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    I am so ready to leave my club, but cant leave until I can find one that will hire me.

    While I had a really excellent night 2 weeks ago (the best in 6 months) overall the customers seem just plain impossible.

    The other night, every guy I approached would say flat out, "NO." in response to me saying "hello." Not "no thanks." or "I dont need company right now." Just a big rude, "NO." Some even looked right through me as if I didnt exist! Not one person had the decency to say hello back.

    I made $40 in funny money TOTAL (which means its $30 and they dont pay us anyhow, so it means nothing). I was flat broke and had to borrow $20 from the housemom to get home.

    It felt like the customers all conspired together and said, "Don't get dances from that bitch over there."

    I was friendly, cheerful and bubbly and smiling. I dont understand why its happening and its happening ALOT! No exaggerating!

    Since I got my hair cut short I already feel "ordinary" and now I feel ugly.

    WHat am I doing wrong to get this response from every person in the club? How can I change this around into a sale without annoying the custy?
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    I get the same vibe sometimes. It really hurts, and breaks your spirits down too. Especially when you are in the mood to work. When some guys would just outright say, "no" to me, I'd say, "umm no what" and then they'd say something smart ass like, "I dont want a dance" to which I'd reply, "Sorry honey, but I NEVER was planning on asking you for a dance! Sometimes it's just nice to be friendly to others" That's when they stutter and stammer apologizing. Some men have it mentally programed that they are just gonna say no, no, no regardless of who asks. If you call them out on their rudness, 8xoutta 10 they will stop dead in their tracks. For the other 2% well those are the douches that you SEE is their reason for being in a stripclub..they lack class, personality, enthusiasm. I see why they can't get a woman.

    Sometimes, when it's really bad, I joke w/ myself and say, "aww man it must not be black girl night" lol..That makes me feel better lol. That also encourages me to find that 1 lonely guy..







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    Quote Originally Posted by AkashaM View Post
    I am so ready to leave my club, but cant leave until I can find one that will hire me.

    While I had a really excellent night 2 weeks ago (the best in 6 months) overall the customers seem just plain impossible.

    The other night, every guy I approached would say flat out, "NO." in response to me saying "hello." Not "no thanks." or "I dont need company right now." Just a big rude, "NO." Some even looked right through me as if I didnt exist! Not one person had the decency to say hello back.

    I made $40 in funny money TOTAL (which means its $30 and they dont pay us anyhow, so it means nothing). I was flat broke and had to borrow $20 from the housemom to get home.

    It felt like the customers all conspired together and said, "Don't get dances from that bitch over there."

    I was friendly, cheerful and bubbly and smiling. I dont understand why its happening and its happening ALOT! No exaggerating!

    Since I got my hair cut short I already feel "ordinary" and now I feel ugly.

    WHat am I doing wrong to get this response from every person in the club?
    It isnt you ...the club is obviously attracting the lowest of customers. And what do you mean they dont pay you what you are owed in funny money????? Thats bullshit...I'd leave just because of that...they are stealing from you.

    I always hated when guys did the NO thing...I couldnt let it go..

    me:"hello"
    fucktard custie: "NO"
    me: "oh...no?? gee..and here I was offering you a free blow job and large pizza....too bad you said no.."
    or
    me:" oh...no??? gee thats too bad...I was just coming up to tell you that you won customer of the night and you get a free bar tab for life...but you said no so..."
    fucktard custie:"wait...I didnt know..."
    me:" no shit you didnt know..I didnt say anything but hello...thats what you get for being a rude douchbag fucktard cheapass piece of shit. You have a lovely evening..."

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    ^^^^Me likey!!!

    I know what you mean, girlie. That's part of the reason why I preferred working in Jersey to NY. Too much mindless snottiness. If you can't put on a snotty persona, you should definitely keep it moving. How about some gown-ish Queens and Bronx clubs?
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    Are you working in one of those clubs that has 2(or more) dancers for every custy? Those suck because the guys get approached every 30 secs by dancers, which puts them in a defensive mood, and the dancers all keep circling around only to get rejected over and over. Time for a new club.

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    I think zabrina pegged it- if girls are circling the room with the "wanna dance" hustle hitting every guy several times strippers become as appealing as telemarketers. I get this occasionally and try to make them feel a little foolish :

    "huh? what? I was just asking if you were having a good time! No? Well you look kinda bored sitting over here all by yourself, lemme tell you a joke and see if I can get you to smile" ...

    or some similar nonsense. Once you prove that you have a personality and are fun to be around chances are his attitude will turn around. If you can get him to forget how cranky he is feeling I bet he'll want to buy a dance after all! Most men coming into a club are at least curious about getting a lapdance as soon as they walk in the door.

    good luck!




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    Quote Originally Posted by bella du jour View Post
    Once you prove that you have a personality and are fun to be around chances are his attitude will turn around. If you can get him to forget how cranky he is feeling I bet he'll want to buy a dance after all! Most men coming into a club are at least curious about getting a lapdance as soon as they walk in the door.

    good luck!
    Yeah, sometimes I try to soothe the situation, but if the custy is not so inviting, I may be wasting my time with him, so I move on. Then it just keeps happening over and over again. They get one look at me, react like I have three heads, and then, "NO."

    If I knew why they were doing that, then it would easier to come up with a solution. The night where i made $40 in funny money, everyone else was getting dances but me.

    When I tried to joke around with a "NO." custy, he got all upset that I continued to talk to him and tried to flag down the manager. But what was I gonna do? I was trying to make lemonade with all the damn lemons I was given!

    Ughhhh, I'm soooo frustrated with this club! Once I'm more toned up I'm definitly moving on. I have to go there tonight and I am already feeling depressed about it.

    BTW I really love that idea about "hey, you had won a free bar tab, but you said no..." or the free blowjob one. hehehe. I gonna start saying that.
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

    If you're having a party and need strippers, email me with the details and any questions you have. Thanks!

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    Default Re: NO.

    me:"hello"
    fucktard custie: "NO"
    me: "oh...no?? gee..and here I was offering you a free blow job and large pizza....too bad you said no.."
    or
    me:" oh...no??? gee thats too bad...I was just coming up to tell you that you won customer of the night and you get a free bar tab for life...but you said no so..."
    fucktard custie:"wait...I didnt know..."
    me:" no shit you didnt know..I didnt say anything but hello...thats what you get for being a rude douchbag fucktard cheapass piece of shit. You have a lovely evening..."


    I love those comments!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    me:"hello"
    fucktard custie: "NO"
    me: "oh...no?? gee..and here I was offering you a free blow job and large pizza....too bad you said no.."
    or
    me:" oh...no??? gee thats too bad...I was just coming up to tell you that you won customer of the night and you get a free bar tab for life...but you said no so..."
    fucktard custie:"wait...I didnt know..."
    me:" no shit you didnt know..I didnt say anything but hello...thats what you get for being a rude douchbag fucktard cheapass piece of shit. You have a lovely evening..."
    LMFAO!!!!!! I need to try the second one tonight...there's alot of cheapskates that come to my club just to drink and watch and NOT tip anyone.

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