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    Default But she's only got one arm!

    A day ago while I was riding to work on the train, a very attractive young woman entered and stood near me. It took me a few seconds to notice that she was missing her right arm at the elbow. The rest of her was quite, quite smoking! (Not that it matters, but I believe her's was a congenital issue, not the result of an amputation.)

    So it got me thinking: Would you have an issue dating someone missing a limb? Have you dated someone missing a limb? (Yes, I'm aware there are fetish sites devoted to this topic but that's not the question I'm asking here.)

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    Sure I would, if the rest was attractive and the connection was there. I never have, but K used to date a girl that only had one hand. She was a photographer and took a few really good pictures of him; one is framed in our house. She broke up with him after a few months but the missing hand was never an issue for him.

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    No, it wouldnt be a problem for me, I almost did once but lost touch with the guy.

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    Default Re: But she's only got one arm!

    nah i dont think it would be a problem

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    Having started the thread, I guess I should add that I'd have no problem with it either. I would always assume strangers were staring at her wondering why this sexy woman was hanging with me, not because she was missing this or that part.

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    My boyfrined asked me once, what would yuo rather have me lose, my penis or my arms? If I lost my penis, we could never have sex again, btu if I lost my arms, I could never hold you again.

    Thats a tough one, really. Think about it. You might be inclined to say right off the top of you head, lose the penis is better....but do you really want to go through life without that sexual intimacy?
    I still think losing the penis would be better...i cant imagine going though life without a hug or being held...but if he lost his penis, he betetr start going down on me!

    I wouldnt have a problem with dating a man that was missing a limb. You woudl get used to it, and forget he was ever missing it.

    Id much rather date a guy with no arm than no teeth!

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    That would not bother me. I'd rather see a missing limb than a missing soul (& some of my exes were alll empty & cold where it counts...)

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    Default Re: But she's only got one arm!

    I don't think I'd mind. People missing body parts have become so well adapted to everyday life, it isn't as much an issue as we think it would be.



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    It wouldn't bother me one bit, a missing leg or arm. Hell, i've seen plenty of hot guys in wheel chairs, that i'd date if I had the opportunity.

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    ^I worked with some REALLY hot wheelchair tennis players.



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    Default Re: But she's only got one arm!

    Yeah, I would. I should hope it wasn't his penis that was amputated, but regardless, as long as there's a sound heart and a solid mind, a person is whole to me.

    P.S. CE, I laughed when I saw this title and that you posted it. You and your amputated arms.

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    I wouldn't mind.

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    I wouldn't let it get in the way of a relationship! Unless there was like... 2 legs and an arm missing. I can't really see myself pursuing a relationship in that scenario. On the other hand, though, if my current guy got in an accident and had to lose a crapload of limbs I'd stand by him.

    Oh and if I had the choice between no arms or no dick, DEFINITELY no arms!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSexKitten View Post
    I wouldn't let it get in the way of a relationship! Unless there was like... 2 legs and an arm missing. I can't really see myself pursuing a relationship in that scenario. On the other hand, though, if my current guy got in an accident and had to lose a crapload of limbs I'd stand by him.

    Oh and if I had the choice between no arms or no dick, DEFINITELY no arms!
    Hell yeah. lol

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    Vy and I know where the priorities lie.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSexKitten View Post
    Vy and I know where the priorities lie.
    LOL

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    Never dated one, but it wouldn't bother me any. I've actually date someone that was wheel chair bound ( I've had sex with ,WHO btw never returned my calls afterwards ! )

    that kinda stuff doesn't matter to me if I really like the person

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    My boyfrined asked me once, what would yuo rather have me lose, my penis or my arms? If I lost my penis, we could never have sex again, btu if I lost my arms, I could never hold you again.

    Thats a tough one, really. Think about it. You might be inclined to say right off the top of you head, lose the penis is better....but do you really want to go through life without that sexual intimacy?
    I still think losing the penis would be better...i cant imagine going though life without a hug or being held...but if he lost his penis, he betetr start going down on me!

    I wouldnt have a problem with dating a man that was missing a limb. You woudl get used to it, and forget he was ever missing it.

    Id much rather date a guy with no arm than no teeth!
    A pair of prosthetic arms is better than a prosthetic penis for both parties involved.

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    Default Re: But she's only got one arm!

    if i was attracted to them otherwise, i sure would. actualy, i used to have a crush on a teacher of mine who had the same deformity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post
    WHO btw never returned my calls afterwards !
    you got "stood up" by a guy in a wheel chair! sorry, I couldn't resist.

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    Default Re: But she's only got one arm!

    Geez if a guy lost his arms but still had his penis...think of the torture involved in being single!

    Of course, one would probably find a way to get relief...
    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    Geez if a guy lost his arms but still had his penis...think of the torture involved in being single!

    Of course, one would probably find a way to get relief...
    Holy crap I didn't even consider that!

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    Default Re: But she's only got one arm!

    I knew a guy that had no hands at all.. he was real sweet. Probably good at fisting, too.


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    Oh god i'm glad i read this.

    Of course i would!!!!!!!! It's the person, not the lack of an arm or leg.

    I often tell my roomate (he's pushing 60) if he has a stroke or car accident and ends up in a wheelchair, i will take care of him before he leaves his home to live in assisted living.

    Date them, hell if they are a good match i would marry a man with no legs!

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    wouldnt care in the slightest- so long as their attitude wasnt 'woe is me, i have no arm/leg whatever"

    have you seen murderball? shit, that movie almost made me want a bf in a wheelchair- so much fun!

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