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    How to ask for $$ instead of Dance

    Ok, I have an ATF regular who comes in to see me and usually spends about $250-$400 on me everytime we see eachother. Ok, when I dance for him, he doesn't even count. He could say, "oh I only wanna do 10dances today" and I'll do something like 6 and he isn't even keeping track. He'll just say, "oh lets do a few more..."

    Since he's more into spending time w/ me and no as much buying dances, how can I ask for the $$$ instead of doing the dances?







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    Why not just go to the champagne room if your club has one? Then you can just sit and chat.

    Otherwise...no offense...but I'd just dance for him rather then risk sounding lazy or greedy"cant you just pay me for doing nothing....."(thats how some guys will hear it no matter what you say)

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    "OH!!! Oooh baby, I have a muscle cramp in my leg...Can I rest for a bit?"

    I agree with cameron_keys though, you don't want to sound greedy or lazy...Bad move.

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    *sigh* Alright..I'll just continue to sway back and forth in front of him for an hour..lol..







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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    *sigh* Alright..I'll just continue to sway back and forth in front of him for an hour..lol..
    LOL...could be worse!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    *sigh* Alright..I'll just continue to sway back and forth in front of him for an hour..lol..
    That's what I do with one customer. He doesn't want VIP, only convo, so I get naked and start the count.

    Most customers who have paid me for talking (not in VIP) come out and say how much do I want to sit there. I'll toss a figure depending on the club traffic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    LOL...could be worse!
    lol I agree.

    I like the muscle cramp idea, as long as he doesn't insist on giving you a massage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Why not just go to the champagne room if your club has one? Then you can just sit and chat.

    Otherwise...no offense...but I'd just dance for him rather then risk sounding lazy or greedy"cant you just pay me for doing nothing....."(thats how some guys will hear it no matter what you say)
    Yea I very much agree here...this is a great situation, not one that you need to nip/tuck very much for perfection...what's wrong with just sitting on his lap while talking? (or chair arm if that's a rule)---damn if someone is spending several hundred dollars sitting far away with a fake leg cramp seems rude and obvious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    Ok, I have an ATF regular who comes in to see me and usually spends about $250-$400 on me everytime we see eachother. Ok, when I dance for him, he doesn't even count. He could say, "oh I only wanna do 10dances today" and I'll do something like 6 and he isn't even keeping track. He'll just say, "oh lets do a few more..."

    Since he's more into spending time w/ me and no as much buying dances, how can I ask for the $$$ instead of doing the dances?
    Do the kind of "dances" where you sit on his lap naked and talk and make cute faces. Change position once in a while, so it's still techinically a "dance." Some guys prefer the talk/dance to the good ol' grind.

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    what i do when i'm feeling lazy, is sit on their lap facing away from him, wait for him to touch my back, and then start positive reinforcing him to death about how good it feels whn he rubs my back. complete with moans. i've had hour long champagne rooms of that nature where i almost fall asleep

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    Quote Originally Posted by saphire123456 View Post
    what i do when i'm feeling lazy, is sit on their lap facing away from him, wait for him to touch my back, and then start positive reinforcing him to death about how good it feels whn he rubs my back. complete with moans. i've had hour long champagne rooms of that nature where i almost fall asleep
    hahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo View Post
    Do the kind of "dances" where you sit on his lap naked and talk and make cute faces. Change position once in a while, so it's still techinically a "dance." Some guys prefer the talk/dance to the good ol' grind.
    i like to mix both kinds together.

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    Last night I flat out asked ... and got $400! I was shocked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrayStripper View Post
    Last night I flat out asked ... and got $400! I was shocked.
    How did this conversation transpire? I'm curious







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    IMHO I would do the dances. Here's why:

    1. I am uncomfortable asking for money without giving something in return (lol, I'm not a good stripper

    2. He might really like the dances even if he doesn't act like it. It keeps his interest peaked.

    3. The biggest money maker in our club (of 100+ girls) once told me: "Never make a customer feel cheated." He's being generous, but he's still "buying dances" so he might begin to feel like he's not getting his money's worth if you don't even dance for him anymore.

    I know there are lots of girls that can ask for money without dancing, but I'm not one of them so that's my best advice. Good luck!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrayStripper View Post
    Last night I flat out asked ... and got $400! I was shocked.
    if you have the confidence, it's easy. I do it all the time. "I'd love to be able to just sit and chat with you here, but I have to remind myself that I'm at work., and I like to make x$ an hour, so I better go get back to work! Unless, you'd like me to stay here with you, and you could take care of me"

    it works. Alot! Even if he just gives you 50$ for 3 songs. that's 50$ easily made.

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    "I'd love to be able to just sit and chat with you here, but I have to remind myself that I'm at work., and I like to make x$ an hour, so I better go get back to work! Unless, you'd like me to stay here with you, and you could take care of me"
    I really like how that is worded. It is simple - but sounds polite and effective. I'm going to try that one.

    Of course I just realized it is for a different situation than CK's. Her customer is already paying for her time, but she'd rather just sit and talk than dance.

    Oh well - it's still a cute line for working the room.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Rose View Post
    if you have the confidence, it's easy. I do it all the time. "I'd love to be able to just sit and chat with you here, but I have to remind myself that I'm at work., and I like to make x$ an hour, so I better go get back to work! Unless, you'd like me to stay here with you, and you could take care of me"
    That is so simple, doesn't sound greedy or bitchy..and I could totally see a guy agreeing to keep you there...







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    Honestly girl, I say if it ain't broke, don't fix it. He comes in and gives you shit tons of money... maybe just keep doing what you're doing? It doesn't seem like you are doing anything wrong... unless you don't want to dance. In which case you can just have a gay old time talking to him and then say, "Oh goodness, you must be so bored! I should dance for you hey!" and then he could step up and say, "No I will pay you for your time." After all, he is obviously familiar with how SCs operate.
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    I have a customer who buys dances but talks through almost the entire thing. I can't turn my back to him cause he's talking and that's rude, so I pretend dance. Half-dancing in front of him, sitting on his knee, kneeling in front of him and massaging the shoulders while talking.

    I would dance a song or two, then pretend to be totally engrossed in whatever subject you're on, sit on his knee and just talk talk talk, then just keep sitting. After a song or so, say oh my goodness I got so involved in the conversation I forgot to dance! giggle giggle Then repeat. Maybe he'll get the hint.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    How did this conversation transpire? I'm curious
    The customer was being an ass, wouldn't do VIP or dances, and I went for broke. What did I have to lose? I bimbo-ed up and said, "Oooh! It's time for a tip." He laid down one hundred. I batted my eyelashes. He put down another. Half an hour later, I pulled the same thing.

    Tonight, a customer explained to me why VIP was a waste. One more time, I went for broke. I said something like, "But I am really enjoying your company! Since VIPs are my main source of income, I have to go to the group over there because I know they'd like to take me (which was true). I wish that I could spend more time with you." He asked how much it would cost to keep me at his table and I named a figure. And got it.

    When you have nothing to lose, just ask. Both customers wouldn't have paid me anything unless I had requested.

    Be forewarned that most customers will not pay you for "your time." They need a dance or a room to justify handing money to you.

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    I dont think asking for money just like straight out asking is acceptable. It would make me feel like a beggar instead of a dancer with services to offer.

    My regular only pays for dances, and think yourself lucky that yours doesnt keep count coz mine does! and he will pull me up on it if he thinks i stop 2 secs too early.

    I was sick once at work and i told him and u think he gave a shit? i still had to work my arse off for that money,there was no sympathy.

    The other night he paid for a dance and he started talking during it and so i stopped and started talking and then when i told him time was up he said "oh but u havent started yet" FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

    some guys just dont give any but i have to put up with it coz he is good regular income for me.

    depends on the relationship u have with him i guess, i know in my situation it wouldnt work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Rose View Post
    if you have the confidence, it's easy. I do it all the time. "I'd love to be able to just sit and chat with you here, but I have to remind myself that I'm at work., and I like to make x$ an hour, so I better go get back to work! Unless, you'd like me to stay here with you, and you could take care of me"

    it works. Alot! Even if he just gives you 50$ for 3 songs. that's 50$ easily made.

    True that! I'm a waitress , no cr, ld, or tube shots for me ( by choice), but the other waitressese are allowed to do all that. I never just sit down and talk if I don't know I'm gonna get paid. Most realize this when they are trying to hunt me down so I can sit w/ them and I say I'm super busy and gotta make $$$. They usually end up hooking me up b/c they realize I'm not just gonna sit there w/out being well compensated. Set the bar high from the getgo. That should make it easier.

    Also, befriend him a little more. Share w/ him a little more about yourself. Try to break down his strict vision of you as solely a dancer and him as a costumer. He'll eventually start throwing you some money for doing nothing and after a while you should end up getting all that money w/out dancing.
    Finally, you havet o have that attitude that you're worth it. If you KNOW you are a goddess, others will soon realize too. BELIEVE it and it will become reality. Seriously, it works Good luck!

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