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    ok so heres the thing theres a guy thats married that is cheating on his wife the girl he is cheating with has fallen for him she doesnt love him but cares alot for him an lately cant stop thinking about him. we all know its wrong because he is married but sometimes you can't help what happens or how you feel. she wonders if maybe she should tell him or just keep playing like she doesn't care. what is sime good advice on this situation?
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    Walk away from the cheating bastard before three lives are ruined. Nothing good can come of the situation. He likely has no plans of leaving his wife, and any type of "confession" is only going to cause alot of drama.

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    ^^^ Agreed. He's an adulterous prick either way; his marriage is none of your business, and no good would come of breaking it up, even if he were willing to do so. Also remember, if he'll cheat WITH you, then he'll cheat ON you. This kind of thing can be fun for awhile, but as soon as an emotional connection starts to arise, it's time to break it off before it does serious damage to everybody.

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    He's married. Simple as that. Stay away and save yourself (and his family) from the heartbreak.



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    Once again, he is married. Stay away.

    Don't make excuses with the "can't help what happens or how you feel", that isn't helping anyone nor convincing anyone that it should carry on or have happened in the first place.

    He's bad news, back away slowly, turn, and get the fuck out of the situation.
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    I agree. He is a douche, but why is it all the guys fault? The girl is 50% guilty as well...

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    Quote Originally Posted by sleepyboy View Post
    I agree. He is a douche, but why is it all the guys fault? The girl is 50% guilty as well...
    I agree with this. She is knowingly involving herself with a married man. I know there are some that say she owes the wife nothing but I believe she owes the wife common courtesy as a human being.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sleepyboy View Post
    I agree. He is a douche, but why is it all the guys fault? The girl is 50% guilty as well...
    the man is 50% responsible for his actions involving his relationship with his mistress and 50% responsible for his actions involving his relationship with his wife.

    This is vice versa for the mistress.

    The man appears more responsible in this situation because he risks endangering his wife's lifestyle, state of mind, emotion, and HEALTH without consulting her first. This is not his mistress' responsibility. As this situation is portrayed, the mistress is available, and he is putting his unknowing wife, potential kids, and knowing mistress's feelings on the line to get his dick wet.

    Now, my suggestion is, if you want to see validity, help the situation out. STOP FUCKING HIM. He'll probably pull this shit on you, but if you are really hoping and want to see the truth in his motives. Tell him to leave his wife, or you two will be "just friends". Don't issue an ultimatum like "you'll leave him", cause then he'll show you his cowardly snakelike methods to convince you why he can't leave her. When you see him do that, try not to vomit right on his face.
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    Quote Originally Posted by blueyegurl_05 View Post
    ok so heres the thing theres a guy thats married that is cheating on his wife the girl he is cheating with has fallen for him she doesnt love him but cares alot for him an lately cant stop thinking about him. we all know its wrong because he is married but sometimes you can't help what happens or how you feel. she wonders if maybe she should tell him or just keep playing like she doesn't care. what is sime good advice on this situation?

    "Said girl" should leave married guy alone. "Said girl" also doens't know what goes on in married guys house with HIS wife, because "said girl" is not there..Married guy could say anything to keep "said girl"...

    Agreed with the others, leave him alone!







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    Quote Originally Posted by DylanAngel View Post
    I agree with this. She is knowingly involving herself with a married man. I know there are some that say she owes the wife nothing but I believe she owes the wife common courtesy as a human being.
    I don't think she should intervein between the two of them, that's her stepping outside her realm of control. If he can't do it, she should just not enable the situation and walk.

    Who knows if THIS woman would be the one to pull a knife and stab her with this kind of information. This is HIS actions towards her, therefor HIS responsibility. Let him do it. It'll come to him in time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    "Said girl" should leave married guy alone. "Said girl" also doens't know what goes on in married guys house with HIS wife, because "said girl" is not there..Married guy could say anything to keep "said girl"...

    Agreed with the others, leave him alone!
    YES! I hate when people believe what they want to hear. Of course he's going to tell you that you are better than his wife and how she doesn't love him anymore... she's so mean to him... whatever. Maybe it is true, maybe he's lying to get a second helping of ass.



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    He is having his cake and eating it too. No woman, wife or mistress deserves a piece of shit like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus View Post
    I don't think she should intervein between the two of them, that's her stepping outside her realm of control. If he can't do it, she should just not enable the situation and walk.

    Who knows if THIS woman would be the one to pull a knife and stab her with this kind of information. This is HIS actions towards her, therefor HIS responsibility. Let him do it. It'll come to him in time.
    Wait, Masty, you're misunderstanding me. I would never advise her to tell the wife. I was simply stating that she should leave him alone as the common courtesy.

    IOW, I agree with ya darlin'!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sleepyboy View Post
    I agree. He is a douche, but why is it all the guys fault? The girl is 50% guilty as well...
    IMO NOTHING or ANYONE comes between true love. Respect your S.O. There are many ppl who hit on ppl who are taken, and it's the person involved in the serious relationship resposibility 100% NOT to betray their S.O. in any way, shape, or form. For that, just have the decency to dump the person before doing that behind thier back.

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    Get out of the mess before more people get hurt .

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    Quote Originally Posted by blueyegurl_05 View Post
    ok so heres the thing theres a guy thats married that is cheating on his wife the girl he is cheating with has fallen for him she doesnt love him but cares alot for him an lately cant stop thinking about him. we all know its wrong because he is married but sometimes you can't help what happens or how you feel. she wonders if maybe she should tell him or just keep playing like she doesn't care. what is sime good advice on this situation?
    I'm sure your case is *totally different* from any other situation of cheating husband and mistress-with-feelings. Yes, this is the case where it's good to shatter a family and fuck around with your own life. In all the other cases, this might be seen as a bad thing. But in this specific instance, it seems like the right thing to do is continue to ball around with a married man.

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    I'm amazed no one has pointed this person to read

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=60945

    Get this girl to read the above post and re-read it until she "gets it".

    She deserves so so so much better.


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    yea, i agree with everyone else. leave before it's too late and 3 people's lives are ruined.

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    Leave it alone, you deserve better than a cheating dog. If he was a man and he was unhappy he would end his marriage BEFORE pursuing another woman.

    I also hate it when I hear women say things like "but his wife/girlfriend is a bitch and treats him like shit" or "he is only staying for the kids" - seriously no excuse will do. End the marriage and be a man.

    As for the woman in this situation, dont let him have his cake and eat it too.

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