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    So I had a date last night with a guy that I've been seeing casually for about a month. I called him in the afternoon to see if he wanted to go out. He was all wierd on the phone but i went anyway. When I showed up nobody answered the door when I knocked so I opened the door and lo and behold he is laying on his bed with all the lights off. Strange but I figured he had a long day. I tell him to get up so we can go.

    I drive us downtown and after parking we end walking by my best friends tattoo shop. I tell him "hey I want to say hi to my friend" Well when I was walking in he just stood at the door. I asked him if he was coming in and he just muttered something while looking away so i went in anyway.

    After chatting for a second my friend and i go in front of the shop to share a ciggarette. The whole time we stood there my date stood about 5 ft. away just looking around. I finally got his attention and said "Hey Luke this is my best friend Pineapple..Pineapple this is Luke." He sorta shook his hand, didn't look my friend in the eye and walked away again! What the hell is up with that? So effin wierd and rude.

    So at this point I said fuck it and suggested we go get a drink at my favorite bar. While we are there he doesn't say much to me and when i went to the ladies room I came back out to see that he had wandered off and started chatting with people he didnt know. Normally I wouldnt care but when i walked up he put is arm around me, stood in front of me and kept talking. I felt stupid just standing there so i introduced myself to the total strangers. At this point Luke loudly exclaimed "I fucking hate this bar, it sucks. Let's go somewhere else."


    While we were leaving he put his hand around my waist and started saying in a baby voice "Oh when is our baby due? Maybe we'll have twins" What a DOUCHE! I was in such shock that I actually went with him to the next bar. When we were walking he kept trying to grab my ass and my boobs or pull my skirt up..or walking really slow 2 ft behind me so i had to keep turning around to see if he was still there. wtf? are you 12?

    needless to say the bad behavior continued(i.e loud obnoxious singing or loud stupid comments..while not drunk) and when i told him i felt sick and wanted to leave he said "fine wait for me outside cause i gotta pee."


    25 motherfuckin minutes in the godamn cold later he cames out laughing saying he was in there dancing, having fun. Then actually looked me in the eye and said "Don't worry sexy, you have nothin to worry about" I suppose implying that he was dancing with a girl and i shouldnt be jealous. I'm not jealous but you are rude.

    I should've just left his ass there but i was so fucking shocked by how he acted i was just like let's go home...sort in autopilot. When i pulled up to his house he got out acting like i was coming in...when i told him i was going home he looked all disgusted and said "ok bye be careful going home" and slammed my door. (this is even more odd cause he is like octopus affectionate)

    So fucking bizzare. I mean what causes a guy to act like that??!!
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    Ick. What a weirdo! You should have ended the date at the tattoo shop and hung out with Pineapple instead.

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    Does this guy have a history of odd behavior? Perhaps he's bipolar or on drugs?

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    I know!! Everyone in the shop ended up taking me to breakfast and telling me thier own horror stories. Then me, Pineapple and one of the artists went home to play Tekken 5. My friends are so effin sweet.

    BTW Alexxa your avatar has me enthralled...in a slightly creepy way.
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    I'm not sure..he was always a little odd but in a cute way. Last night just blew my mind.
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    Sounds to me like he was high on something.

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    Maybe he was acting wierd to throw you off balance. Some people just do that as a negotiating tactic.

    If his plan was to get your attention and your emotions going, it appears to have worked. Remember, hate and frustration are emotions too...

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    Wow that sounds like a bad experience, I am scared to start dating again with guys like that out there. Where did you meet him if you don't mind me asking? I agree with the others, sounds like he was on drugs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StuartL View Post
    Maybe he was acting wierd to throw you off balance. Some people just do that as a negotiating tactic.
    huh? what game-book are you playing from?

    Quote Originally Posted by StuartL View Post
    If his plan was to get your attention and your emotions going, it appears to have worked. Remember, hate and frustration are emotions too...
    so are 'fear and loathing'.

    emil,
    i think your date broke the "wacko alarm".

    or, your wacko-sensor seems to need to be replaced. asap.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StuartL View Post
    Maybe he was acting wierd to throw you off balance. Some people just do that as a negotiating tactic.

    If his plan was to get your attention and your emotions going, it appears to have worked. Remember, hate and frustration are emotions too...
    what are you talking about?? your comments seem confusing at best. the guy on the date was weird plain and simple. chalk it up to experience and find some other guy.
    don't hate the player hate the game......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    Does this guy have a history of odd behavior? Perhaps he's bipolar or on drugs?
    I thought bipolar, as well. Perhaps borderline personality disorder?

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    Excuses or not.... He treated Emiliana Like poo but she got tekken 5 in the end so it's all good.

    Still only thing that would have capped this experience would be bart simpson sheets.
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    Run, run, run, then become acquainted with my refuge from crazy men...Heartless Bitch International. Click the bottom 'cause that mf is clearly a head case!
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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz View Post
    I thought bipolar, as well. Perhaps borderline personality disorder?
    ok, this seems to be a comon theme around here... someone acts wierd and a lot of us automatically assume he/she is BIPOLAR??
    let me tell you what a bipolar person acts like, as i am one, i think i would know.
    bipolar people "flip out" and over react in bizarre ways, sometimes we get violent, -we get overly angry. but 95% of the time, its simply an over-reaction to a trigger (someone pissed us off, had a bad day where everything goes wrong, etc)
    -we get depressed. we lack motivation, and generally are just too down to do jack shit. sometimes we feel like no one cares, so we do stupid shit to make the pain go away. this too passes.
    -we get REALLY REALLY REALLY freakin' hyper. we spend all our money and go into the depths of debt, we are the most rambunctious energetic fun people to be around, we feel like we're invincible, and that we can do anything.

    we DO NOT
    -get all spacey and distant and treat people like crap.
    -play mind games to try and peak somebody's interest
    -blow off dates and act inconsiderate for no freakin' reason

    i'm sorry, but that really irks me when people blame stupid behavior such as that guys' on being bipolar. being bipolar is NOT an excuse, it is an explanation. it is not as big of a deal as people make it out to be. everyone has their ups and down, but for someone with bipolar, those ups and downs are simply more pronounced.

    actually, most people with Bipolar are pretty nice. most of us are caring individuals who would rather help someone out with their problems than deal with our own. in a way it gives us a sense of control over our own emotions, if we can make someone else happy, mke them feel good about themselves, then we feel good about ourselves, in essence, we're using others' happiness to make us feel better. but if someone pisses us off, watch out! because we HELLA over-react!

    please don't go blaming things on mental disorders/disabilities/etc if you dont know what they really are. it's an insult.

    same thing with borderline personality disorder, it's not some weird curse, it's simply a quirk that someone has that makes them exhibit a set of symptoms. which, in my opinion are NOT described by the OP. BPD people usually have problems dealing with emotions, inappropriate anger, intense but usually extremely short bouts of anxiety and depression, and a fear of being alone. that does NOT sound like the person described by the OP.

    i think this guy was just a weirdo, not necessarily one blessed with a mental disorder.

    currently, i'm 2 semesters away from getting my psych degree, which by no means qualifies me as an expert, but i guess i'm saying i've studied mental disorders, and its so very frustrating when people blame other's inappropriate actions and behavior on a mental disorder. mental disorders don't MAKE you do anything, people's actions are their own.

    and i'm not jumping your case Rozz, its just something that i felt needed to be addressed as it comes up in just about every thread about someone acting weird/rude.

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    ""we DO NOT
    -get all spacey and distant and treat people like crap.
    -play mind games to try and peak somebody's interest
    -blow off dates and act inconsiderate for no freakin' reason""

    Actually, I am bipolar also and I *do* get spacey and distant at times, and blow off dates if I'm "in a mood". Maybe that's just me, tho.
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    Yeah he was just too wierd. I know he drinks and smokes pot...i don't know if he does other stuff though. Another assumption i made was that he may have not been wanting to date me anymore(i was already losing interest too) so he acted like a total douche so i would drop him like a bad habit...well it worked

    Yeah i don't think he is bipolar but something is way off. I knew it intuitively when i met him(as did my friends). I feel dumb that it took me like 5 or 6 dates to listen to what my body was telling me. But oh well..good riddance to bad garbage!

    P.S. Optimist I LOVE heartless bitches international. When i got home I re read the red flags list..i think this guy has given me some more examples to send to the website
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    Quote Originally Posted by NatalieFRPhilly View Post
    Where did you meet him if you don't mind me asking?
    OK I should be smacked on the forehead for this one. I was pulling into the parking lot everyone uses downtown and I saw him walking. When i got out of my car he was kinda standing a few feet away. He followed me to the bar trying to talk to me. I ignored him for most the night...til i got drunk and gave him my number. Mistake number 1! He later told me he had seen me drive up and waited for me to get out of my car so he could meet me. You would think that would be creepy enough for me to blow him off but I'm too damned nice sometimes.
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    also, maybe he has been seeing someone else. I'm suspicious, but I always susspect cheating...

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    Eh I wouldn't be surprised at all...he is wicked cute..looks exactly like Alex from Clockwork Orange(even dresses like him) I doubt girls stay with him for long though...batshit crazy motherfucker
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    Quote Originally Posted by Emiliana View Post

    So fucking bizzare. I mean what causes a guy to act like that??!!
    A penis. LOL

    Fuck that. You dont need that little kid attitude. We are women and we need MEN not boys. (<<thing that ate brownie.) Next!..
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    Quote Originally Posted by blayze View Post
    i'm not jumping your case Rozz, its just something that i felt needed to be addressed as it comes up in just about every thread about someone acting weird/rude.
    I get it darlin, I didn't mean to offend. The behaviors rather looked like what I've seen in my family members (my god, I should never breed). I suggested borderline based on his alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation, affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and sometimes more than a few days), and the inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger.

    But then again, maybe he's just an ass.

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    I think he is just a really insecure, immature kid.
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    yeah my thoughts exactly^^^ He is 26, has hardly any friends, abruptly left his home town and said he "just wanted a change"(pfft yeah right), and talked shit about his ex girlfriends. Big red flags that i of course ignored... He also drinks WHILE he is driving and even tried to bring an open beer in my car...umm i dont fucking think so.

    You know this thread was a good idea..the more i tell you guys about him the quicker im moving on from this big old mess named Luke
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    I would say this should be the last time you go out with him - you don't need to be treated like this .

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