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    I was dancing for a nice guy yesterday and he was from out of town. During the first song he touched my leg and I gently moved it and told him there was no touching here (in Oregon). He was cool about it. Then during the second song we were talking for a second and he put his hand on my leg again, it was actually more of a gesture than anything, he was kind of talking with his hands. The bouncer came over and told him he had already saw me warning him already so if he did it again he'd kick him out. Our bouncer is great and I am so glad he does his job - but because he was VERY forceful and intimidating in his confrontation it completely killed the mood. The customer was just done. He told me he had been planning to spend at least a hundred, but just wasn't into it anymore.

    Some customers are different, and this guy was obviously a little more sensitive. It didn't really bother me because I could go make the money from someone else, but I was just wondering if anyone had any tips or advice. I suppose I should have said something like, "why don't you go have another drink and relax and I'll come get you in a bit"
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    Default Re: If the mood gets killed.

    You could try to calm him down and make a joke out of it, "oh these bouncers are sure on the job tonight, arent they?" If the customer was respectful and the bouncer simply misjudged the situation.

    But in the end there's only so much you can do. It happens to everyone. Some customers are more sensitive than others.

    On the other hand when a customer says, "I was going to spend X amount on you, but the bouncer pissed me off," I question if the customer is serious; afterall why take it out on the dancer if the bouncer was overzealous?
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    Default Re: If the mood gets killed.

    I hate that happen once. He was so upset that he was putting on his coat and hat. I jumped right in front of him and said, "oh no you're not going to let HIM ruin our good time together right? Come on let's not let him get the best of us. come on, finish your drink with me..." And so he sat back down..and I gave him a quick 3min shoulder massage and he was back in the groove.

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    Default Re: If the mood gets killed.

    humor defuses most situations, an asshole will talk about $$ to try to make u feel like u should be letting him touch u.

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    Default Re: If the mood gets killed.

    also, after the situation, tell the bouncer, NICELY, that you know that guys aren't allowed to touch at all, but instead of interrupting your dance, is there any way that he can say your name instead of yelling at the guy in a situation like this? tell him that you can take care of MOST situations and it ruined your money but you know he was just doing his job. and then offer him $5.

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