind of knew, that that person was 'different' or the 'one'.




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    We both knew after our first phone convo .

    The first time we talked on the phone we spoke for 4 hours ! We had such great repoire with each other.

    These were my personal checkpoints:

    Physical attraction
    Intellectual stimulation
    Religious beliefs
    Life goals
    Attitude and Demeanor
    Humor
    Temperament
    Family orientation
    Openness
    Child rearing
    Rereational interests
    Physical activities

    Bonus : If his family is cool and cool with you (particularly the mom) and vice versa.


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    My current bf of 4 years and I talked on the phone for 6 hours the very first time! With absolutely no pauses or awkward silences.

    I don't really believe in love at first sight though. Just attraction at first sight.

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    I knew right away. I wouldn't call it "love at first sight" but I knew immediately that I could love him very much.

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    I've learned in time that the "right person" is an emotional comfort level and respect reached at some point in the relationship that's so solid, that when you look at events in the very beginning of the relationship, the reflect the emotion you have achieved thus making it neigh impossible to discern when it WASN'T there

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    Nope, I didn't know right away. I thought he was way too old for me and thought he only looked at me like a little sister. So we were just friends first.

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    There was certainly a special something for us. Our first date lasted 23 hours.



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    I knew. I don't know how I knew, but I did. When I first met my bf, he was actually trying to hook up with my best friend. They had no connection tho, and I ran into him again later, and we started talking. He wasn't very good to me tho, he was immature, and did not want a relationship, and as a result, did nto treat me very good. I just had this feeling that he was a wonderful person and had a great heart, he just needed to grow up a bit, and get over some issues he had. I put up with a lot of shit from him.

    We were kind of friends with benifits, and he suggested we move to Vegas. Everyone thought I was making a huge mistake moving to the other side of the country with this guy. I felt it was a risk, but I had a feeling it would all work out, I just felt like he was the one, and it was the right decision.

    I took the chance, and it worked out for the best. I couldnt ask for someone better.

    My boyfriend is the most loyal person i have ever known. It may have taken awhile to get him, but I'll have him forever. He is the most loyal, kindhearted person, he treats me like a queen, loves me more than I have ever been loved, nd I was right...he does have a wonderful, caring heart. It just took some time to get to it.

    I have always listened to myself when I have strong feelings, good or bad. And they have never been wrong.

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    Yekhefah
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    I think "love at first sight" is simply misidentified lust. I've been in love four times; with each one, I knew I was instantly attracted, but the love came after the lust. In fact I slept with three of them before falling in love with them.

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