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    I've offically told them I'm done today. With the whole relationship. It isn't worth the tears, the stress, the hours I spend making them feel better when I get what in return? Squat. The last straw was when I incurred medical debt due to my little brother passing, and I literally couldn't look at the bills without vomitting because it reminded of a terrible experience. It was $1,500, an amount I will easily pay myself, it was the principle of that I helped them so much, even financially, and when it came to me I got sob stories. My mom would say she had no money and then call me about bragging about buying a 300+ purse. Nice. I'm done, this isn't worth the goddamned money. This isn't worth my sanity. Glad to know I have a price though, and it was fucking $1,500. Oh well, move on I guess. Any support from ladies who have estranged themselves from toxic parents would be helpful. I know there will be times when I want to talk and feel bad for them, but I have to stand my ground, or I'll never stop feeling stressed out, etc.

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    GOOD JOB!!! That's a wise decision that you made for the better. My dad went through his whole life with a horrible, negative, demeaning, devisive, vile mother and only a few weeks ago finally gave her the big "fuck off". A weight has been lifterd off his chest.

    I believe that family is no more important to me than anyone else in life, unless they prove themselves to be so.

    Fortunately, my parents have always loved me and provided for me, but I've had to distance myself from my mom. She's got BPD, and ESP since her brain surgery has bouts of verbally abusing me, filing police reports because I've "stolen her money", etc. I've had to really limit contact with her. I still talk to her and see her in the hospital occasionally (when she's not in the hospital I let her stay with me), because she has really been loving to me for the most part.

    But I am definitely an advocate of cutting off your asshole family.

    Again, I'm glad you did this.

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    Oh well, now they just have one child left who is getting tired of their crap as well. Let them grow old and alone with that goddamned $1,500.

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    Good for you!!!!!!!!!!!

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    Ouch. You've gone through so much lately!
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    I know. I've gone through serious bouts of depression but my BF is helping and I just have to keep my chin up and do this and be done.

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