I got a dance at a club I don't work at and I kept thinking to myself she seems perfectly comfortable. I don't know if I would be comfortable dancing for a woman only because you can't just grind in their lap like you do men. any suggestions?




I got a dance at a club I don't work at and I kept thinking to myself she seems perfectly comfortable. I don't know if I would be comfortable dancing for a woman only because you can't just grind in their lap like you do men. any suggestions?





i am interested to see the responses to your question, too! I always am a little anxious when I get asked to dance for a woman. I love girls, boobies, and kitties, but I have a hard time when it is a woman I'm not attracted to, or maybe even too attracted to!
But it does happen, so here is what I do. I dance in front of her a little more than I would a man, I breathe on her neck and slide down and brush her cleavage with my face. If she/her man is encouraging me to do so, I will caress her breasts with my hands on top of her clothes. I slide down and touch her legs, maybe wiggle my hair in her crotch if she is wearing pants. I lightly grind in her lap for a short time, and then mix match repeat!
I have a problem keeping it interesting for multiple dances though. I need some new tricks, maybe just more practice?





I feel pretty comfortable dancing for girls. I am more affectionate to girls coz its generally what girls want rather than just checking out pussy.
I give them lots of eye contact, stroke their hair or face etc.





Unless they are bonafide lesbian and/or request it I generally am more of a sensual dancer than a grinder and "flasher"... less pussy and more sensuality... stroke her shoulders, arms... gripe her leg... breathe on her neck etc... I basically dance for the woman like I would like to be danced for... which is a sensual dance not so much a raunchy one (with alot of pussy showing, grinding, etc).
Granted, some girls do dance for women just like they do for men including the grinding!![]()
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I guess it would all depend on the female custie and her situation. I'm in Ontario, so it's full contact dances, but I'm not allowed to get a dance by myself, the bf has to accompany me (poor him hahaha) The dancer usually doesn't do much grinding because there just isn't enough room in the one club we go to most often, so she does a lot of the eye contact, hair touching, rubs my shoulders and neck while leaning in and whispering stuff in my ear about what she would *like* to do if allowed. Kissing my neck sends me off into the clouds! If the manager is not circulating around she'll feel my breasts and pull up my top and bra and go for skin. She's asked to see my kittie a few times, but again only if she feels safe to do so. I let her do the risky stuff and never ask because I'm too scared to get her in trouble.![]()
So with my bf in the little booth with me, as I said above, it makes it hard to maneuver around sometimes, so after a bit of dancing for me, she sometimes will sit on his lap closer to his knees than his crotch, while still touching me, that way he gets a bit of attention and she gets to sit for a break. The best time was when she asked me to get up and dance with her, the bf got to sit in the middle while we stood on either side of his knees and just kind of did a sexy dance together with some touching and stand up grinding if you can call it that?
We often spend more time with her buying her a drink or two and just chatting. Which I think sometimes annoys my bf a bit because men just don't talk as much period, even less at a strip club, they are there to be entertained... Me, I'm french and the stripper is also french and we just talk and talk and talk and then while she's dancing for us we kinda of keep talking but more about sexy thingsBut my point is (and yeah I actually had one) that her talking with me during the dance actually enhances the experience and helps me relax because I sometimes need that being the only female custie. I feel the men stare or watch me all night as well as the dancers, probably looking for a sign that I didn't want to be there or something.
So if you talk with your female custie and comment about her hair, jewelery and/or clothes, that may make her relax and then you do you main moves and when that gets boring get her to stand up and dance with you (if that's an option in your club) Women love to dance and that would help relax too. Hehehe, the more relaxed, the more money gets spentAs someone said, grinding doesn't do much for women, unless they really like your ass
I guess thinking of what you would like if you got a dance might help as well.
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Just be sexy-sensual.
You can't grind of course. When I usually dance for a woman, I usually face her most of the time as well. Even if the woman is not lesbian/bisexual whatever, women typically can appreciate another woman's body, so if you're showing that you appreciate hers, not so much groping but caressing, a stroke her a look there...it works for me at least...good luck mama!![]()


When I dance for women, I tend to do a more slower version of my lap dance for men, but with my eye contact and more touching of the custie. Usually, with guys, I do the normal lap dance technique, minus me touching him much. With ladies, I touch her al over - make her feel special. Usually, to get the dance, I ask te guy she's with if he is her boyfriend. Usually the answer is yes, at which point, I kinda curse to myself and say something like "damn, she is so gorgeous - I was looking to have a lil fun with her in the back." Usually the guy will be more than happy to buy her a lap dance and just imagine what could be going on in the back room.
When I rub up againbst her, I usually mutter something in her ear, like "mm, you are so fucking sexy.." or something of the sort, which gets her to smile and stuff. I have two female regulars who are such a pleasure to deal with - they always tip me on stage, buy me drinks, and buy lap dances from me, just cause I am "so nice and not a bitch" which I guess some of the other dancers are to the female custies. Personally, I like them.
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Actually you canHave them lean back a bit in the chair. Give TONS of eye contact, running your hands up and down there body. Deeply inhale/exhale. Take my leg, and run it between their crotch up and down. If you want to give them a lapdance, have them open their legs as wide as they can.
Trust me, women LOVE buying dances from me!
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I have to be drunk, or at least buzzed. I'm just kinda shy when it comes to women and also, I always worry I'm going to crush them when I sit on them.
If a girl is really into it I do the same as CK--use my leg to get at the goods. Assuming she has pants on!! For straight girls--you know, kinda like when you'd make out with boys in high school with all of your clothes on and he'd sort of press his thigh into your crotch? That shit is hot. I use my knee.
I've also started grabbing their hair at the nape of their neck and tugging firmly but gently while lightly kissing their necks. They love that shit.




i've never danced for a girl customer but i love going to clubs and buying dances. And its possible for girls to want the same kind of dance as a guy instead of it being more sensual. Of all the dancers i hve ever bought dances from, the one that treated me like a guy was the one that is the most memorable. All the other girls kinda did more of an airdance thing (in a club where there is contact). Also it helped that the girl did a good job of acting like she was enjoying our time together.
honestly girls in the club intimidt the hell out of me any advice on aproaching a woman and which are nice and which ar emean or even which are there to hustle free drinks and which mght get dances?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=ksICC85qyRc
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^^Just ask..
Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"
Yeah, seriously, Lestat. Surely you know by now that this would be one of the LEAST weird requests we get. Sometimes just asking for a "sensual" will do the trick.
I want dances from Cinnamon & Dottie!!! Hot damn, girls.
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Charlie, that's always a tough call. Unless they are behaving like legitimate customers (and that means spending) and not acting like Girls Gone Wild, I actually DON'T approach them. As much as I genuinely like girls & would love to dance for more, I tend to wait for them to approach me. Just been burned by nasty, jealous, insecure women too many times.
So my only advice is to do the same. Watch and see if they're spending & behaving. Being a little bit butch always helps narrow down how serious they are as customers too . . . (it helps that I like a little butch anyway).
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"I just can't get over how much babies cry. I really had no idea what I was getting into. To tell you the truth, I thought it would be more like getting a cat." -- Anne Lamott
thanks!!
http://youtube.com/watch?v=ksICC85qyRc
Any piece of clothing can be sexy with a quietly passionate woman inside it.
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He that climbs the tall tree has won the right tothe fruit.
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WELL. I just may be doing a road trip out West sometime this summer - Juneish - and if there is any way I can make it to your locale on my route, either to or from (possibly with another surprise guest), you better believe I'm going to take you up on that!
(PM's to come when I have a better idea of specifically when, and then you can tell me specifically where!)
P.S. I find your little birdie as hypnotizing as I find Vyanka's current banana gif!
"Before I conceived you, I wanted you. Before you were born, I loved you. Before you were here an hour, I would die for you. This is the miracle of life." -- Maureen Hawkins
"I just can't get over how much babies cry. I really had no idea what I was getting into. To tell you the truth, I thought it would be more like getting a cat." -- Anne Lamott
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