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    She can't have gotten a SAG card without ID. You can't trust her. Don't give her alcohol anymore. If she's really 21, she can get an ID and buy it herself.

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    I think its possible to go under the radar, even in a big city surrounded by people, infact its possibly easier to do it that way if its only one person and your a respected member of the community.
    I think its more likely that the girl is lying though. I have met a few compulsive very convincing liars in my time, even one of my best friends is - on a good day I would say that 50% of everything she says is bullshit.

    Opening up a conversation with "Oh btw I think you may have been kidnapped as a child" is probably not the way to go yet either!!! I mean wtf - what happens next? That could be disasterous if it were true. I think you need to a bit more to go on first!
    See what else you can find out. Surely already you have enough info to checkout her parents. See if she slips up any more with details, like if you were to talk about travel or something aybe she might slip and mention that shed been somewhere that would infact require a passport, but obviously dont bend any conversations in an obvious way.
    Hmm, its a wierd one anyway (-:

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    Reading this more..Im getting the feeling that she is underage and just lying to you. Sounds liek she has quite the active immagination as well. But I'd still confront her and check into it, just to be safe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    Reading this more..Im getting the feeling that she is underage and just lying to you. Sounds liek she has quite the active immagination as well. But I'd still confront her and check into it, just to be safe.
    Yeah, I was thinking the same thing Kaylinn .. it seems too weird for it to be a kidnapped kid or a controlling dad. I really think she just may be lying to get away with stuff, like you buying her alcohol?? Is she enrolled in school (like college) or anything? You should def find out more before you start asking her for her fingerprints and showing her files of missing children. But this is sooo strange!

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    She's lying. It doesn't add up - sounds like some cheesy made for tv movie.

    Did you see that Lindsey Lohan movie "Confessions of a Teenage Drama Queen?" She made up a dramatic story about her father dying (when her parents were just divorced) to get people to feel sorry for her & be her friend.

    I had a friend in HS who told me a very detailed & graphic story about a time that his dad beat up his mom & he ran out of the house to get help in his pj's in the wintertime. I told his story to a future boyfriend who had seen this scene in a made for tv movie.

    She's probably bipolar or a sociopath. Or both.

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    You can look into online databases. They tend to be about 6 months behind at all times, but if you're curious, go for it.

    I wouldn't rule out Borderline Personality Disorder.

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    Just checked with my guy (whose taken acting classes with her) and she doesn't have her SAG card. She's been approved but hasn't followed up on the proper steps to obtain it.

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    hmmm. That is a wierd twist. Having a SAG card is only a good thing, as every would be actress (me!) knows. Maybe her dad is a vietnam vet! those people can have serious issues.....

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    privateeye.com, make sure you spell it right, you can look up both her parents and one at a time and it'll show who their relatives are and where they have lived. If she is underaged it may not show her, but if she isn't there is a really good chance she'd pop up.

    Also, some of these reverse address lookup sites - can't remember the name of the specific one, but I found it after randomly clicking the sites google pulled up, but it was a good one- would tell everyone who lived in that houses name and age if you typed in their address.

    Also, google the name of your county's birth "vital" records, and check her last name throughout about 5 or so years from 1985 ( that'd make her 21 right?).

    Oooh, and you could go to Zabasearch.com and search her parents names and it'd show their exact addresses, and how long ago it was recorded- then you can see what highschools are near there and look on classmates.com for whatever year she'd have been in highschool and search her name.

    you could also see if she has a blockbuster account or something, just by asking one of the kiddies who works there to look up her name- their like 16 years old, they really don't give a shit.

    ps. I know I must sound like a stalker- I assure you, I just have too much time on my hands and have looked up myself about a zillion times so I could see what people could find out about me.
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    Doctors can be a species of their own. Some are severe control freaks.

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    She's either lying or there's some seriously bad shit going on with that family.

    Have you tried googling her name? Talk to her mom. Try to pry some info out of her.
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    I've googled her name and just did some of the searches that armygt provided but found nothing

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    She needs to contact a family law attorney, if she if for real and wants control of her life.

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    ^^ Does she have a myspace account? If so have you checked to see if shes got family members of highschool friends in her friends list?
    Rather simple and obvious I know, but just a thought, lol.

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    A good majority of the time just googling somebody's name doesn't work. I've googled my my entire familys names at one point or another- my dad is even a musician that is pretty popular around Austin, as well as a published poet, and his name only popped up once, and only when I looked under images. Although maybe it was in there, just not in the few pages I looked at.

    But my mom's sis's and bro's names- nothing. Don't rely on google.
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    Am I the only one thinking her name is Rose and her 'father' is the Doctor? Of course she has no records!!

    ...what?!


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    I've dealt with a lot of liars in my time and this sounds like one.

    Occam's razor. The answer with the least number of assumptions is the most likely. In other words, it's more likely she's a liar than a kidnapped baby.

    I would try to create a situation where she's forced to show her ID, like stage an event where the "cops" (your friend in a fake uniform) knocks on your door, says he's looking for a girl by a certain description and checks your IDs. If she doesn't have one he should threaten to arrest her. I'm sure she has one and she's bullshitting you. Or get her super wasted til she passes out and then search her. She probably carries it on her.

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    carolina, that's so devious! I love it!

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    ^^^ I love the devious ones lol!

    I think the girl is lying too. The story sounds way too farfetched. Ifshe's a drama queen, she may enjoy seeing if people belive her story for self-fulfillment.

    I know a girl who never had her id and told my friend the girl doesn't have er id because she's not 21 and doesn't want us (all older) to know. 3 months later, she had her 21st bday party. I made sure to tell her happy 21st and didn't talk to her again.

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    Sometimes, to strangers, i tell these outrageous stories, just to see if I can get away with it. I couldn't do it to a friend though,.... that's too cold and heartless

    I told a man on an airplane that I was flying to alaska to met my birthmother and my 9 siblings. I was the only one she'd given up, and I wanted to know why.....


    I told a guy I met in a bar that I was a virgin and it was my birthday and my bf had just cheated on me and I wanted to get back at him by giving my flower to a stranger. I went to the bathroom at perkins and never came back....

    I told a custy who asked if I was preggo that I needed 500$ for an abortion. He gave it to me.

    One of the reasons I like this job is that I can be as exciting as I want to!

    lol. one time recently, I told a custy I was a world famous porn star! I told him to go home and google me! I said my name is Ginger Lee! lol. We look nothing alike! And se was booked to feature in a whole nother state at the time!

    Hm, I've been an elementry school teacher, the daughter of the founder of weight watchers, a homeless person, an undercover reporter, an army brat, a retired piolet (blind in 1 eye).......

    it's fucking funny as hell!

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    Or maybe she really is off the records.... the truth is sometimes stranger than fiction

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    A kind-of friend from a while back had a baby at home, didn't trust the government, wanted him kept "off the books." No Social Security card, nothing. Found a day-care mom who would take cash and not keep books. She planned to home-school him. I gently advised her that when he grew up and needed to drive, needed to work, needed medical care that she couldn't provide, wanted to buy wine, needed to fly somewhere, wanted to travel to another country, anything like that, he'd need to have government identification, and asked her to consider all that.

    I don't know whatever happened to him. Not surprisingly, we lost contact after that. I'm just saying from personal experience that there are people like that. Very few and far between, but like that.

    The likelihood is that it's BS, but anything is possible. My advice is not to get too invested in this. Don't let other people's problems or psychoses become your problems, or it can definitely cost you, as so gleefully mentioned in this thread, with no up side. You have a life, and you enjoy a friendship. Enjoy the friendship for what it is, but don't let that friendship take advantage of you. And don't spend too much time in a place that just smells bad. Good luck.

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    I dated a pathological liar once to. His stories were so fuckin absurd, they were funny. He actually thought I believed them. Once, we were on the phone as he was walking down the street. Suddenly, he started running, yelling, got out of breath. I said what? whats wrong? He said, OMG. an alligator just tried to attack me!

    In the middle of the street? In downtown Pittsburgh??

    Then he said he was going away to the navy. While in boot camp, he said more than 1 person dropped dead during dinner. Yeah. They just dropped dead into their food plates. Why? The physical exertion was just to great, and they were dying. Apparently, this is a pretty common occurance in boot camp.
    Then suddenly he came home one day. Said he got kicked out for some reason, I forget what. I doubt he ever went to the navy.

    Anyway, yeah...people can make up some pretty out there stories for attention

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