I was dancing for a nice guy yesterday and he was from out of town. During the first song he touched my leg and I gently moved it and told him there was no touching here (in Oregon). He was cool about it. Then during the second song we were talking for a second and he put his hand on my leg again, it was actually more of a gesture than anything, he was kind of talking with his hands. The bouncer came over and told him he had already saw me warning him already so if he did it again he'd kick him out. Our bouncer is great and I am so glad he does his job - but because he was VERY forceful and intimidating in his confrontation it completely killed the mood. The customer was just done. He told me he had been planning to spend at least a hundred, but just wasn't into it anymore.
Some customers are different, and this guy was obviously a little more sensitive. It didn't really bother me because I could go make the money from someone else, but I was just wondering if anyone had any tips or advice. I suppose I should have said something like, "why don't you go have another drink and relax and I'll come get you in a bit"



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