So I am trying desperately not to be all jaded and pessimistic about this situation. Recently I've made the first real, great amazing friend since I've been in L.A. She's younger than me, 21, but she has ALL the qualities I am looking for in a friend, I absolutely adore her, and we've been hanging out constantly.
But there's something very VERY strange going on and I need the help of people wiser than I am on this matter.
I've noticed very strange things like: she doesn't drive and she has no liscense. She lives at home with her parents. She has no job and her parents pay for everything and mom drives her wherever she needs to go.
Finally, last night she confessed why her life is like this. She said there is no paper trail on her. She basically does not "exist." She was born at home, no hospital records, no social security, no credit cards, nothing. She was home schooled for her whole life as well. She said the reason behind this is because her father, a doctor, is a very controlling man who doesnt not want the government to have any tabs on her. It goes on a little more but basically, that is the gyst of it. She claims she hates her father for denying her a life but if she rebels against his wishes, he will cut her and her mother off, financially. She claims she is 21, but since she has no real records, she could be a little younger or a little older.
My worst suspiscion says she may have fibbed about her age when she first met me and now is trying to cover up the reason why she can't go to bars/clubs with me? But then again, she doesn't drive! Even if she were younger than 21, she'd still be old enough to drive. I'm so confused..
So what do you guys think? Is this legit? Is there anything that I can do to find out if this is true? I don't want to drop her as a friend, but I cannot stand the thought that this may not be the truth? How common is a situation like this?



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