I've posted about this once before, awhile ago...about the girl at my club who is my un-intentional twin. I.e. we look alike physically, are both eastern european, have the same makeup look...and literally have ALL the same outfits.
The last time I posted about this, it was basically just "we have the same exact 8 or so outfits and it's really obvious in our smallish club; this is kind of awkward and weird, but not a big deal IMHO." I don't care if someone else runs around the club in an outfit that matches mine; stripper costumes are a dime a dozen. It is weird for someone else to have an entire work wardrobe that matches mine, especially since half of my costumes were custom-made, but whatever. I really don't think she's imitating me, because she was wearing "our" outfits at my current club long before I got here. (Hell, even if someone wants to imitate me and buy the same outfits as me...I don't care! They can buy matching outfits and rock them all they want; I'm still the one and only uniquely charming Picaresque) And I'm not mooching her style either--I also got most of these outfits long before I came to this club.
Anyway...I'd started grudgingly wearing the same two outfits every shift because I didn't want to cause drama over it. But a few months ago, this girl left to work in another state, and I happily pulled out all my lovely wasted outfits and started rocking them again.Unfortunately she's back now, and working pretty much every night...and last night kept making snide comments because I was wearing one of the outfits that she has. Halfway through last night, she came up to me in the DR and started making small talk, and then said "Bitch you'd better stop copying me."
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I sense a fight brewing, especially if I don't go back to wearing the same two dingy outfits that I have that don't match hers. Personally I think it's a stupid thing to fight about. Apparently she disagrees.
Advice, please? How would you handle this situation, preferably with the least amount of drama possible? And without being a doormat--I'm not going to go out and blow money on new outfits when the ones I have flatter me perfectly and are awesome, and I'm not going to keep wearing the same two outfits night after night just to avoid her glaring at me all night and making snide comments. Why should I have to do either of those things? Unfortunately "just avoid/ignore her" isn't really a feasible option, as our club is quite small!
arghghghgh... drama llamas suck.


) And I'm not mooching her style either--I also got most of these outfits long before I came to this club.
Unfortunately she's back now, and working pretty much every night...and last night kept making snide comments because I was wearing one of the outfits that she has. Halfway through last night, she came up to me in the DR and started making small talk, and then said "Bitch you'd better stop copying me."
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I wonder about that one, actually.
Because I danced to a song that she'd "claimed". Nevermind that the DJ that brought the song in played it for me and said "I thought of you when I heard this, I knew you'd like it."
Sounds like this bitch has some SERIOUS jealousy issues. She must wanna be you sooo bad.

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