I've offically told them I'm done today. With the whole relationship. It isn't worth the tears, the stress, the hours I spend making them feel better when I get what in return? Squat. The last straw was when I incurred medical debt due to my little brother passing, and I literally couldn't look at the bills without vomitting because it reminded of a terrible experience. It was $1,500, an amount I will easily pay myself, it was the principle of that I helped them so much, even financially, and when it came to me I got sob stories. My mom would say she had no money and then call me about bragging about buying a 300+ purse. Nice. I'm done, this isn't worth the goddamned money. This isn't worth my sanity. Glad to know I have a price though, and it was fucking $1,500. Oh well, move on I guess. Any support from ladies who have estranged themselves from toxic parents would be helpful. I know there will be times when I want to talk and feel bad for them, but I have to stand my ground, or I'll never stop feeling stressed out, etc.



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You've gone through so much lately!

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