Ditto that. My boyfriend has never displayed any jealousy about my job, thank God. It seems to me that guys who are (or would be) jealous if their wives or girlfriends danced are buying too much into the same fantasy that the customer buy into -- to wit, that dancers are wildly in love with their customers and would absolutely love to be licked all over if it weren't for the mean bouncer over there watching us.

The truth is that most of us treat dancing as a job and nothing more.
The only time I've ever seen my bf upset about my job is if I have a bad night or someone treats me with disrespect. I know that bothers him, but it would bother him if I had a bad day and dealth with a bunch of assholes at any other job, too.
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