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    By paying attention to hustle hut and what the other girls in the clubs I work at do/don't do, I have doubled ,even sometimes, tripled my money. I have never been a big hustler and I don't really think I am now. Its just too simple to be classified as a hustle.

    Most girls I work with will sit by themselves, hide in the dressing room, or sit at the bar, if its slow. I read on here, NEVER SIT ALONE- it looks like you are stuck up or no one wants to sit with YOU! I have been doing this for the past few weeks and my money has increased.

    1. Even if they aren't tipping at the stage, go and ask if you can join them. Some of the guys can be a little shy or just want some one to talk to. I don't walk over and ask if they want a table dance, I ask can I join them. 90% of the time, they say yes. We have a good chat, they'll normally by me a drink in the first few minutes, and then when I get on stage, they follow me. When I get off stage, I tell the customer that I will be right back, I have to freshen up. That gives him a few minutes to see the next girl on stage. After my little break, I return and we continue the conversation. This is the time where I ask if he is interested in a dance. NOT DO YOU WANT A DANCE? but would you like to come in the back with me? This method generally works for me but I can't do this all night long if the club is busy.

    2. Another thing I do, is that when I am walking past customers (while heading to the dressing room, the restroom), I at least say hi and ask if they are having a good time. Never say it on the way to the private room with another customer, your attention should be on him! When I do return from whatever I was doing, I go back again to the guys I passed up and use hustle #1 on them.

    3. Introduce yourself to as many customers if you can! When its busy I cant really use hustle #1 on everybody, although I do for a select few. I go around saying hi to everyone, introduce myself, and ask for table dances. Sometimes they say no but join them for a drink. Sometimes they ask for a private dance. Sometimes they don't want anything but that is rare.

    4. Smile!!! My biggest pet peeve and what I hear the most complaints about is girls not smiling. Even if you don't want to be there, feel like shit, feel like killing some one, or want to scream, SMILE! If they don't think you are having fun, why the hell do they want to be there? They are there to tip and buy dances from entertainers. They are not going to tip a girl who looks like she has issues, is bored, or doesn't want to be there. Which brings me to number 5

    5. Check your attitude at the door! They don't need to hear that you had a fight with your boyfriend or even your mother. They don't need to hear that you hate a particular dancer. They don't need to hear that you are not making any money. They don't need to hear that you are bored. You are there to entertain them and sometimes listen to their problems. They are not there to listen to yours.

    6. Make eye contact! Even if you are looking at a spot between their eyes, it looks like you are looking directly at them. I always look them in the eyes and I have a few regs that pay me just to stare into my eyes. When you look anywhere else (like the ceiling or the wall) it makes it look like you are not interested and even makes you look bored.

    Basically what I do is common sense for any job. Have a good attitude, Smile, make eye contact, introduce yourself, and be entertaining. I just don't understand why I am the only one really doing this at the clubs I work at. Granted I don't like sharing my money with the next girl but I am tired of hearing the bitching about no money when I am banking nearly every night!

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    This is very good advice. The only thing I want to add is the most important part of my hsutle is...when you meet that 1 guy that falls in love with you. DOnt let him go!! Sure, the more people you talk to, the more money you will make, but if you talk to enough guys, every single night, you shoudl be abel to meet that 1 special guy who will give you his wallet. Take it! take it all! Do not let him go until you have completly exausted him and his resources. Does this sound bitchy? It's not. he is having fun, he is enjoying himself. After his cash is gone, take him tot he ATM. Take him to get funny money. Show him a good enough time in the VIP room so he wants to extend his time. You can make more money off that 1 guy than you can all night hustling new people. You've already got him, and once he is yours, keep him until you have completly exausted every resource he has.
    Some girls give up to easily. Don't give up, dont feel bad, and if he needs a little push, give it to him. Promise him that he will not regret what he spent in the morning, because all he will remember is how much fun he had, and how worth it you are.

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    I agree with you Kaylinn! That's perhaps my problems at times - having endurance! Because some of thsoe guys who will give you their wallet.... are emotionally exhausting! LOL!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    This is very good advice. The only thing I want to add is the most important part of my hsutle is...when you meet that 1 guy that falls in love with you. DOnt let him go!! Sure, the more people you talk to, the more money you will make, but if you talk to enough guys, every single night, you shoudl be abel to meet that 1 special guy who will give you his wallet. Take it! take it all! Do not let him go until you have completly exausted him and his resources. Does this sound bitchy? It's not. he is having fun, he is enjoying himself. After his cash is gone, take him tot he ATM. Take him to get funny money. Show him a good enough time in the VIP room so he wants to extend his time. You can make more money off that 1 guy than you can all night hustling new people. You've already got him, and once he is yours, keep him until you have completly exausted every resource he has.
    Some girls give up to easily. Don't give up, dont feel bad, and if he needs a little push, give it to him. Promise him that he will not regret what he spent in the morning, because all he will remember is how much fun he had, and how worth it you are.
    Girl, I'm glad you reminded me of this...I used to be this exact same way, and sadly since I've been at this new club I have yet to do this. Stupid me!! Anyway, I also agree that when you get a guy like Kaylinn is describing that is absolutely smitten with you, work him til you can't anymore! If he feels for you the way you want him too, he will return and become your regular..







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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    This is very good advice. The only thing I want to add is the most important part of my hsutle is...when you meet that 1 guy that falls in love with you. DOnt let him go!! Sure, the more people you talk to, the more money you will make, but if you talk to enough guys, every single night, you shoudl be abel to meet that 1 special guy who will give you his wallet. Take it! take it all! Do not let him go until you have completly exausted him and his resources. Does this sound bitchy? It's not. he is having fun, he is enjoying himself. After his cash is gone, take him tot he ATM. Take him to get funny money. Show him a good enough time in the VIP room so he wants to extend his time. You can make more money off that 1 guy than you can all night hustling new people. You've already got him, and once he is yours, keep him until you have completly exausted every resource he has.
    Some girls give up to easily. Don't give up, dont feel bad, and if he needs a little push, give it to him. Promise him that he will not regret what he spent in the morning, because all he will remember is how much fun he had, and how worth it you are.
    Does this apply to a big, grabby jerk that's trying to molest you? Cause I had a guy in VIP on Saturday night that we did just a half hour because he kept complaining that he wasn't allowed to touch. In our club, it's a no touch club (unfortunately, not all girls there follow that rule ) but he didn't know that, this was his first VIP. I tried to make it fun for him but his mind was made up. So, does this rule apply to the horrible ones that we rant about, or just the ones that are tolerable?

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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876 View Post
    Does this apply to a big, grabby jerk that's trying to molest you? Cause I had a guy in VIP on Saturday night that we did just a half hour because he kept complaining that he wasn't allowed to touch. In our club, it's a no touch club (unfortunately, not all girls there follow that rule ) but he didn't know that, this was his first VIP. I tried to make it fun for him but his mind was made up. So, does this rule apply to the horrible ones that we rant about, or just the ones that are tolerable?
    No, this does not apply. You should never put up with someting that will hurt your mental state just to make more money.







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    No, it does not apply. Thoes guys who give you their wallets and absolutly fall for you are the kind of men who will sit in VIP for 4 hour striaght, just chatting, with the occasional lap dance. They are in it for your company, not to molest you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    This is very good advice. The only thing I want to add is the most important part of my hsutle is...when you meet that 1 guy that falls in love with you. DOnt let him go!! Sure, the more people you talk to, the more money you will make, but if you talk to enough guys, every single night, you shoudl be abel to meet that 1 special guy who will give you his wallet. Take it! take it all! Do not let him go until you have completly exausted him and his resources. Does this sound bitchy? It's not. he is having fun, he is enjoying himself. After his cash is gone, take him tot he ATM. Take him to get funny money. Show him a good enough time in the VIP room so he wants to extend his time. You can make more money off that 1 guy than you can all night hustling new people. You've already got him, and once he is yours, keep him until you have completly exausted every resource he has.
    Some girls give up to easily. Don't give up, dont feel bad, and if he needs a little push, give it to him. Promise him that he will not regret what he spent in the morning, because all he will remember is how much fun he had, and how worth it you are.
    Accept their money, of course. Do it honestly. Don't get them trashed so that they can barely sign their names and spend what they will regret and charge back. If they are too drunk, leave them alone. Have a soul.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrayStripper View Post
    Accept their money, of course. Do it honestly. Don't get them trashed so that they can barely sign their names and spend what they will regret and charge back. If they are too drunk, leave them alone. Have a soul.
    then some other heartless bitch will get it!

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    then some other heartless bitch will get it!
    Teehee like me Nah, but I never feel like I'm taking advantage of anyone. I am not a doctor, so I have no idea what someones maximum alchohol limit is.







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    I had a guy in a skybox one night. He was pretty drunk to begin with. An hour later, he was passing out. He said he wanted to stay an extra hour. At that point, he would have agreed to signing over his house to me, he was so lit. At the end of the second hour, I asked him to pay me. I had to wake him up, as he had passed out. He woke up and threw up on himself a little. He was way to drunk to count out money or pay me, and he took out his wallet and handed it to me. I counted it out. $2,000. I said, how much do you want me to take, all of it? He said yes. I said you realize yoru giving me 2grand? He said yes. I counted it in front of the cameras, and made sure he nodded his head yes, so it was very obvious.

    Security came in, they saw it on camera, and saw me take all the money out of his wallet, and thought I had stolen and taken advantage of this drunk man. He said no, I told her to take it all.

    I gave him back enough cash to tip the limo driver. He signed his credit card for the drink tab, and we put him in a limo on his way.

    Do I feel bad for that? No, I dont. Not one bit. Drunk or not...He is a grown man capable of makign his choices. He choose to get that drunk. I don't feel I took advantage of his situation, because I would have done the same thing to a sober man. I may not have succeeded as easily, but whatever. He came to the strip club, he came wit that cash, he spent it. He had a good time up to the point of passing out. And when he did..he passed out of a very comfy couch. He gave a nice stripper a well deserved break from the usual hustle. I appriciated his money, and did good things with it.

    I am at work to make money off men. That's my job and I will do it. Regardless of their mental status to due to alcohol. A man in a strip club is a man in a strip club. They are my income. Bottom line.

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    *sigh* why cant we all have days like that?


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    If I would go to work more then I would make money. I am so lazy and depressed. the last thing I want to do is get naked for a bunch of assholes and deal with people with more negative than me.
    Dancing is stressful. People do not understand unless they do it or have done it.



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    Kailynn, he paid you cash ... that's fair game. He came in with that amount and that was his nightly budget.

    What I am talking about are the girls who drag customers who are throwing up on themselves to VIP rooms and "talk" them into signing credit card slips. Drunk is fine. They are all drunk. Swaying side to side, eyes rolling back, on the verge of poisoning, that's bad. Unless they have cash ... lol.

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    Dancing is stressful every job is stressful in a different way. Kaylinn, I think you did the right thing by asking him and counting it in front of him.

    Anyways, this thread makes me wish I worked in a regular SC. There are still some things I can take with me though.
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    i have a question about the never sitting alone advice.

    i've been at a new club for about a month, having left my previous club due to drama with the other dancers. currently i avoid sitting with the other dancers so no new drama is stirred up. when the club is slow, who else do i sit with when the customers have already said no to me?

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    I never ask them for a dance right away! Go ask if you can join them! Please read my post again.


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    Quote Originally Posted by mina loy View Post
    i have a question about the never sitting alone advice.

    i've been at a new club for about a month, having left my previous club due to drama with the other dancers. currently i avoid sitting with the other dancers so no new drama is stirred up. when the club is slow, who else do i sit with when the customers have already said no to me?
    Go sit at the bar and chat up the bartender, it looks better than sitting alone at a table. Or take a break in the dressing room for 15 min. or until your next set. If the customers have all already said no to you then it won't hurt anything for you to take a break. When you re-emerge they will see you again and possibly change their minds.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    I had a guy in a skybox one night. He was pretty drunk to begin with. An hour later, he was passing out. He said he wanted to stay an extra hour. At that point, he would have agreed to signing over his house to me, he was so lit. At the end of the second hour, I asked him to pay me. I had to wake him up, as he had passed out. He woke up and threw up on himself a little. He was way to drunk to count out money or pay me, and he took out his wallet and handed it to me. I counted it out. $2,000. I said, how much do you want me to take, all of it? He said yes. I said you realize yoru giving me 2grand? He said yes. I counted it in front of the cameras, and made sure he nodded his head yes, so it was very obvious.

    Security came in, they saw it on camera, and saw me take all the money out of his wallet, and thought I had stolen and taken advantage of this drunk man. He said no, I told her to take it all.

    I gave him back enough cash to tip the limo driver. He signed his credit card for the drink tab, and we put him in a limo on his way.

    Do I feel bad for that? No, I dont. Not one bit. Drunk or not...He is a grown man capable of makign his choices. He choose to get that drunk. I don't feel I took advantage of his situation, because I would have done the same thing to a sober man. I may not have succeeded as easily, but whatever. He came to the strip club, he came wit that cash, he spent it. He had a good time up to the point of passing out. And when he did..he passed out of a very comfy couch. He gave a nice stripper a well deserved break from the usual hustle. I appriciated his money, and did good things with it.

    I am at work to make money off men. That's my job and I will do it. Regardless of their mental status to due to alcohol. A man in a strip club is a man in a strip club. They are my income. Bottom line.
    Umm no. I have had my share of men drunk, their a gas! But asking a drunk man if he understands, and he is passing out...Whew. Lucky you he did not come back. He was not drunk, he was at the cut off point. Not the best in Customer Service skills imo. Passed out? Damn. 2 grand? What?

    I wouldn't get down with that hustle too much, it will backfire.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mina loy View Post
    i have a question about the never sitting alone advice.

    i've been at a new club for about a month, having left my previous club due to drama with the other dancers. currently i avoid sitting with the other dancers so no new drama is stirred up. when the club is slow, who else do i sit with when the customers have already said no to me?
    Go in the dressing room, come back out. Chat with the barmaid or a bouncer? Laugh. Hit the restroom. Go back and change out? Walk the floor smiling, and kinda swinging to the music as you walk, show confidence all by yourself. You don't need other dancers to make it work. You are better off alone and working. Act like you own the damn club.

    Good luck.

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    I'm glad this thread was posted! This is just the reminder that I needed before going to Myrtle Beach....I heard it has been slow out there so these tips will definitely help make a slow night, a profitable one. I even printed the first post so I can read over it before I go in to work!! Thanks

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    ^ Now that is a compliment to me! I hope what I do helps you! Have a great time in MB!


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    thank you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gemini_Syn View Post
    I am tired of hearing the bitching about no money when I am banking nearly every night!

    Get off your ass already!
    I don't mind them bitching, I just think of the money I'm making and smirk to myself. That saying that 20% of the people make 80% of the money is totally true with strippers too. As long as I'm in that 20%, I couldn't care less about the other 80% who just never seem to get it. It's how the world goes 'round

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    As for the drunk thing goes, honestly, how do you even really know when somebody is "too drunk?" They're all drunk, esp. in Las Vegas. I recall one evening in Spearmint Rhino where I did a half hour room with this guy... he seemed fine... I was sober.... suddenly, as he was getting up to leave, he barfed on the floor... I mean, I had no idea he was wasted! Similarly, there are people who SEEM wasted, but they aren't. Now, I would never like, completely lie or steal from somebody, but if a drunk dude wants to take me to VIP, I'm not going to say, "Excuse me sir. I'm not sure you know what you're doing. Please return to your hotel room and come back tommorow sober."

    Think about it: how many times have you gotten drunk, had fun at a bar, and tipped the fuck out of the bartender? I've done that and never felt bad about it the next day... I had a great time, and they deserved it!
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