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    Remember my ex from like, a year ago? The one who posted naked pictures of me on that forum and then called me at work to tell me someone had called me fat? The guy who told me that I shouldn't spend $800 for my ferret's surgery because it was too expensive and spouted some survival of the fittest nonsense? The one who kept putting me on diets and told me that I was unattractive? The one who googled my regular's company to find his number to call him to harrass him when we broke up? Yea, that one. He keeps fucking showing up at my house! Yes, I've been told to call the police. This is just a vent thread. So, he shows up, gets mad that I'm not answering the door or whatever, and hops the gate to trash my patio! He's shown up before when I haven't answered the door, and he tried the locks a few times, but he's never trashed anything! Nothing's broken but the chairs were all flipped over and my grill had been shoved around, shit was on the ground, and my shade was all messed up! WTF!!!!!!!!
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Get a gun and learn to use it. Seriously. He sounds very likely to attack you.

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    I dont' think he would. I don' t think he's thought that far ahead. I don't know WHAT he thought he was going to do if he got in.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Which is why you should be armed.

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    I have a taser on the shelf by the front door! I don't want a gun because I'd probably be too pussy to use it... and it seems like that would just make the situation worse.

    P.S. Yek, I keep getting you and hardkandee mixed up! I thought I was talking to her! Lol, your avatars are too similar.
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    Well yeah, that would. Never point a gun unless you're prepared to kill with it.

    I hope he doesn't turn violent, but keep that Taser within an arm's reach!

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    I like the taser idea. Seriously.
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    Call police, make a report, get a restraining order.

    Re: firearms - get training in how and under what conditions to use them - and then only if you are willing to use one. If you're not willing to use a firearm - or any weapon, it can be turned against you.

    Be careful. There's no guessing what this guy will do. He's embarking on new aggressive behaviors. Don't underestimate him.
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    Remember what I told you a year ago? 2 years ago?? Be yourself and make those around you either accept you or fuck off.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
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    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
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    take a video of one of his "rants" thru the window secretly. video proof of such destructive and aggressive behaviour should work wonders for getting a restraining order or arrest warrant.

    frankly, he sounds like a maniac-in-waiting. deal with the problem proactively like yek suggests imo. good luck!

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    warnign about tasers- if he happens to touch you while he's tasing you, it affects you as well. ALSO test it out first, if you have a brave guy friend, ask him if you can tase him for a second to see if it hurts. you'll be surprised.

    when i first started dancing, my little bro bought me a taser to carry around in my bag with me at work. it was advertised to be something scary sounding, like 40,000 V or something crazy like that, we tried it out on a hot dog, and it burned it.

    but when i used it on a guy at the club he said it didnt hurt at all! so i tried it on myself. it felt like an electrical buzz, but nothing painful, nothing stunning, nothing incapacitating at all. actually, i ended up making money off of it! guys would pay me to be tasered! i made like 10-20 dollars each time i tasered somebody, because they thought it was fun.

    the intensity did increase however, when one person was being tasered and touched another person. and it hur tthe second person more, most people said. so PLEASE be careful, if he's close enough for you to get him with it, hes close enough to touch you and make you feel the effects as well.

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    ^The thing makes this horrible noise and there's this electric blue current... I'd have to pay someone A LOT... and II'd STILL feel bad.. damnit... isn't there a prison where they offer up participants?
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    Isn't this the guy that started posting in thread?

    Good lord, girl. I'm not suprised he's stalking you. Why is he even in the picture after that? That was spooky enough!

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    take a video of one of his "rants" thru the window secretly. video proof of such destructive and aggressive behaviour should work wonders for getting a restraining order or arrest warrant.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Isn't this the guy that started posting in this thread?

    Good lord, girl. I'm not suprised he's stalking you. Why is he even in the picture after that? That was spooky enough!
    Yup, the same guy. Man... reading that thread... I can't believe I ever put up with that guy! He made me feel SO crappy about myself! Here's a picture of me that he took while he was calling me fat I finally have the self-esteem to go, "Hey! Look! I'm not fat!"



    Ah yes, and I've been getting emails from him... No, I haven't responded. But, it is apparently all MY fault that he did that (b/c I was mean)?! Booooo.
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    Oh wow girl, sorry to hear. That dude has some serious issues! Is that the one who murdered someone or something like that?

    Everyone here gave good advice too. If you can move, i'd do that too.


    Good luck with everthing, karma is a bitch.

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    ^Moving would definately take care of the problem... but I really like where I'm living. And... the guy who is in jail on murder charges was the ex BEFORE this one. I swear to you guys, I'm with a decent one now! <embarrassed>
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    Quote Originally Posted by snoopy View Post
    take a video of one of his "rants" thru the window secretly. video proof of such destructive and aggressive behaviour should work wonders for getting a restraining order or arrest warrant.
    Absolutely agreed.

    I've had some run-ins with idiots in the past, and I've recorded them with either a small pocket voice recorder ($60 at local stores) or I hook up my video camera to my computer along with some motion detection software (Crime Catcher is what I use.) Then I call the police, file a report, and have a warrant put out for their arrest *IF* they have threatened to harm me/us.

    The voice recorder is great, because if you maintain your cool (since you know you're recording) and then they lose it, when you go to court they pretty much lose right away. I have one with the microphone on the top of the device, so I slip it into a pants pocket with the top just at the edge of the pocket. Try to hold still, because the mic picks up the movement sound which can be very loud at such a close distance.

    For video, mount the camera on a tripod if you have to, but I usually just put it on the computer desk/table and zoom in on the window/area in question. If you don't have a camera, find a friend to loan you one. Be sure to get one with "Night shot" so you can shoot in the dark.

    100&#37; success rate so far.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    ^The thing makes this horrible noise and there's this electric blue current... I'd have to pay someone A LOT... and II'd STILL feel bad.. damnit... isn't there a prison where they offer up participants?
    mine did that too... it shot what looked like lightening out about 1 ft. but it still did suprisingly little damage, and was more debilitating to me once i was touched by that person. just giving you warning, i guess. i would hate to see you use it and it not work and because you're incapacitated (if he touched you) something horrid happen.

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    (a) Fat?

    Based on your pic, definately not. Consider yourself wolf-whistled at.

    (b) ex bf

    Look up anal retentive in the dictionary - that about covers it.

    Sounds like this guy has got an inferiority complex or an unhealthy obsession and is taking it out on you.

    Showing up at your house a year after the event, tracking down your regulars, and otherwise trying to make you feel bad is not frankly sane and rational behaviour.

    If I behaved like that towards anyone female, let alone an ex gf, I'd have good cause to be ashamed of myself.

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    i have only these few thingas to say and i hope you take them as seriously as i mean them.

    HESSITATE AND YOU WILL DIE!

    quit messing around, go to the police! dont talk about it DO IT!
    its only by acting in these situations that you can be sure you will be safe.

    there are to many of those "we didnt think they would do that" scenarios out there that have ended up badly.

    so dont take the time to thnk just act, you have had more than enough proof that you need to protect yourself.

    NOW DO IT!
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    Quote Originally Posted by blayze View Post
    warnign about tasers- if he happens to touch you while he's tasing you, it affects you as well. ALSO test it out first, if you have a brave guy friend, ask him if you can tase him for a second to see if it hurts. you'll be surprised.
    Um that is completely incorrect. I have personally been Tasered as part of training. The current just like any other circuit flows from the positive to the negative terminal (except damn british cars). You can handle someone being tasered. A TASER disrupts the signal to the msucle from the brain. A counter wave that cancels out the signal. It doesn't hurt but it doesn't feel good either.


    Quote Originally Posted by blayze View Post
    when i first started dancing, my little bro bought me a taser to carry around in my bag with me at work. it was advertised to be something scary sounding, like 40,000 V or something crazy like that, we tried it out on a hot dog, and it burned it.
    TASER is a brand name. What you little brother bought you was a cheap stun gun. It doesn't work because it is not sending a shock at the correct frequency to disrupt the nerve impulse. TASERS work instantly and effectively, but only when the current is flowing through them. Recovery is instant too. It is a rather poor substitute for a gun unless you can activate it multiple times and the perp exhausts themselves trying to fight it.



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    OMG! How did he get past your screening phase to begin with?

    Sounds like he has MAJOR control issues. He is loosing control and now is trying to reassert it.

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    I would personally just keep calling the police until they finally went and spoke to him, but in the meantime, make sure all your alarms are up to date, and perhaps even consider having cameras installed or motion sensing lights on the outside of your house. I wouldn't use a taser because it is likely to have it used on yourself, especially if he is a lot stronger than you are.
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