I almost always go alone because I intend to buy dances when I go. My buddies are not buyers and it just makes it a little awkward if there's only one guy spending.
I almost always go alone because I intend to buy dances when I go. My buddies are not buyers and it just makes it a little awkward if there's only one guy spending.
95% of the time alone. The other times are with a very good friend.
I don't want to have to justify my choices, thoughts, actions or time of departure (early or late) to anyone.




If it's a topless place (alcohol served), I like going with friends, to get dances & generally hang out.
If it's nude (no alcohol) I go alone, since I'm there strictly for the dances.
At first it does see weird going it alone, especially when you first walk into the club. Once you get over the initial uneasiness you'll see how much better things are there by yourself.





I used to feel weird about going by myself to the SC and only went with a buddy. Now I go solo all the time, and I even prefer it. I get to stay as long as I want and I don't have to worry about saving our stage seats while he gets a private.![]()
Thanks to you guys I got over my uneasiness and so I went to the club solo tonight and enjoyed myself. I'll probably go solo most of the time from now on. It's nice not having to worry about other people while you're there and can leave or stay whenever you want.
-Vince
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yeah cool good for u!! I knew u would prefer it that way going by your OP.
Yes! Come in alone and we'll both have more fun!
For me going alone would be strange. With a few friends it is an event or entertainment. I think going alone it would turn into something kinda creepy. I could understand when I get older, but not now...
just like most people said, you will be approached by more girls if u r alone because of the fact that u r alone! personally i would never go to the groups of young guys, only the young guys that were alone......
I'm going to take the contrary side.
Yes, at 21 I think it would be weird for you to go to SCs regularly alone. At 21 you should be out meeting girls in real life. Don't waste your prime years in a SC get out and meet a girl.
In a group it is a fun event/entertainment. Alone it reeks of something a little strange.
No that is so NOT weird! I love it when guys come in alone. Then you give ME all of your attention instead of sharing it with your friends![]()




I also prefer going alone. I like to pick one or two dancers and spend "quality" time with them...good talk....good dances...this is easier to do when alone (in my experience).
Myself, I go either alone or with a small group of people (I have a core group that likes to chill there with me). It depends on the time of day, how long I plan to stay for, who's working, that sort of thing. Alone, I'll knock off a few hours in the afternoon with a couple of beers, enjoy a few dances, clap and cheer (since most of the afternoon crowd always seems to be a little zombified), and tip. I find it's a good way to spend some time, and make some dancers' day a little more enjoyable.
If I do go with friends, though, it's at night. I still do the same things I do during the day, only I clap and cheer louder, 'cause I like to be heard. If there's a girl I know, I'll tend to ignore my friends a bit when she's around, but my friends know that I do it sometimes...so they're cool with it. Besides, I'll buy my friends a drink (or 5) and a few dances, so it's all good.

I have never gone to a strip club except when I go alone.
To me, this is normal--It would feel wierd to me to go with my friends.
However, almost every time, one of the strippers will ask me if I came by myself, and then ask why.
I guess it is out of the ordinary.
Something tells me you haven't really experienced everything the hobby has to offer...ah, youth.In a group it is a fun event/entertainment. Alone it reeks of something a little strange.
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I go alone most of the time... When I am on business, I feel more comfortable hanging in a strip club alone than in a bar or restaurant. Besides Im usually there to have fun, flirt and have a young lady flirt with me. Plus being older and married makes it, mmm... safer - to visit a club... We all know why we are there??? Me spending $$$, her receiving $$$...
Now when Im in Myrlte or the Cape golfing, Im there w/ a crowd and I still go have my laps!!! A bunch of freinds dont deter me from my fun!!!
THere my be a generational and marital difference here... but going to a club alone is just fine!!! Just have fun !!!!
I always go by myself. It's ok to go with a group of people but if one of them gets a little too drunk and says or does something stupid, (and someone always does,) I think it refelects back on you. If I'm going to look or sound like an idiot, I prefer to do it on my own.![]()
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