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    So, last night, I gave a lap dance to this guy that I swear to god, is god's gift to women.

    He looked like Peter Steele from Type O Negative. I gave him a lap dance and I worked so hard to make ti the best damn lap dance ever. I felt exhausted but it was worth it. But now I kinda feel guilty cause I put more effort into giving this guy a lap dance than I did with ym boyfriend.

    You ladies ever encounter something like this? Where you feel bad for dancing for someone who is drop dead gorgeous because your man treats you better than he does? Or something? I know I shouldnt feel bad - its just my job, but something about it is bugging me and I cant really place my finger on it.
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    I love dancing for totally hot really nice guys.

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    i get intimidated.

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    Hey, there are always perks of the job!

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    I absolutely love dancing for hot guys. It makes dancing for them 10x easier. It also makes me feel hot as hell when some dude who I would probably rape in real life wants to pay for a dance from me.
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    guys who i am into defintly get hotter dances just becuse its alot easier to be all into a guy that you are into lol but sometimes i feel guity chargeing them for something i wanted to do but i charge anyway

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    hmmm i dont know, its a bonus when u dance for hot guys..even tho yes, like britt said, i also get imidatied. and..embarassed.

    but i dont think u shud feel bad, sometimes its hard to dance for a boyfriend, a person you tottaly know. at least it is for me. its easier for me to dance for someone i dont know, because if they think im weird or something, whatever, im just a "Stripper" to them -t hey dont know me personal.

    if its like a b/f...then i get embarassed..cuz he DOES know me personal..haha i dont know.

    sometimes its easier to "get into" the dance if the guy is hotter..so maybe thats what u did.
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    Hahaha, I just got over it. I don't even see 'hot guys' in the club any more.


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    I get really shy around hot boys... but it does make the job 10 times easier~
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    No shame in actually getting to enjoy the job a little more from time to time!!

    Think of it this way...The hot guys make up for all the 75 year old pervs who try to whip out their wee-wees and stick their thumbs up your butt while talking dirty....the hot guy who is nice to you is your reward for having to put up with the nasty ones!

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    I wont dance for hot guys..... Only old, fat, smelly or ugly.

    UNLESS they ask me. I dont ever say no to money!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    No shame in actually getting to enjoy the job a little more from time to time!!

    Think of it this way...The hot guys make up for all the 75 year old pervs who try to whip out their wee-wees and stick their thumbs up your butt while talking dirty....the hot guy who is nice to you is your reward for having to put up with the nasty ones!

    so true.

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    I hope this thread doesn't give any bad ideas to trolls that are thinking "zomg strippers like dancing for hot guys, they look like they are enjoying dancing for me therefore they must think I am hot."

    I'm happy just to dance for a guy who doesn't smell and doesn't try to slide his hand in me like its a card in an atm machine. I've never danced for a guy I felt attracted to, but I have a very peculiar taste in men. Give me Tom Waits or any guy who remotely looks like him (20 years ago) and I can imagine I'd have a hard time dancing because I'd be worried about looking like a dork. I'd think of it as a perk of the job lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    No shame in actually getting to enjoy the job a little more from time to time!!

    Think of it this way...The hot guys make up for all the 75 year old pervs who try to whip out their wee-wees and stick their thumbs up your butt while talking dirty....the hot guy who is nice to you is your reward for having to put up with the nasty ones!
    Ahaha yep. I always just looked at the hotties as a job perk It's normal to find other people attractive and even fantasize about them. IMO it keeps things interesting - I think I'd get bored to death and go stir crazy if all I could drool over were my SO for the rest of my life. As long as that's all it is...

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    a lot of times from my previous experience, the hot ones aren't big spenders..... they have their own hot ass at home usually...... but yes it is enjoyable!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan View Post
    Hahaha, I just got over it. I don't even see 'hot guys' in the club any more.
    Me neither. I just view it as another customer. If they ask me out it just pisses me off.

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    a lot of times from my previous experience, the hot ones aren't big spenders..... they have their own hot ass at home usually...... but yes it is enjoyable!
    i agree.

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    ^^ that, or they think they're too good for it. some of the hot ones are super cocky.

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    Yep, no shame in my game. I love the hotties! And it's such a confidence boost to know that he wants to pay you for your hottness!

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    It can also be fun if you're like me and would never pick someone up from a nightclub (and also lack the real-life social skills to do so). It's all the fun of a desireable guy fawning over you... plus multiples of $20!!!

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    yeah..yr all right. I am very much honored that he paid...and the fact that he was very hesitant to pay made it worth it too - he said that he didnt want to take advantage of me and that he'd rather talk...but my friend convinced him to buy a dance from me. hehehe. But hot damn...he was gorgeous!
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    wow. I know what you mean. i love it when i dance for hot guys but, I also get sidetracked as well as my mind becomes less focused on the hustle. I once danced for a guy that looked A Lot like Johnny Depp. man that was hot.
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    ...just doesn't happen enough!
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    I notice if guys are attractive, but most of the time it's only incidental. It doesn't effect my hustle at all. It they are cute *and* nice, I might enjoy the dance a little more than usual, that's all.

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    Why are older men invariably referred to as "creepy" by the ladies on SW? I am 62 and do not consider myself creepy. I am, however, a gentleman with good manners. I respect women regardless of their chosen job. Although I was never a Boy Scout, I am considerate, thoughtful and generous. Those are others assessments of my character not my own. I don't think the women here would like to be described as "hos," prostitutes, sluts, etc. Imo, I think a little respect for the customer who is paying you is in order. After all they are helping you earn a living. Not all mature men are smelly pervs.

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