it seems so strange. i can't get my head around it...guys are willing to fork over $20 plus tip for 3 minutes with "me," but in real life...in real life they blow me off constantly. do the 7" heels seriously make That much of a difference?![]()




it seems so strange. i can't get my head around it...guys are willing to fork over $20 plus tip for 3 minutes with "me," but in real life...in real life they blow me off constantly. do the 7" heels seriously make That much of a difference?![]()
Oh. My. God. I. Understand. I can't hardly get a date to save my life otc and I can't beat them off with a bat itc. But then again the caliber of guys I want otc is way different then the caliber of guys I have to meet itc.
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a third here babe, i cant make any friends let alone find someone who wants to date me that is in my age range.





Well they want to spend time with fantasy GP not the real you. So by no means should you feel jealous of your work self. Im in the same boat as you...I cant get a great guy who would seriously want to date only me or commit to boyfriendhood.
Besides, youre beautiful and have a great personality when I met you in person. Also, very sweet and educated. I think guys are just intimidated by a woman who is much more than anything they are at the current moment.![]()
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi
Ditto!
I'm seeing a surgeon right now who is sooooo boring. Maybe if i vamp it up a bit he will be more generous to me. As in better dinners, etc. The mans house is a friggin mansion. But too much make-up,stockings and wild hair he would (i hope) eat me alive. Have not tried it yet (the look) but he needs to un-do the tie and hang a bit with me.
I am slowly going to dress different and do the hair different and see if he comes around. I can't take the boring part anymore. But he is a doll![]()





^^haha don't hurt him to bad Pam lol
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I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.
If you're having a party and need strippers, email me with the details and any questions you have. Thanks!
I totally understand...i think about this at work alot. Esp when customers say shit like You could have any man you want. or Your bf is so lucky. The man I want won't take me back, and I can't find any decent ones. I guess my standards are too high as well.
hey know what ya mean!
i dont know..my stripper self isnt totaly me..shes sort of 'just a stripper'
so thats probably how alot of guys see me..so i dont take it personal.
besides, u go to the club LOOKING YER BEST - of course guys are gunna be like omg.
but its not like i go out to the grocery store weearing tons of makeup, tight and revealing outfit..and of course, the 7inchers that do wonders for yer legs and stomach and posture. ha.
anyways, yeah i think they are just in love wit the "fantasy".
i also have a very hard time makin friends. but in the club im popular. ha.
and its like, any guy in the club wants u so bad..but when u want a guy, its harder? what?! ha.
also, if u are lookin for a man OTC, n are not geting anywhere...stop thinkin bout it. because everytime i focous too hard on fidning a b/f or a date, i NEVER get anyone. its only when im focoused on myself, living life for myself,l when a great guy will pop out.
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Money Makes Me Horny





I totally understand how you feel. I'm Ginger all the damn time, even if I don't really want to be. The limo driver calls me Ginger, the hotel staff call me Ginger, dammit, can somebody call me by my *actual* name! There are sometimes days at a time that nobody calls me by my name, and it makes me really lonely. People will stab each other in the eye to talk to Ginger, but not to talk to *me*.
I don't really have any friends here in Nashville, so I have nobody to hang out with when I'm at home, and I don't think that helps the situation.
Aww..I'd call you by your real name if I knew it!! But I feel you...even my close friends call me Cameron most of the time!
Whenever I had a slow night and called hubby for support...he would tell me to get out there, be Cameron Keys and bust balls. Cameron is much ballsier then me....its like having a split personality sometimes...
I'll join your club as well. I'm 26 and have never had a real boyfriend. Closest thing I've ever had to one was a guy I dated for 3 months..... when I was 15!




yeah...i dunno. it's not even like a "getting no attention" problem. it's more like a maintaining interest problem.
but you girls are right...i spend so much damn time w the typical strip club attendee i almost forget that there is (hopefully) a higher level of man to aspire to.
either way, it's good to know i'm not alone here...





I wanted to note that the kind of men most women want are not widely available. There are more of the kind that "have no job mooch off their moms and have no education at all" kinds around. ANYONE can have those guys...really take them away please.
Finding and keeping the good ones is the hard part![]()
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi
OMG!! I have the same damn problem! It drives me mad!
I am seriously Ashley all the damn time... drivers, hotels everything... always Ashley!! I want to be me for once
Everyone wants to meet and hang with Ashley.. but no one is interested in the real me....
The other thing I hate is Ashley wins all these awards and shit.... but its always Ashley.. never me...





^^Aw, I *heart* the real you. But it's funny because on my phone your # is listed under your real name, and it sometimes takes a sec to register--- oh yeah, it's Cally/Ashley.
If I work too much and then I go out partying, I will sometimes accidently introduce myself as my stage name to strangers. I think my 'party self' has morphed into a version of stripper Molly when I'm around people I don't know. I wouldn't say I'm jealous of Stripper Molly, but she certainly gets a lot more attention than regular ol' me.


whenever i say my name to people, it's a fight not to say "ruby" even though i've only been dancing for a couple of months and the club is the only place i'm called that.
You know - I was recently avoiding the social end of an academic type project that I've spent a lot of time on, because I don't know any of my peers and colleagues, and I have a healthy fear of going to these things and just standing on my own.
Why? Like, why is it that I am professionally fucking charming and gregarious and social and brave but in any other environment I'm a terrified rodent? I'm mad jealous of my stripper self; like, she's just like me, only better!
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth
Grace fears no one and nothing. She walks up to total strangers and ask them to pay to see her boobs. At my day-job I sometimes get behind on my projects because I hate calling people on the phone and asking for stuff.
But I have found I can channel Grace when I need her to carry me through a social situation. Grace is actually me, after all. There's nothing she can do that I can't do.




i love it when people call me my stripper name. i made her. i created her from the ground up, much more deliberately and skillfully than i've created myself--whom i've fucked up a bit. she doesn't have the baggage that i carry. she isn't fearful or shy and she has no idea what "self-loathing" means. i created this amazing person and i can make her come to life any time i want. i am so proud of that. when i walk into a work environment, i leave my fragile self at the door and i become a phenomenal undefeatable woman that i have created. and i consider it a matter of respect that you call her by her name.
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