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    Hello dearies! this is my first post on the blue side *wave*

    I was just wondering whether you would prefer a larger woman with well groomed hair and nails etc. in an classy outfit
    (My definition of larger here would be about 10-20lbs overweight)
    or a thinner, toned girl who doesn't doesn't make as much an effort with their appearance e.g messy hair and badly done makeup.

    I guess i'm trying to explore how the amount of effort a girl puts into her appearance can affect the minds of customers despite other physical shortcomings.

    Or of course you can let me know that you would consider neither and hold out for something better, or in the worst case scenario leave the club

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    Default Re: groomed vs. unkempt

    I would tend to choose the non-anorexic well groomed woman.

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    Default Re: groomed vs. unkempt

    I think it'd be a toss-up and would go either way, depending upon how extreme we're talking here. 10lbs overweight on a taller woman I might not even notice. Likewise women notice hair and makeup differences and details that I'd have to spend an hour studying to see what they're even talking about.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkpvc View Post
    Hello dearies! this is my first post on the blue side *wave*
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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkpvc View Post
    I guess i'm trying to explore how the amount of effort a girl puts into her appearance can affect the minds of customers despite other physical shortcomings.
    I think you're looking at more factors than just appearance. Personality, perceived or actual mileage, hair colour - could be multitude of things.

    Really depends on what Joe Customer has come looking for in the club in the first place.

    But to answer your original question. Thinner but messy probably.

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    I'd go with the thinner, toned girl.

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    Well is her hair dirty, or just messy and unstyled? Which girl is prettier?
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    Personally I barely notice makeup unless it's really bad and just because hair is messy that doesn't mean it's not sexy (dirty/greasy is another story). As for the extra 10-20 pounds, the woman's height plays a role here because 20 extra lbs on a woman who's 5'10" is going to be a lot less noticeable than those same 20 lbs on a woman who's 5'2".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    I'd go with the thinner, toned girl.
    With no make-up and a "just played rough" look.

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    Default Re: groomed vs. unkempt

    The answer isn't so simple for me as these factors would have to be considered within the context of the entire package.

    If the underlining question is whether a larger woman (by your definition) can compete for my business with a thinner one, the answer is yes.

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    Default Re: groomed vs. unkempt

    I'd have to see a picture of both gals to make this decision. God knows out in the field I've gone both ways.

    And I don't even know what "10-20 lbs overweight" looks like. Body weight does not equal body mass. A woman can pack 20 pounds of muscle in a smaller package than 20 pounds of fat.
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    ^^^

    I should have been clearer with my answer. Doc is correct.

    Part of the problem is I also don't know what is overweight. The thing is there are a lot of girls that I view as underweight, boney looking, and the boney look/feel isn't a turn on for me. Given a choice between some curves vs boney, I prefer a bit of curve. And 10-20lbs of muscle weight can barely be seen depending on the height of the person. It really just depends on the person. Some people carry extra weight better then others.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish View Post
    And I don't even know what "10-20 lbs overweight" looks like. Body weight does not equal body mass. A woman can pack 20 pounds of muscle in a smaller package than 20 pounds of fat.
    Very true. My doctor told me that I was more than 20lbs "overweight". Sheesh, my boobs weigh 10lbs alone! (yes I weighed them one night lol) I like my body, and alot of men LOVE it too..What can I say, I'm a brickhouse







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    Thee are only two dancers in the club? I'm outta there.

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    Default Re: groomed vs. unkempt

    Over the years I've had a fav or two who's weight fluctuated by 10 or 20 pounds on occasion. I guess it's not a fair comparison since I had already established a relationship with these ladies and enjoyed spending time with them regardless of the extra weight. The thing to keep in mind here is that it was personality that was the final selling point in all cases for me. A gal can look amazing but if she is emotionally vapid I'm not really interested beyond maybe giving her a few bucks at the stage.
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    Honestly? Neither, I'd just find another dancer that has a great body and is well groomed. I don't like to settle, but then again I'm superficial and so is my man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phil-W
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    I guess i'm trying to explore how the amount of effort a girl puts into her appearance can affect the minds of customers despite other physical shortcomings.
    generally, if i find a stripper's body unattractive. all the make-up, hair gel and body glitter in the world can't compensate for it. what do you expect? it's a sc not "America's Next Top Model".
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    I'd go with the thinner, toned girl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mr_punk View Post
    generally, if i find a stripper's body unattractive. all the make-up, hair gel and body glitter in the world can't compensate for it. what do you expect? it's a sc not "America's Next Top Model".
    You fucking liar. You know as well as I do that you've seen at least 1 overweight, overaged stripper and thought "Ordinarily I'd say no... but she's so shiny and glittery..."
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    Depends on which one has the biggest tits.

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    This sounds like a question that an overweight woman would ask. The truth is that the one that isn't nicely groomed can become so within only a few minutes. The fat one will take weeks, if ever to get into shape. Having said that...

    What women consider to be overweight isn't always what men think is overweight. Very few guys I know consider runway fashion models attractive. The fashion industry does but they're a pretty messed up group. They like tall women because bigger billboard space enables them to show off the clothes better and get more fancy with designs. They like very thin because possibly that comes from the old statement "you can never be too thin" that some rich women say.

    The vast majority of guys I know like women who are fit, smooth, and stacked. And "smooth" is that layer of fat that women have under their skins. Without that layer of fat (which takes illness, extreme exercise, and/or steriods for women to remove), they look very odd. Starved and/or masculine. If they used steriods, they might actually look slightly masculine.

    And "stacked" just doesn't mean bigger boobs. I don't know any guy that like floppy (pancake) boobs. Perky round ones that are firm and yet not too firm that suggests implants. Anything above a D cup gets starts getting into the freak category. On other end, I have seen women with A cups who are simply hot. Normally though they're petite and Asian.

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    This is a tough one to answer. Remember that success as a dancer revolves around the male fantasy. Most men like well-groomed women. Most men also like nicely toned women. Since I am in the club and spending the money, then I will spend it on what appeals to me most (this varies from guy to guy). As a dancer, your best best is to be well-groomed and well-toned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    You fucking liar. You know as well as I do that you've seen at least 1 overweight, overaged stripper and thought "Ordinarily I'd say no... but she's so shiny and glittery..."
    as usual, you're only half-right. the thought never crossed my mind, but i have seen one overweight stripper. however, it couldn't be helped because she was so massively fat that she distorted the fabric of the spacetime and nothing could escape her gravitational field...not even PLs running away from her at the speed of light.
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    Yeah I'll definitely go for the groomed girl over a thinner girl who is unkept. It's nasty to me. I've never really had a problem with unkept strippers though, I visit a higher end joint in Big D!
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