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    Ok so I already posted a thread about this girl

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=86191

    So tonight the situation reached its boiling point.

    I'm sitting with a customer who has taken out 500 in fantasy money, and I'm the only one who's been sitting with him for a half an hour. Apparently word got around the club that he had taken out this money, so the girl, we'll call her J, comes over to the table. "Hey, no one else in the club is smoking except for you guys, is it ok if I smoke with you?" I stupidly say yes, because I don't even like to show animosity towards other girls in front of customers because I am super polite, and also, I know this customer has eyes for only me.

    (Sidenote: I found out later she did this intentionally, duh, because everyone in the dressing room was talking about the guy and people were like, oh, Summer's sitting with him, and our manager said, well don't bother then cause the money's gone. And J was like, oh, well they're smoking so I'm gonna go over there, like it was a really clever ploy or something)

    She sits for about 10 minutes, talking about drinks the whole time, angling for him to buy her a drink. The waitress comes and goes and he doesn't even offer. I dance for him, she's still sitting there. I go to the bathroom. My friend is in the bathroom and I talk a little shit about this girl, since J claims that my friends, "Steal her money" by talking to "her" customers. I say, "It's funny that she talks shit about you stealing her money, and then comes over to my table."

    Apparently word got back to her from a waitress in the bathroom that I said this, which is fine, my bad for talking about her, but everything I said was factual and I didn't call her names. I proceed to make a lot of money off the guy, while she probably made a hundred dollars for the night.

    At the end of the night she confronts me in the dressing room, calling me out for talking shit about her. I admit I said it, and tell her that she's talking crap about other people taking her money, when she's trying to move in on mine. She denies this and says she just wanted to smoke. I ask her what's keeping her from smoking by herself like everyone else does. She says I should have told her that wasn't ok when she came over. I told her I try not to be rude to girls in front of customers, but that from now on I will (which solves the original problem). She continues to talk trash, calling me ignorant, etc., then suggests that I quit! I laugh and say, why would I quit, I make money. That ended that conversation.

    This is the first time in a year of working there I've had anybody say anything to me, and I know it's just cause I make a lot more than 90% of the girls there and they can't take it. Tonight sucked ass and probably 2 girls actually made money. I shouldn't have said anything where anyone else could hear, but I'm not apologizing. She talks trash about my friends to me! As if that isn't ignorant. Anyway I can't wait for the same guy to come back tomorrow, me to make another boatload of money while she pouts in the dressing room all night and for her to do something rude and childish to me.

    I'm considering putting a little sign in my locker that says, "keep talking shit, you're making me famous."

    Thanks for letting me vent!

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    You sound like a delight.
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    Quote Originally Posted by carolina6 View Post
    ...She continues to talk trash, calling me ignorant, etc., then suggests that I quit! I laugh and say, why would I quit, I make money. That ended that conversation...
    Sounds like that's all there is to it. She may be a petty little brat, or perhaps she's an idiot. Either way, I think it's fair to say you probably won't have to worry about her anymore!

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    sign in your locker=big no no, imo. why start more drama than necessary? i understand your being annoyed, but i think thats just looking to start another confrontation.

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    Don't you just love it when people like that solve the problem FOR you, lol.

    I've said it time and time again, ignore them and they will eventually self destruct. You proved my point. Good for you!

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    There truly is no better revenge than outearning those little bitches
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    You go girl! I hope you make lots and lots of $$$!~

    Please let us know what happens the next time you work!
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    god i wonder who it is!! i might know her... how incredibly rude...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    You sound like a delight.
    I don't get this.

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    I worked with her for the first time again tonight. I even had to go on stage directly after her which involves touching her hand, but we were both fine with it. I basically have two really good friends at work. J tried to talk to my first friend, who politely told J that she didn't want to hear about it, any drama was between the two of us (she is smart and mature). J continued to try to bring it up but my friend told her just to leave it alone.

    At the end of the night when J was leaving (dressed and about to walk out the door) she approaches my other friend and says "we need to talk". Tries to tell my friend that I talk crap about J, she only approached the table I was at in order to have a cigarette, and that she didn't even stay for more than two minutes because I was rude to her. My friend called her out on everything, telling her that she's had a problem with J for weeks before this incident due to her running her mouth, that she was in the back room when J made the snide comment that she was going to come join my table to "smoke a cigarette" and that she watched her at the table and she definitely sat there long enough to smoke and also watch me dance for the guy. She really got back in J's face and caused her to leave in a huff.

    I don't know which of their approaches I liked better

    In another funny incident during the night though, I approached a customer to sell a feature (t-shirt) and then J came over to the table making it obvious she was sitting there. I was fine, told the customer I'd stop by later, and left. I sold the tshirt to another customer and watched her sit at the table but not dance. Not to be rude, but she's not the kind of girl that customers pay for a feature and let her not dance. About 15 minutes later I'm dancing for another guy, and I see her walk by with the tshirt. She just wanted me to think that she had sold it to him. We are required to turn in the shirt during the first song in order to not have to pay for it, so she must have pulled some kind of strings to get out of being charged. Haha.

    It kind of got to me that she called me rude and said that other girls thought the same, but I know that can't be the case. I'm one of the most polite girls there. Nice to new girls, open doors for people, lend people stuff, etc.

    Oh and I wouldn't actually post that in my locker, that was just my complete bitch alter ego talking.

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