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Enough is enough!
I've totally unleashed my inner bitch! I have no more patience for these non-spending losers, these jerks who instantly paw all over you when you go to say hi (the ones that are cheap that try to cop a quick free feel), sick of these jerks barking orders at you while you're on stage and not tip you, enough is enough! So I'm unleashing my inner bitch and it feels soooo good!!! This is what I'm going to do, when you get Mr. Grabby who grabs your butt, the one who's cheap & trying to get a free feel, I'm going to reach my hand around, remove his hand from my butt and bend his fingers back all the way, all with a big (fake) smile on my face and say "don't ever touch me inappropriately again, got it? You have a great night!"
Last night this indian guy tips me a dollar on stage and asked me to come over and see him. Well I didn't because I sensed his "type" so he got up from his seat and walked over to me and started talking to me. He asked me what nights I work, I told him I'll be there on Saturday. He then talked about wanting to go to VIP, I said great. He then said "so, do you do blowjobs and stuff in the back?" I said "EXCUSE ME?!!" He then said "uh, uh, I mean, do you dance and stuff back there?" I said "yes, we dance back there, only dance!" So he said "I'm going to come in on Saturday to see you" and then hugged me and put his hand on my ass!
Come to find out, he did the exact same thing to like 5 other dancers last night. I was telling some of my friends there and they said "OMG, the indian guy at bar 1?" We all had the exact same story. So, from now on, touch my butt and I bend your fingers all the way back!
Last night I did my first "oops, I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to spill my cranberry juice all over you!" It felt great! There were these guys at our stage being the biggest jerks and I mean jerks! They were waiving dollars in my face and then pulling them back screaming "I'm not going to tip you, hahahahaha!!!"
So, I "accidently" spilled my drink on them.
These techniques still keep your nose clean because nobody will see you bend their fingers all the way and an accident is an accident.
It's strange, when I first started dancing a year ago I had so much more patience, I put up with so much more, I was afraid to say something, afraid of forcing customers to pay me for what they owed me and I would've never done some of the things I do now. It's amazing how I've changed in a year. I think I know now what you all talk about "the honeymoon phase" of dancing. Well the honeymoon is over!
Ladies, do you all have any other good techniques to share that you can do to get back at customers w/o anyone knowing?
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Re: Enough is enough!
I find smacking their hands really hard yelling "NO...BAD DOG" works for me. And I tell them that if they are going to touch me...they owe me $20....and i dont care about anyone knowing. In fact..i'd rather get the attention of a bouncer so he knows to keep an eye on the loser trying to grab the girls for free. thankfully I'm not in a place where the customer is always right....management doesnt care if we stick up for ourselves. I've been known as a bitch in almost every club I've worked at...but they also know that I'm not a drama queen... if I'm being a bitch to a guy..he did something to deserve it.
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Re: Enough is enough!
My club is too nice to the customers. If they grab a dancer they get kicked out, big whoop! And the same guy will come back next week and do the same thing over. I think if the punishment was much stricter like getting their ass kicked or getting humiliated they wouldn't do it. It's like a kid, if he's bad and there's no punishment, he'll do it again.
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